I don't understand why men like a mate more if others are lusting over her. Whereis the sense of privacy and dignity?
2007-11-02 09:01:12 · 11 answers · asked by S T 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Its an issue of value. They lack the security to trust in their own sense of worth. They need other to justify their sense of worth is correct.
2007-11-02 09:12:57 · answer #1 · answered by snack_daddy10 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Oogling is a personal impression. Being proud of a good looking woman is something else.
2007-11-02 09:26:18 · answer #2 · answered by bocasbeachbum 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it seems that the ogling gives the wife a more intrinsic value to know that shes hot and others would like her sounds weird but its true sometimes i catch guys stareing at my wifes boobs and kinda makes me proud to be the (owner )of said rack but had a guy pull out a cam phone and took pics that i think was too much
2007-11-02 09:11:41 · answer #3 · answered by the_orc_1 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
My husband loves it when we are together and I turn other men's heads. It is public validation that he has a hot woman. Yeah, kinda cavemanish, but it makes him feel good to know he has what others want. Simply human nature.
2007-11-02 09:32:09 · answer #4 · answered by Really now 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I love it when men lust after my woman. It lets her know that I'm not the only one saying she's attractive and I'm not just saying it to make her feel good. It's because she's friggin hot! (Thanks for the help guys) Also, it's an ego booster for me to have other guys lust after my woman. It makes me feel like they are jealous of me and they want to be me, if just for one night. It's nice to be admired and adored. Everyone involved gets something they like out of it. It's a win/win for everyone.
2007-11-02 09:16:00 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Don't want it to happen, but it does sometimes. Price of being married to a beautiful woman I guess. But it has nothing to do with making me like her more, that's just silly.
2007-11-02 09:11:45 · answer #6 · answered by D D 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
some guys like to flaunt their 'property' in front of others just to let people know that it's theirs. But my husband asks the same thing, why? He gets mad when other guys ogle me so he can't figure it out.
2007-11-02 09:14:24 · answer #7 · answered by antoinette m 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I think it makes them feel better about themselves.. Like I have a woman who's hot enough to get someone elses attention. that kinds thing.
2007-11-02 09:11:14 · answer #8 · answered by mickey 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
for one thing the second he mentions something liike that this self-respector has just become a non sensible jerk. This is not an everyday thing..... Please dont think all men do this...... This is isoloated..
2007-11-02 12:06:56 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
they are viewing them as trophys instead of their wife.
2007-11-02 09:05:08 · answer #10 · answered by beachgirl90 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋