how many of you would have a sexual affair, how many you already have and how many of you fantasize about it?
2007-11-02 08:16:20 · 17 answers · asked by Matthew (Go STEELERS!) 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Never, or why be married? Sure everyone fantasizes, but they're fantasies, and it stops at that. There is always an alternative to cheating. Usually its communication.
2007-11-02 08:25:49 · answer #1 · answered by Adams Chick 2 · 2⤊ 1⤋
I've never had an affair.
I do fantasize about it sometimes but I'm 99% sure I would never do anything.
Married 6 years....ups and downs....but wouldnt have it any other way.
2007-11-02 15:22:03 · answer #2 · answered by Summer 4 · 2⤊ 1⤋
Ok, I'll be honest, during my first marriage, after asking numerous times for a divorce w/no response, I had what started out as an emotional affair that became sexual, it was the catalyst to my ultimate divorce. I am remarried, and prior to our marriage, my current husband cheated on me for 4 mos., talk about Karma, I gave him a second, which was actually his 5th chance due to cheating, it was very emotionally exhausting for both of us which funny, my exhusband, who I cheated on, and have two children with remain very friendly with, have know eachother for over 20 years and of course our children, was my counselor, very sad I know, but that situation opened my eyes and my ex and I had a heart to heart where I literally said "If you felt half as bad as I do right now, I am truly sorry," we made, I made amends. I have never had the desire to do it again, I love my husband (current) and while we have a very interesting yet volatile marriage, would never do it again.
2007-11-02 17:54:56 · answer #3 · answered by Dolly J 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋
None, I have been happy married for 21 years. No fantasizes about it either.
2007-11-02 15:34:22 · answer #4 · answered by cpo1medic 2 · 0⤊ 2⤋
i have-i am still married too-we had a real rough patch of about four damn years-i was tired of being neglected so i took care of it.I wasn't right in hindsight- but it sure felt right then.now he knows that the same can be done to him(he cheated on me twice before) and he's so much more attentive.amazing the lengths you have to go to in order to keep your marriage together.
2007-11-02 15:28:23 · answer #5 · answered by berlytea 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I have never had an affair, nor would I, nor do I fantasize about it...sorry to be so boring!
2007-11-02 15:20:06 · answer #6 · answered by Mrs. Jack Sparrow ♥ 5 · 3⤊ 2⤋
I will be honest. I never have, I probably never would even given the opportunity, but I HAVE thought about it. Come on, girls, who wouldn't f**k Brad Pitt's brains out? LOL...Not with a "real" person, though, no I haven't thought about it.
2007-11-02 15:23:00 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 1⤋
When I took those vows, I took them seriously and w/God in them.
I didn't get married to do what I could have done when I was single.
2007-11-02 15:27:48 · answer #8 · answered by Karma Eve 5 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Never I love my husband to much.
2007-11-02 15:19:55 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 1⤋
Just about every day, but I'd never act on it.....
2007-11-02 15:37:13 · answer #10 · answered by Amy C 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋