I have been with my guy for 3 years and we recently bought a house together. We are very much in love and he tells me he can't wait to get married and have kids, yet he hasn't proposed yet. What is he waiting for?
2007-11-02 09:07:04 · 9 answers · asked by fifi7500 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
He says he's waiting for the "perfect" moment.
2007-11-02 09:12:25 · update #1
Maybe he wants to wait long enough he can allow you a little bit of a "surprise" moment. (?)
But I would agree with the ladies... no sense in fretting, especially if you're doing something as serious as going in on a house together... ask your man.
Wish you the very best.
2007-11-02 09:14:42 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
ASK HIM. MY SWEETHEART AND I ARE ENGAGED AFTER 3 MONTHS .WE HAVE BOUGHT A HOUSE AND ARE GETTING MARRIED NEXT YEAR. TALK WITH HIM IS THE ONLY WAY TO FIND OUT
2007-11-02 16:14:17 · answer #2 · answered by kdrck1 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Actually, he's not ready yet. He's not sure how much more you'll change, as the house has changed you (and him) and he's in no rush. Why should he be, and he needs to be sure!
2007-11-02 16:23:22 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Have you talked to him about it? Have you asked him what he's waiting for? There's nothing wrong with discussing marriage with your significant other.
2007-11-02 16:12:20 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
" no need to buy the cow, when the milk is free"
Tell him it's time .. you're tired of being the kept woman, you're going to pick out a dress...
He should arrange for the minister and start looking for a best man...
2007-11-02 16:15:03 · answer #5 · answered by Sophie B 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
ask him.....Maybe he thinks if you get married you will want kids right away? Not sure...Sorry you will have to ask the only one who can answer your question....
2007-11-02 16:11:39 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Because he doesn't want to. Ever consider that? He has what he wants.
2007-11-02 16:12:49 · answer #7 · answered by ron-D 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to ask him not us, how are we suppose to know?
2007-11-02 16:10:20 · answer #8 · answered by Ms. M 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
{shakes} crazy8ball: slowly turns it over.
A: outlook not good.
2007-11-02 16:12:44 · answer #9 · answered by gypsy g 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋