It was an email in response to his, seemingly, in which she told him she thought he was a "hot guy" and said she wanted to chat with him on Messenger to get to know him better.
What is the best way to respond? I have her email address. What would YOU say to her?
2007-11-02 08:14:25 · 23 answers · asked by Solstice 6 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
BTW, I couldn't help but read the email, since it was delivered to an email address that we share.
Also, it hadn't occurred to me that it might be spam. Thank you for informing me, and thank you for your answers.
2007-11-02 09:23:15 · update #1
Make sure it's not spam, first.
Second if you know it's a real person. I'd answer the email and say this is his wife, he has changed his mind. OR you could leave it be and see where it goes. Trust or not, it will show you ALOT .. THEN talk with your hubbs.
Good Luck!
2007-11-02 09:01:33 · answer #1 · answered by Queenie` 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hmmm... =) I would tell her, "hello! this is his wife! do you know he is married? well, you know now! or perhaps you don't care if he's married??? I hope you get married one day and find an email just like this one in your husband's box...!!! or perhaps you are married too??? oh, I hope I get the chance to let your husband know you are up to no good behind his back! no, you can't chat w/ him on messenger!, and I am going to block you from sending him any more emails and/or messages! have a nice life!" "by the way, I know he's hot, and you have no business telling him such a thing! I will be the one getting to know him better tonight, and for the rest of his life...all his naked self and sexy... boy, don't you wish you had a piece of him??? too fn' bad, lady!!! dreammmmmmm on bye bye!!!" lolol...
2007-11-02 15:23:23 · answer #2 · answered by elvlayarvvi fEisty wife and mom 6 · 1⤊ 1⤋
I would ask him about it, but not say anything to her. The way i look at it, neither you or him can control other people being attracted you As long as he's not responding to her emails then i would just shrug it off, he's yours anyways..that should feel more like a compliment to you.
2007-11-02 15:25:40 · answer #3 · answered by brii 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
To her, nothing. To him, plenty of questions. He is the one talking to someone else over the net. He is the one that is not paying attention to you. He is the one that is being deceptive. He needs to hear something.
Am I being clear here? Sorry to sound sarcastic, but honestly in this day and time do people really think these e-mails are completely private? With kind regards....Finn.
2007-11-02 15:19:59 · answer #4 · answered by Finn 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I wouldn't say anything to her. She may not even know he's committed. I would DEFINATELY talk to him though. It takes two to tango, but he's the one who you should be talking to. Its your relationship, your man. He chose to e-mail this woman, its got nothing at all to do with her. Ignore her. This is part of your relationship by your man.
Sit him down, tell him what you found. It may just be a woman who thinks he's hot, and there's nothing else to it. But its better to be safe than sorry.
Good luck, I hope it all works out.
2007-11-02 15:23:18 · answer #5 · answered by kinkykiosk 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you should send an email and let her know that you man is married....
I have been talking to this guy for like 3 weeks.. I think he is married...
so sometime men just don't tell the girls they meet or chat with...what I hate is when the wife call me and screams at me...like I know...
anyway..............yes email her
2007-11-02 15:59:04 · answer #6 · answered by Sexy Cuban 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The most important thing to think about is the trust factor in this relationship on both parts.
Why do you feel you have to snoop around in HIS e-mail?
Why is he having contact w/another woman? (sounds like she stumbled upon him and not the other way)
You're going to have to answer to your mate why you're in his e-mail.
2007-11-02 15:36:06 · answer #7 · answered by Karma Eve 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if it was in response to an email he sent, then why are you still with him? hot guy? did he send her a pic? i'd send her a pic that contains you both (you and your bf/husband) and ask her if you guys could just slap her around and treat her like the lonely, desperate ***** that she seems to be. But i'd end things with my bf as well.
2007-11-02 15:19:45 · answer #8 · answered by furikuri405 1 · 3⤊ 0⤋
Ignore it. I get those kinds of emails all the time. They're just porn ads. Trust me.
I'm so glad my woman doesn't snoop through my email like you do with your man. She loves me and respects my privacy. I return the favor by not having anything in my mailbox that is inaapropriate. Trying being honest and trusting, and maybe he will too.
2007-11-02 15:19:38 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 2⤋
I would never find myself in my mate's mailbox. My husband and I have separate computers. In any case, I would say nothing to HER; if I had a problem with my mate's behavior, I would take it up directly with HIM.
2007-11-02 15:27:52 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋