Marriage & Divorce - 2 November 2007

Am I a cad to lust for one of my neighbors my wife should of been dead at least 6 monts ago as per the DR's and has cancer for over a year now. I have been the good husband doing what she deserves to have done because of my love for her but when i see my neighbor I want to go and ask her out for lunch. The only thing that keeps me sane is that if the shoe was on the other foot I would not mind her doing it. I will take care of her to the end but if I lose the opportunity to connect with this person i think i might lose twice pls help with some decent answer's I don't need any wise (__l__) 's !!! ty

2007-11-02 09:25:54 · 23 answers · asked by Anonymous

Hi I just got married one 1/2 years ago and unfortunately my sexual life is almost GONE. My husband doesn't wanna have sex as often as I would like...I dont know what happened we used to do it every day more than once but since we got married it started to slow down really fast. We both travel a lot but even when we haven't seen each other in a few days he doesn't wanna do it....At night he just wanna watch TV and he's always tired....I'm really disappointed and I've talk to him several times so he reacts for a day or two and then we're back to the same NO SEX LIFE....I feel really depressed and actually if I had new it would be like this I wouldn't have married him, he's great and I love him, but I'm not ready to quit the SEX. I dont want to cheat but I guess he can be without sex and I can't. Will this will end up our marriage? I hear a lot of people saying they have a lot sex and my married friends are in the same situation than me..What's wrong????

2007-11-02 09:16:53 · 35 answers · asked by bellotaballados 1

I have been with my guy for 3 years and we recently bought a house together. We are very much in love and he tells me he can't wait to get married and have kids, yet he hasn't proposed yet. What is he waiting for?

2007-11-02 09:07:04 · 9 answers · asked by fifi7500 1

I just watched it. And it's the most sexist thing I have ever seen.
1st. They are made out to be independant women making it without their husbands. But yet the plot is to steal their husbands money (because they could never be able to make it on their own?)
2nd. Diane Keatons daughter says 'Dad, Im a lesbian!' to get back at him. Why are men made out to be the ones who have a problem with it?
3rd. First wives club - what about men who have been cheated on?
4th. I hate it !

2007-11-02 09:06:43 · 7 answers · asked by Answer Me This 1

me and my boss have a great relationship. he is happily married with kids and so am i. we always go to lunch together and talk about anything and everything. there is absolutely nothing between us.....only friendship. I am 28 and he is 53(looks really good for his age). today when we were out to lunch (we go to lunch together at least once a week) he mentioned that there is a stripclub couple of blocks away from where we work. he thought it would be really fun if we went there for lunch. and asked if i wanted to go. i didnt say anything. i dont think that's appropriate. what do you think?
i think its wrong and i am not planning on going...also, i know for a fact that my husband would agree with me that's inappropriate and would not want me to go.

p.s. by boss is an attorney and i am his secretary

2007-11-02 09:02:14 · 26 answers · asked by Anonymous

I don't understand why men like a mate more if others are lusting over her. Whereis the sense of privacy and dignity?

2007-11-02 09:01:12 · 11 answers · asked by S T 2

i was with my b/f for 3 years...i did everything for him..i gave him everything in me..he never really could give me 100% there was mnay problems in the realtionship..well i had broken up with him before for 2 months no contact and even dated another guy...i went back...all in all i broke up with him maybe 5 times but always went back. well finally i broke it off for good i was more then done with him and did not let him contact me for 40 days...then i let him email me..it was the same i need you i miss you crap...its been 2 months now and everyday im getting a email saying how much he loves me and how sorry he is and how wrong he was...i broke up with him before and he couldnt change..so why now? i was dead serious before and it was good for like a week when i came back..so what the heck why cant he just leave me alone..if he really loved me as much as he says wouldnt he have tried to keep me around..i dont get it...

2007-11-02 08:51:59 · 23 answers · asked by *Lovely 2* 2

2007-11-02 08:50:20 · 13 answers · asked by alphabetsoup2 5

my mom cheated on my dad and she moved out with my sister and brother so ive been living with my dad the past few months.. and got really close but then my sister moved in ( me and my dad had been going to a pentecostal church for the last 6 months) im still going.. hes still attending but ive been crying myself to sleep cause he says icant say anything about what hes been doing and hes been going out to bars getting drunk and it really hurts me inside. ive moved to my moms a couple times for the weekend but i just moved yesterday and am more upset and missing my dad then ever. I moved all my stuff its officiol but ijsut want my parents to get back together!!! it would make my dad so happy and all the kids and im sure my mom woul be happy again. i know god can work miricles please help this be one of them!! need advice too.

2007-11-02 08:49:18 · 18 answers · asked by juliii 1

why do guys cheat on thier wifes? and after they say they are sorry and wont do it again.. they watch porn and promise not to do it again....????

2007-11-02 08:47:06 · 23 answers · asked by Anonymous

I would like a simple "yes" or "no" and you age and if you are a man or woman.

If you want to include the number of years married is up to you.

I'm very interested in the results of the answers.

2007-11-02 08:45:44 · 27 answers · asked by snack_daddy10 6

What should I do?

2007-11-02 08:39:48 · 38 answers · asked by Anonymous

So here's the deal. His mom is coming from out of town for Thanksgiving. She and I are close, she's my kid's Grandma and all. I will be picking her up at the airport on Sunday, she will stay with me until Wednesday, when I am going out of town to have the holiday with my boyfriends family. So, anyway, the ex lives across town in a tiny studio apartment, I live in a three bedroom house, big enough dining room, kitchen, etc. I have had the standpoint with the mom that I didn't want the ex in my house when I wasn't there. The reason for this is probably residual bitterness: to understate things, he wasn't that nice to me when we were together. It has been a while(about a year and a half) and we have been lately been getting along a little better. I kind of think it would be gracious of me to offer my house for just that day, so they don't have to be cramped for Thanksgiving dinner. But I am torn!

Do I offer this or do I not?????

2007-11-02 08:23:12 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous

My husband and I work at the same company. I am his boss. He was supposed to turn in a project last Monday and he didn't. I had to make an example of him to avoid being unfair to the others, so I suspended him for two weeks without pay. He doesn't talk to me anymore at home! How do I explain to him that work and personal life should not be mixed?

2007-11-02 08:20:47 · 23 answers · asked by Anonymous

how many of you would have a sexual affair, how many you already have and how many of you fantasize about it?

2007-11-02 08:16:20 · 17 answers · asked by Matthew (Go STEELERS!) 2

i mean if i want to marry a woman, does it is necessary to marry her ?

2007-11-02 08:16:07 · 14 answers · asked by seeker 2

Ok, here's the deal. I've only been married for 9 months. I am to the point where i can't stand to be around him anymore. He drives me crazy. I don't want to kiss him, hug him, or even at him.I don't know how to tell him. I'm afarid he will go crazy on me or something. Then on the other hand i've been close with this other guy for about a year now. He finally reveled to me that he is totally in love with me and when he gets back from iraq. He wants us to be together. What do i do?

2007-11-02 08:14:59 · 23 answers · asked by Anonymous

It was an email in response to his, seemingly, in which she told him she thought he was a "hot guy" and said she wanted to chat with him on Messenger to get to know him better.

What is the best way to respond? I have her email address. What would YOU say to her?

2007-11-02 08:14:25 · 23 answers · asked by Solstice 6

Is it wrong to like someone that is ENGAGED or someone who just has a girlfriend..
I`m only asking because i had this situation before with this guy..When he was with someone..& i don`t know if it was wrong or not.
Well anways The guy that i was talking to he has been missing for like a month.And nobody knows where he is. When i call him he doesn`t answer my parents think he got into drugs..He is 23 btw..& if my parents ever found out about what went on between me & him i would Get into so much trouble..
I just wanna know if its wrong to b liking someone 0r wanting to **** em when he is engaged..
Thanksz for the answers!
Btw i`m 15
Please no rude comments!

2007-11-02 08:08:08 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-11-02 08:02:25 · 30 answers · asked by Rose 5

We used to go to the movies a lot until we had kids, now we hardly get out of the house at all, but tonight, we have the inlaws watching the kids overnight and we are sort of at a loss as to what to do? Also, we are on a tight budget and live the the outer-Chicago area.

2007-11-02 07:53:10 · 7 answers · asked by MommyToo 4

An elderly gent in Perth Scotland has popped the question to what he calls "his bidy-in" at the age of 96... the lady in question is a mere 74 years old.... I think this is a real heart-warming story. The local Registrar says that he could be the oldest person to marry.

2007-11-02 07:48:33 · 34 answers · asked by Anonymous

My mother inlaw is always telling me that I am going to have to learn to let things go in order to have peace of mind. She also tells me that I have to realize that men are different. We don’t go into great detail about my relationship, but I have shared certain details with her in hopes of understanding why my husband is the way he is. I was telling her how he has no understanding and how he is never interested in taking care of business (when it comes to discussing bills and issues that have come up). I also mentioned the fact that he will wear his work boots and shoes until they’re coming apart, and that I have to go out and buy them because he refuses to. She basically said well if you want him to have new clothes and shoes, go buy it. That’s what I do for his dad. You can’t make him do it.

2007-11-02 07:29:45 · 11 answers · asked by Hoping he will bless me with #1 4

Okay, men never seize to amaze me.

I was on the phone with my boy and somehow we started talking about sex. Now I have no idea how but the subject about this guy I had sex with all the way in March came up. Now, my boy and I were just friends in March so it's not like I cheated on him or anything and actually he had sex with someone in April. I mean we weren't together so why even bother with it. Well, he got extremely mad and blew his freakin top. He started yelling and telling me that I really don't care about him and I was just "running game", and he went on and on about how stupid he felt and how I was just a liar and that I really didn't have feelings for him. OMG,, We weren't even together and get this.........when I said "well what about you and the girl you had sex with in April"..he replied with......."I'm a man, it's different"

LOL....no, he's a jerk. so here's my question...

What in the hell is wrong with men?

2007-11-02 07:28:25 · 19 answers · asked by Tnisha 1

You know the drill. A woman wants to stay a virgin. She and the guy end up marrying at 18-21 just to have sex. They usually end up divorced by 25. I'm suprised by how many men marry just for sex at that age.

2007-11-02 07:27:40 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous

I found a naked picture of a friend of ours on my husband's phone, that he took. When I asked him about it, he explained that she'd lost in pool bet, and that was her 'payment'. Does anyone find this okay at all? (She's openly had a thing for him since we all met)

2007-11-02 07:20:17 · 30 answers · asked by Amy C 2

to the ladies: how would you react if your husband put his head on your boobie and slept there for the entire night whenever he had a bad day at work or had a bad dream or whatever?

2007-11-02 07:19:58 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous

My wife told me the other day that she loves me, but she also said she was not in love with me anymore. I have never cheated or even been tempted, i make sure to stay away from those situations. She says she doesn't know what she wants. We have been together for almost 9 years. i love her very much and don't want to lose her to what ever is going on inside of her. she says it is not me and that i am doing everything right. i am so lost. i can't imagine her not being there with me. we have no kids. she said her feelings changed about 6 months ago. i can't think of anything i did to change the way she would feel about me.

2007-11-02 07:17:05 · 48 answers · asked by king mike 1

My brother is a truck driver. Only home every other weekend. Wife out of the blue wants a divorce. He does a credit report and finds out she forged his name to several credit cards, ran up about 60K in debt, forged and cleaned out his life insurance policy, and also (she was filing seperately) had a 25K IRS tax lean against house. She's didn't file her taxes a year or two.

His divorce lawyer doesn't seem too versed in bankruptcy law. Here's the situation: Court ordered her to assume about $47,000 of the $60,000 in credit card debt. When house is sold, they both clear about $50K a piece. IRS gets about 30K of hers. Credit card companies are threatening garnishing his wages. She is "hiding" from them. If he charges her with credit fraud she'll lose her nursing job (can't have a felony as a nurse) and he'd get custody of the kid. He doesn't want to do that but may have no choice. How can he get them off his back since she's signed a court order saying she's responsible? Bankruptcy? Etc

2007-11-02 07:12:16 · 18 answers · asked by Just Me 1

This money is actually solely under his name. In actuality it was not a gift.. it is actually his parents money that they do not want under their name.. hiding it from the IRA...

Is the money fair game?? I do not want it.. but he is fighting me for other things so I want to know where I stand.

2007-11-02 07:11:25 · 19 answers · asked by Miami_Babe 2