Not married but girlfriend of almost 2 years dumped me a few days ago, gave a few dumb reasons, but now I found out she has a new b/f already and was obviously probably working on it while she was still with me. In a way it feels kind of like closure because for the past few days i've been confused, wondering if we could work it out or what really happened, but now I know the truth and feel somewhat better. I am still furious and hurt. Should I go show up and confront her about it or just let it go?
2007-11-04 08:33:49 · 10 answers · asked by Jack B 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Confront her about what? Do you think she cares what you think? She stopped caring about you a long time before she started shopping for the next turkey. All you can do now is decide if you want to embarass yourself by acting like an idiot when you should be happy some other loser is dating her now.
Stop being a loser, and go have a better life without her.
2007-11-04 08:56:29 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Just let it go. Confronting her would mean wasting effort since she "somehow" planned it all along to break up with you. Girls have ways to end the relationship in a subtle way, one of which is getting angry over a dumb reason. So if I were you, focus on moving on and meeting new people, besides she already replaced you with a new guy just a snap!
2007-11-04 08:46:47 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
What are you losing my friend? A lier? A cheater? A lady of no morals or sound character? A woman who obviuosly dosen't love you? Let it go, and be thankful you found out her true self now before you got into a marriage and had children with her and then be in a bigger mess. If she was cheating before she left you, I'm sure he knows he's getting no prize. He won't trust her because he realizes she is a cheater and he will be keeping a close eye on her. Eventually her true character will surface again.
2007-11-04 10:23:48 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
How serious were you? Was this relationship moving forward toward commitment? Did she want more, like a ring? There was an obvious misread here. Some soul searching is necessary here before YOU move on. You used the word marriage not me. Was that your goal? How about her's?
2007-11-04 08:56:25 · answer #4 · answered by Proverbs twenty7 7teen 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
let it go.. confronting her could make it a much bigger problem then it is right now.. you can just chalk it up as one of life's experiences and move on.. you know her real feeling because she showed that to you doing what shes doing.. actions speak louder then words. no words from her will make it better. so its time for you to make new female friends and move on.. good luck
2007-11-04 08:41:46 · answer #5 · answered by Kat 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't confront her... this is a rebound relationship for your girlfriend and they rarely ever work out...
You are better off without her. Move on, yes.
Take care of YOU... sorry for your pain.
2007-11-04 08:42:27 · answer #6 · answered by letterstoheather 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just let it go. We have all gone through something like this and it the worse kind of pain you can imagine. Concentrate on your needs to step back for a while and nurture yourself and then you can pursue another relationship.
2007-11-04 08:39:45 · answer #7 · answered by curiouscanadian 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Let it go .. if u ever try to contact her or talk to her again it will make u look desperate when u r better off without her
2007-11-04 08:51:57 · answer #8 · answered by Maria 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Confront her about what? She didn't feel about you the way you felt about her. It happens.
So move on and find someone that's a better match.
2007-11-04 13:31:28 · answer #9 · answered by Duneman69 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
WHY would you confront her about it? It's over...time to move on
2007-11-04 13:12:40 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋