2007-11-02 08:02:25 · 30 answers · asked by Rose 5 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Trust, communication, respect. And love!
2007-11-02 08:04:55 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 1⤋
I have come to realize the foundation of a SOLID friendship is key to a lifelong marriage. Many, including myself, have jumped into relationships and intimacy way too soon. I have a friend I have known for over 10 years, and I have always maintained she is a sweetheart, attractive, and has an awesome spirit and nothing keeps her down, but never saw or felt anything more than friendship. She has brittle bones so is 95% in a wheel chair. It all started just hanging out as friends and I swear, we both were not looking to one another for a relationship. Then, after about 3 months of hanging out, with NO affection, other then a friendly hug "hello" and "good bye", BAM!!!!! We have a great time together, the affection is true and exciting, and there is true trust, honesty, and support. I am only 36 yrs young, and I have had many girlfriends/relationships, but now see I really did not have a solid friendship. I think I have found the answer to a lifelong if not marriage, but relationship. Luck and blessings to all.
2007-11-02 08:56:26 · answer #2 · answered by Respuesta 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Dear Sonal, I feel that it was not love but a mere attraction. Not necessary that the attraction needs to be physically or sexually, it can be even that, u start loving some one because he is caring you.!! But did you cross checked whether you have things in common or will you be really happy ? Now forget the past !! So now you need to understand is that communication is the backbone of every relationship. If it breaks, relationship breaks. Above all you are gifted with a small baby boy, so for his future you need to come together, share some points, try to talk to each other and one more thing, keep calm. Men some time don't like that you know people interfere in their life so you need to have "Sakshi -bhav" and also "Sahan-shilta" don't get angry or panic if he tries to scold you out. Try giving as much as love you can give to him, don't forget husband is just like a child, some times angry, ugly, bad but still innocent and still loving. So don't let go the fragrance in the relation and one day for sure you will be a good couple. And don't loose hope don't get depressed , every morning you should have faith in yourself as well as in divine. May god bless you all.
2016-05-27 01:51:29 · answer #3 · answered by helena 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Trust, commitment - blah blah blah....
How about a healthy dose of denial and the ability to share a remote control without shedding blud when the ball game is on.
2007-11-02 08:09:54 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
I've been married 21 years. My wife and I love each other more deeply and argue less now than ever. The secret to this is both to be someone and to marry someone who never stops striving to improve himself or herself. Always try to make yourself a better person. Always work toward understanding your spouse better. Always learn new things, like new communication skills. Life should be about learning and growing, maturing and improving.
Now, if both of you share this philosophy, each of you will become a better and better partner for the other one as the years go by. You will therefore have less and less to argue about. Furthermore, like me, you will wake up one day and realize, "Of course I love my wife! She's a better woman now than the day I married her." In my case, my wife is more educated, more sexually adventurous, more self-confident, and has better verbal skills than she did 21 years ago. So how could I NOT love her more deeply than ever!?!
2007-11-02 08:09:05 · answer #5 · answered by Happy-2 5 · 1⤊ 1⤋
i have been with my hubby for 22yrs.. since high school. we have 2 teenagers together. we share everything. no lies, no secrets, faithfull, care, love, u must treat each other with respect. a great marriage is something u work on every day. u talk and LISTEN to each other, never go away mad from each other.. no matter how bad the truth will hurt its better then a lie...
2007-11-02 08:41:14 · answer #6 · answered by kitttkat2001 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
A marriage is truely successful when the husband has a lot of money
2007-11-02 08:11:04 · answer #7 · answered by нσℓℓуωσσ∂ ηєνєя ℓσσкє∂ тнιѕ gσσ∂ 5 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Nothing can beat Trust, and to be Forgiving. The extras are Love, affection and care which are optional.
2007-11-02 08:12:20 · answer #8 · answered by shrikantbhatt 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Sex & Money
Think about it. If one partner's needs are satisfied they are more likely to help out with everything else their partner needs & wants.
I didn't say anything about that need being sex or money. It works both ways.
2007-11-02 08:10:24 · answer #9 · answered by snack_daddy10 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Trust is the biggest key, if you cannot be honest and trust someone, you will have problems
2007-11-02 09:14:06 · answer #10 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋