Is it wrong to like someone that is ENGAGED or someone who just has a girlfriend..
I`m only asking because i had this situation before with this guy..When he was with someone..& i don`t know if it was wrong or not.
Well anways The guy that i was talking to he has been missing for like a month.And nobody knows where he is. When i call him he doesn`t answer my parents think he got into drugs..He is 23 btw..& if my parents ever found out about what went on between me & him i would Get into so much trouble..
I just wanna know if its wrong to b liking someone 0r wanting to **** em when he is engaged..
Thanksz for the answers!
Btw i`m 15
Please no rude comments!
2007-11-02 08:08:08 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Byw filthy He is really missing oK?
I don`t lie about that ****
2007-11-02 08:20:12 · update #1
Oh & him and his gf Cut of the marriage because it didn`t work out.
2007-11-02 08:21:21 · update #2
No it is not wrong, society has brainwashed people to beleive it is. Think about it logically, if the girl likes you more then she likes him then doesnt she deserve to be with you rather then the person who was with her first? Let her decide, but no it is not wrong. Dont take MY word for it though, my whole point is to decide for yourself what to do.
Wait 3 years until you act on it though.
2007-11-02 08:12:03 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
yes its wrong, if anyone female or male is in a "commited" relationship whether they are engaged, dating or married. If they have made a commitment to that other person then it is wrong. Respect yourself more then u are, you deserve to have someone that loves only you, and not make you the "other woman" , have more respect for other females, by realizing if you "loved" someone and another girl came in and knew u exsisted yet still helped in stealing ur man away from u, that u wouldnt want to do that yourself to another female. Also you are 15 , he is 23, that is a HUGE age gap, and he's no better then a man that does bad things to a 9 year old girl he would be considered a pedophile, I realize at 15 u think your all grown up but your not, your no different at 15 then u were at 9 just a LITTLE more mature but your still a child, be greatful he is out of your life, dont worry before you know it you'll be grown up to..so dont rush it enjoy being a kid because i promise you, one day u'll wish you could go back to this moment in your life..so be a kid and stop getting urself in adult situations..
Good luck..
2007-11-02 15:16:49 · answer #2 · answered by brwneyedgrl 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Not only wrong on one level but on several.
1- YOU are 15 you won't get into trouble he'll go to jail for rape.
2- YOU are toooooooooooo young to even be thinking about that kind of S H I T. Play the field. Have fun. DON'T get serious about any one guy, especially one over 18.
3- Why would you want to try to break up the engagement or another relationship. That causes a reputation that will follow you for a long time. Especially because of the age thing.
So hun, leave the older guys alone, concentrate on someone more your own age, play the field, and most importantly have fun.
2007-11-02 15:18:22 · answer #3 · answered by Cliff R 4 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Answer this, would you think it was wrong if that were your boyfriend or fiance, and a young girl was pursuing him for sex. Wouldn't you want her to leave him alone? That's someone who's coming in between you and the man you love, and apparently love back to call her his fiancee. Definately it's wrong, on both your ends. Maybe he realized that and that's why you havent heard from him. I dont think he wants to spend time in prison for having sex with a minor. I'd get out of dodge too. You are infactuated with him. He's not the only male out there. I'd bet theres a young man your age who may like you and you've wasted time looking in the other direction toward someone that doesn't even care about you. You were a victim of the hit and run just for fun, wham bam thank you mam! Sorry, but you've been taken advantage of in your innocence. You're not the first girl who's go through this and you wont be the last. It's sad but true. He doesnt respect you, so respect yourself.
2007-11-02 15:44:48 · answer #4 · answered by pgbrady614 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
It is wrong and here's why: he's promised to keep himself only for this person he's going to marry, yet he's attempting to play around with you hoping that it will be kept your little secret. That arrangement isn't fair to you, and it isn't fair to the poor woman who thinks she's getting a faithful partner. You would wind up being treated any old kind of way because he knew you couldn't complain much because everything's supposed to be a "secret". (That's the double-edged effect of secrets....you think they're letting you in on something deliciously dirty, but they actually set you up to be treated like filth....avoid secrecy whenever possible; there's protection in living "above board".) Well, I've strayed off topic quite a bit, but that's your answer...it's wrong, and it's never in your best interest from either side.
2007-11-02 16:47:59 · answer #5 · answered by Captain S 7 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Please be careful. It isn't wrong to like someone who is taken. It happens. Sometimes the idea of a person being taken makes us like them more. Acting on your emotions is wrong. Put yourself in that other girls' shoes, how would you feel? It is only asking for trouble. Just tell yourself it isn't possible and admire from a distance. From experience....dating older guys that are that much older than you are is a bad idea. Enjoy life while you're young. I wish I was 15 again and I'm only 25.
2007-11-02 15:14:04 · answer #6 · answered by Loves Dogs 5 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Put the shoe on the other foot - if you were seeing a guy or were engaged to him, hwo much would you like it if another girl liked him, hung aroudn him, checked up on him, etc?
Not at all is the answer - you would hate it. You would tell her to get lost, right? You would want to scratch her eyes out. You would demand your fiance' stop seeing her. That's how *she* feels about *you*, then.
Please don't invent some "oh my dear god he's missing" drama just as an excuse to "locate him and make sure he is safe." (Rolls eyes - it *is* pretty lame when you stop and think about it.)
2007-11-02 15:16:28 · answer #7 · answered by filthy_crumb 5 · 1⤊ 1⤋
First of all if you are only 15, then you shouldn't want to **** ANYONE. And YES, if a man is taken, stay away. It isn't right for anyone to interfere with anyone else's happiness. Now if HE IS COMING on to you, then that is SO WRONG also, you need to be 'the adult' and tell him that until he is single you are not available to him, plus you are only 15, wtf does he want with a child??
And if he isn't answering your calls, maybe he smartened up and decided to leave you along!
If he is in trouble, his family will worry about him. You young lady need to spend more time in the real world then in cyber world!!
THIS IS NOT A RUDE ANSWER, it is an honest one!!
2007-11-02 15:16:27 · answer #8 · answered by Tonia M 3 · 2⤊ 1⤋
HELLO??? YES, it is wrong...and no offense what in the WORLD would a 23 year old see in a 15 year old CHILD??? Stay away from older guys ESPECIALLY ones w/ g/f or wives the girls only get meaner as they get older!! So watch out
2007-11-02 15:13:35 · answer #9 · answered by Mrs. Jack Sparrow ♥ 5 · 1⤊ 1⤋
He's probably missing cause he doesn't wanna go to jail for messing with a 15 yr. old. Yes..It is VERY bad morals to lust over someone else's man. Get over him and find someone your own age. I hope your parents find this question so they can watch you like a HAWK.
2007-11-02 15:12:49 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋