Marriage & Divorce - 2 November 2007

So, I am still living with a certain person whom I gave a second chance and here we go again...I don't make enough money substituting so he puts me on the same level as his sister's bum ex husband. But I work hard. Working with highschooler's one day, and then seven year olds the next. Whew! I tip my hat off to teachers. But where we live is expensive and I am being put down, on top of that I am earning my degree and he seems to think that is my excuse to "not work" but sit at computer. I take distance courses so I will be on the computer three times a week at least, and I work! So am I lazy?

2007-11-02 12:25:59 · 26 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-11-02 12:23:10 · 15 answers · asked by Candy D 1

We are going to get married but not before I go in but when we do they will be able to live with me where ever Iam stationed would they.

2007-11-02 12:21:39 · 6 answers · asked by Kimberly l 1

2007-11-02 12:11:27 · 7 answers · asked by Candy D 1

Now a days it is pretty common that when a girl gets upset with a guy she will just kick him a good kick between the legs. My question is for the women that do this. can you actualy feel his "berries" when your foot makes contact down there?

2007-11-02 11:44:24 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous

Child cutody evaluation consisted of Three sessions for me and Three sessions for my husband. I thought we were done. Or at least this is what the doctor said the last time we spoke.
Today the doctor called me from home and asked me if I would call his office on monday and set up another appointment for me to come see him again. Then he asked me how was everything going with our living situation. I said not very good. I told him about my husband going out on saturday night and coming home drunk. He said, Yeah, Just call my office on monday. I wouldnt want to miss out on anymore information that may be beneficial to you.
What do you Ladies think?
Do you think the evaluator is on my husbands side and just out of kindness of his heart giving me another chance to defend myself???

2007-11-02 11:36:11 · 4 answers · asked by Bambi 1

my bf and i live together already but we are moving to our own place(we live with his mom). the problem is that, i earn twice as much as he does. we plan to split everything in half of course but how can i make HIM feel like the man?? i mean, he is always broke and i'm the one with money! i cant say i'll support him financially because that's not even right. what can I do?? i need advice on how to make it work in our home with out having problems about money.. i know men are macho's and THEY want to be the one's earning more but what can I do???

2007-11-02 11:35:18 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous

I'm an attractive woman in her early thirties with a husband and two kids. Even though everyone knows my status, all my colleagues keep hitting on me and tempting me with illicit encounters. It's been hard to resist sometimes and just a week ago I nearly slept wih my gorgeous colleague. Someone tell me why this is and how should I try and stop being tempted.

2007-11-02 11:31:20 · 36 answers · asked by SPMZ 2

earlier he give a lot of pleasure to me by fulfilling my sex needs, nw after 3 years his intrst decreases, v hv nt yet planned fr a baby, n v r living alone. i smtime tld him that i need sex he use to ignore that, i knw he is very very busy in his work but i m suffering,,,,,,, he luvs me a lot n try to make me happy but i want sex.he dnt have any other extra maritail affair also. what shud i do

2007-11-02 11:23:37 · 12 answers · asked by ? 2

What should the non-custodial parent do? We live 3000 miels away and only get to see daughter during school breaks/holidays

2007-11-02 11:21:47 · 11 answers · asked by JustAGirl 1

I have been with my bf for 6 years, 3yrs ago he was confused of what he wanted and we broke up, he also started having feelings for a co-worker, were still together left that in the past but now he works in a call center n i hear he flirts n talks to alot of girls!! but i feel like he is taking baby steps in our relationship! by the way hes 22

2007-11-02 11:02:43 · 36 answers · asked by ggirrll85 1

Am from mexico and she is from france, we want to get married in england because we live there, what documentation she needs as a french and I as a mexican to present to the home office to start the process without any problems?

2007-11-02 11:02:06 · 4 answers · asked by mario g 1

i have been with my husband for 8 yrs, he thinks his money is his and my money also is his. he puts his family and needs before mine he works alot of hours, and when he is not at work he chooses to spend more time with his friends than his wife. he only hears what he wants to hear and not the word no until he gets his own way. he dosen't help me with stressfull situations. untill i have had enough and then when he trys to help it's too late i am allready upset, why dont he care? or listen to me when i am trying to help the realtionship? is he not trying? please give me some advice.

2007-11-02 10:55:55 · 15 answers · asked by Kenndo 1

My dad is rude to my mom. My mom drives everyone crazy and doesn't work. They are consantly fighting and sometimes i talk to my best freind about how great it would be if they just got divorced. Is this normal?

2007-11-02 10:45:36 · 8 answers · asked by Kathy-rin 3

and my husband has been dropping hints that i need to lose some weight but mind you that when we first married he was the one overweight he says my weight is not a problem to him but all the clothes he buys me are to little and he has offered me a membership to the local gym should I be upset or could I just be overdoing it.

2007-11-02 10:43:52 · 21 answers · asked by shirkeya s 1

I'm talking married people here....
- Did your spouse cheat? (Or did you cheat?)
- Why?
- How did you find out? (or did the spouse find out?)
- Did you stay with them after? (or did they give you a chance?)

Just curious after reading some of these answers.... I hope it never happens to me, lol just wondering what the odds are.

2007-11-02 10:34:08 · 11 answers · asked by Betty 4

She is just satisfied when I'm touching her private with hand, during intercourse, no other way, sometimes my wrist gets pain because of that, instaed of enjoing the sex I have to concentarte how I'm rubbing her. and it's a turn off for me. sometimes I'm thinking oh god sex again, what a hard job.
I can't tell her cause she is too sensitive and I love her and I think she can't do anything about that. is there any cure? I would prefer not to use any sex toys. sometimes I think it's not a big deal but sometimes I think it may ruin my marriage. I'm totaly confused.

2007-11-02 10:28:01 · 23 answers · asked by JJ 1

My husband and I have been married 12 years, we have 4 children. For most of those years I have been a stay at home mom. I've been working for a few months now. He works late hours and by th time he gets in I'm either in the bed about to go to sleep or already asleep. We use to have so much fun together, but now between our jobs, and the kids we don't get anytime for each other. Our relationship just seems so bla and dull. Any suggestions on how to spice thing up to bring this relationship back to life?

2007-11-02 10:25:16 · 8 answers · asked by Vanessa 1

she has been my best since grade school but i hate her new hubby they have been 2 gether for a yr now. hes a drunk and talks too much crap

2007-11-02 10:24:30 · 18 answers · asked by realgirl 4

Ok, I asked this simular question about a month ago, and here I am asking again! About 5 months ago I caught my husband (of 2 years) whacking off to porno on the internet, I found out cause I looked at the history button, and saw a bottle of K.Y., and a bunch of tissues, I confronted him, although I had put two and two together, and he denied it, and insisted he was innocent until I showed him what I found, then he apologized, and swore he would never do it again, I asked about what I should do on here at the time, and it was suggested that I tell him, it's ok if he look's but next time let me join in if he wants to do this, and I did, I looked at it with him and pleasered him as he looked so that he would'nt do it behind my back. Then about 2 weeks later I caught him again! He cried and pleaded for me to forgive him ( yes again) and swore no more, well, I went to work early at 6:00am, and when I got home, I found my history button full of porno ! to be continued...editing more.

2007-11-02 10:22:07 · 24 answers · asked by leah j 4

My mother in law is in her 70's & smoked since age 19. She now is in stage 4 copd & we have her under hospice care. Now she stays in her house & is still mobile, however, she has nurses that come once a week & a home health aid that comes twice a week. My ma in law doesn't like to go anywhere & she doesn't want to get baths. She puts the nurse off all the time. So you have to know that this house smells like old lady. She keeps me & my hubby on the go, but we at least get breaks from her. Today I came in the house & smelled smoke (she was required to quit after getting oxygen) but she still sneaks the smokes. We just got thru installing a $8,000 a/c system but ma in law still smokes anyways.
Why would her doctor place her under hospice care? How can I have more patience. I am not mean, I just get frustrated sometimes with her. She has started asking me where I am going, how long, etc. and I am not even her kid. Any advice appreciated. Thanks.

2007-11-02 10:15:42 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-11-02 10:10:01 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous

would you save your childrens life or your spouses life and why?

2007-11-02 10:09:02 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous

So here it goes, my fiancee and i have been together for quite some time now, and just back in april, we decided to move in together, us 2 and my two children. Things were great in the beginning, like always, and slowly, things got worse by each day that passed. I got to know the "real" him, and i dont like it at all...however, i do love him, and i need some help with this. First, he is extremely messy, leaving snot rags everywhere for me to pick up, dirty plates on top of furniture, used q-tips on the countertops, and one time i even came home from work to a dirty paper plate with pizza crusts folded in half, tucked in between the fridge and counter...disgusting!! i spoke with him on numerous occasions about this, and nothing seems to work. On top of all this, he is addicted to the net,..messanger lists, chatting and i caught him chatting to this girl who had a naked pic with a phrase stating that "she loves to do role playing escpecially the role of little girls"..now whats so

2007-11-02 10:08:11 · 13 answers · asked by Nicole H 2

All I want are "yes" or "no" and your spouses age.

If you want to add length or marriage that would be fine.

2007-11-02 10:04:14 · 12 answers · asked by snack_daddy10 6

He left me twice for the same woman. They recently broke up. Should I take him back. Will relationship work this time?

2007-11-02 09:54:33 · 27 answers · asked by Anonymous

Can I?
Also can my brother get child support since he is 19 and still lives with my brother and my mom and 2 underage sisters.

2007-11-02 09:38:59 · 29 answers · asked by Marlin 3

My husband and I have plans to go out after not having time to ourselves in over 2 years. We both understand the importance of spending time with each other and vowed to never let so much time go by without having a "night out".

But if spending time means being together without the kids, is the movies the best place?

2007-11-02 09:36:15 · 13 answers · asked by Ugogirl 2

was your husband also a virgin when you married him? if not, was/ is there the slightest bit of resentment or jealousy because of this? i ask because my fiance is a virgin, but i lost my virginity at age 14- half a lifetime ago. i'm trying to figure out if there will be any problems down the road because of this so i can know how to prepare for them. so have there been any arguments about your husband's past? what did you have to do to fix it?

2007-11-02 09:35:40 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous

After 4 times of doing it.

2007-11-02 09:33:38 · 18 answers · asked by bluemami06 1