the man i love tell me he watch me for over 3years before we got together,what do you think about this.
2007-11-04 16:08:01 · 11 answers · asked by Janet H 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
I think it depends on what you mean by watching you. If he saw you out in public and couldn't take his eyes off of you because he thought you beautiful..that would be flattering. BUT if he sat outside your house or actively followed you around being sneaky..that is a red flag most definately.
2007-11-04 16:32:11 · answer #1 · answered by Laceyfromcali 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He probably didn't really mean he WATCHED you for 3 years. Some people say things like this because they think it is romantic and will make you say, "aww, how sweet." It's just a way for him to show his love and devotion to you..things like this shouldn't be taken so literally. Unless of course, he pulls out photos of your every move, contact, purchase, whereabouts etc over the past 3 years without your knowledge..only THEN would you have a problem. lol =)
2007-11-05 03:02:09 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think he's creepy and a stalker. I'd watch out for signs of control, jealousy, anger, possessiveness etc. Basically, I'd see it as a precursor for future abuse and question my love for the guy versus my need for security.
2007-11-04 16:12:00 · answer #3 · answered by some female 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should be flattered! For someone to admire another from a distance that long says something for their commitment. He must be truly hung up on you.
2007-11-04 16:17:12 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
well thats half creepy half sweet. Just keep your wits about you making sure he's of sound mind you know
2007-11-05 01:32:44 · answer #5 · answered by sarah W 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i wouldnt think anything but that wow i didnt know you liked me for so long. good luck
2007-11-04 16:12:50 · answer #6 · answered by Kat 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sounds like love nothing really to worry about. my opion?
2007-11-04 17:16:59 · answer #7 · answered by the_silverfoxx 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sooooooooooooooooooooooooooooo what
2007-11-04 16:18:07 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
I think I would be creeped out......
2007-11-04 16:11:22 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
creepy
haha
2007-11-04 16:11:28 · answer #10 · answered by Natta Catta 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋