What should I do?
2007-11-02 08:39:48 · 38 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
You need to make a decision...
Do you want to stay married or not?
2007-11-02 08:42:09 · answer #1 · answered by Royalhinney 7 · 1⤊ 2⤋
That is a question that we cant answer but you have to.. Seeing as where you are married how oh how would you be able to fall in love with someone with out cheating? Kids involved? How long married? Love husband? These are questions you shouod be asking yourself???? Is this new love married? What will be the repercushions from getting caught or getting a divorce... Sit down with a pencil and paper and (by you self) write down the pros and cons of a relation ship.. Good lucki.. Grant M inPennsylvania
2007-11-02 12:16:17 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
convinced,that's disappointing if love turns bitter in spite of the indisputable fact that it does ensue.Little ladies are raised with the Cinderella and Snow White thoughts and that is what they arrive to have self assurance is the superb dream.it is merely it in spite of the indisputable fact that,they're merely fairy thoughts.no longer something is written in stone.It takes 2 to make a wedding ceremony paintings and if one isn't doing their area then it is going undesirable.it is actuality.in case you and your guy are consistently arguing,do not believe eachother and counseling has executed no good,then that's likely time to end it.Alot of folk have extreme hopes for marriage and love being perpetually.you aren't to any extent further on my own.actuality says it would want to bypass both way.perhaps the actual undeniable actuality that your mum and dad were married for 40 years has led to you to seek that for your self as well.no longer all adult adult males replace thoroughly at the same time as they get married so do not even imagine that way.and do not bypass right into a clean relationship awaiting an on the spot replay of the only you merely were given out of.that's placing your self up for failure.there is continuously a blind area contained in the starting up the position your loved can do no incorrect and has no faults.Then at the same time as it cools down some and your time has handed actuality gadgets in and each and every of the little undesirable habit,etc. come out.it is the genuine attempt.in spite of the actuality that you ensure to do,good success to you and in case you'll discover the midsection floor between the clouds and the complicated chilly international,each and every of the more advantageous.
2016-10-23 06:55:15 · answer #3 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You have to think about EVERYONE involved. These questions may help, just answer them.
1. Are their children involved? (Whether it be you or the other man)If there are children think about how it will affect them.
2. Think how it will effect your husband.
3. Does the other man love you too, or does he just want to be friends? (DON'T go ending your marriage just yet)
4. Is he married, and is he willing to get a divorce?
5. Do you really love him or is it a fling?
6. Is he worth losing your husband for?
7. Are you as serious as you think you are?
8. If the man that you are growing to love says he does want to get together is HE really SERIOUS?
Those are just somethings to think about. Think this through VERY carefully before making any drastic decision! Good luck and I hope you make the right decision.
2007-11-02 09:43:19 · answer #4 · answered by Hes just a boy & Im just a girl 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
How old are you? Marriage today is treated like a disposable 'thing' and I find it very disturbing that so many people THINK ABOUT DIVORCE before the wedding!
What is the point of getting married if you think, "If it doesn't work out, I can trade him/her in."
Right fromt eh start THAT MARRIAGE IS DOOMED!!
What happened to Till Death Do us Part??
Seek help for your marriage, and stay away from this other man, tell your husband about him, have HIM HELP YOU get your bearings straight again!!
2007-11-02 08:50:38 · answer #5 · answered by Tonia M 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You are not falling in love with him. You are being caught up in an attraction and reading more into it. You are married, and you love your husband.
I had a friend once send me an email about this kind of thing, I met a man at work and told my friend it was like being hit by lightning. He said: "If you feel like you are being hit by lightning-RUN!
Have you ever seen a person that has been hit by lightning? They can be burned from head to toe, their nervous system is fried, and their heart stops! Doesn't sound like love to me!"
He's a wonderful man, maybe hot, maybe sexually attractive-but he's not your man. I followed through on my lightning, and ruined two families - and I have no idea where 'lightning' is at-and have had no contact with him for years. Its not worth it!
That's why its called temptation.....
2007-11-02 08:57:54 · answer #6 · answered by Daisy 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
You should end this liason with this man right now. If you value your marriage, then tell this man you cannot see him anymore and you have to think about what you are doing. If you do not love your husband, then tell him you want a separation and a divorce...but having an affair will destroy you and your marriage. It is one or the other. Make a decision.
2007-11-02 09:39:56 · answer #7 · answered by cardgirl2 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Try to think about why you married your husband. He must have made you feel the same way if you married him. They say marriage is the funnest in the beginning and then . . . but that doesn't mean that you can just turn around and start over with someone else! It's unfair and selfish to do that to someone who you made a very big commitment with. Don't throw it all away for something stupid.
2007-11-02 08:44:38 · answer #8 · answered by ANT-a-gonistic 3 · 4⤊ 0⤋
STAY AWAY FROM HIM... you married your husband for a reason, the fact that you ask this question shows that you probably weren;t ready for marriage and should have thought about that before you signed the papers... what can this man provide for you or do for you that your huband doesn't or can't? You should go see Tyler Perry's movie "Why did I get married?" But you should stay away from this man because he;s just temptation.
2007-11-02 08:45:01 · answer #9 · answered by antoinette m 2 · 3⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like you weren't ready to get married...gosh, this is just like the girl Jerry Seinfeld ended up marrying, she had recently gotten married and then they met and her husband was history. Marriage is about love, if you don't love your husband you have to follow your heart.
2007-11-02 12:21:09 · answer #10 · answered by Amy 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
To all who use the words "falling in love". "Falling in love or "Being in Love with the person" comes in a relationship AFTER couples have overcome trials, hardships, and tests in the relationship. Try to find a solution with your marriage or you will continue this cycle. If you want to pursue the new person, let your husband know and give him the chance to bail on you or put up with it. DON'T be selfish. LUCK
2007-11-02 09:05:14 · answer #11 · answered by Respuesta 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋