how can i stop bein a jeaolus wife?

Answer 1

If God is in the center of your relationship, if you and your husband put God first, then the closer you get to God, the closer you will come together as husband and wife.

The more you love and trust Jesus, the more you realize that jealousy doesn't have a place in your life. Keep your eyes of Jesus.

Answer 2

Jealousy is a self-esteem issue. Now if he's doing things that are disrespectful to your marriage then give him a verbal a$$ kicking.
However, if he's a good man and you are just jealous because he's a man, then you need to look at yourself and say "why?" When you answer that, then you will know how to stop.
I'm not a model, but I know my husband thinks I'm beautiful and that makes me feel like a million dollars!. If your husband thinks that about you, then you have somewhere to start when it comes to feeling better about yourself.
Bottom line though, only you can get rid of the insecurities you have about yourself, if you didn't have them, then you wouldn't be worried about "someone taking your man" or your man "wanting someone else". That's where the jealous behavior comes from, fear, which comes from not feeling good enough.
Talk to your doctor, sound crazy, but they could refer you to someone that could help.

Answer 3

That is an emotion that you are going to have to control on your own. I can tell you from experience that a jealous person is very hard to live with. I am not jealous of my spouse at all because I lived with my first husband for years and he was so jealous I couldn't even look around in a resteraunt cause he thought I was looking at another guy and most of the time I wasn't but if I was it shouldn't have been a big deal. He would check the milege on my car. He knew what time I left work and that it took me about 18-20 min to get home if I was late I was screwing someone. He controlled what I wore. He didn't like me wearing make up. I mean living with a jealous person is really miserable. Ask yourself, do I want to make my spouse miserable? Of course not you want to make him happy. Jealousy will just drive him away from you, not to mention make him want to cheat just to be able to have a decent conversation with someone. I see jealousy like this. My current spouse I love with all my heart he is my partner in life we are tottally happy with one another. I can't see spending days wondering what he is doing, who he is talking to and so forth. To me that is not a marriage that would be me trying to control him and I don't want that. I want a partner in life someone I can share everything with and not have to worry about saying or doing the wrong thing that would upset my spouse. It is not good coming home to a spouse that you have to walk on eggshells around cause your afraid you will do or say the wrong thing. You have to control this emotion to be able to stop it.

Answer 4

if you figure it out let me know. he says i don't have anything to stress out about and i say i do. some of the things he does gives in insecurities. i've tried to tell him that but he wont listen. so it's not always your fault. he works from he's gone when i get up and usually home about bedtime or sometimes it's after 1;30. he runs a trucking co. but not the only one in the office

Answer 5

WEll, if your husband is giving you reason to be jealous, then you need to take your issues up with him.

If he has given you no reason to distrust him, however, then you need to focus on having more confidence and trust in your relationship. He chose YOU , after all.

Answer 6

what is he doing that makes you jealous? Can't answer an open ended question like that

Answer 7

learn to trust him . that.s what marrage is about one of the main things is trust. my opion?

Answer 8

I don't know, but I'm glad I'm not the only one