So, I am still living with a certain person whom I gave a second chance and here we go again...I don't make enough money substituting so he puts me on the same level as his sister's bum ex husband. But I work hard. Working with highschooler's one day, and then seven year olds the next. Whew! I tip my hat off to teachers. But where we live is expensive and I am being put down, on top of that I am earning my degree and he seems to think that is my excuse to "not work" but sit at computer. I take distance courses so I will be on the computer three times a week at least, and I work! So am I lazy?
2007-11-02 12:25:59 · 26 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
I do cook, clean and shop for us , and yeah, I have more free time than him. But thats after work.
2007-11-02 12:31:36 · update #1
to burntt...I have two years under my belt of "actually going to class" so I understand. I held down two jobs and sold cosmetics on the side. so thats three jobs and holding down just 1 job and going to school online is not lazy...its smart. Thank you very much.
2007-11-03 12:12:31 · update #2
You are definitely not! Teaching is one of the most important and underappreciated jobs ever! I ask you, What is he doing to help the community? (Don't give up on your education either)
2007-11-02 12:30:27 · answer #1 · answered by crazygirl34 2 · 0⤊ 2⤋
the whole point of on line classes is so that you can hold down a full time job AND go to school. no offense, but a lot of us out here have worked two jobs and carried over 12 credit hours of class time per semester (that's real go to class and sit there kinda stuff not just sit at home on your own time on your computer kinda stuff by the way). so yeah, you're a little lazy but he shouldn't be comparing you to someones ex, that's just rude and inappropriate. and no offense, but you should try manual labor in a grimy airport hanger repainting planes at 5 a.m. and then going to class all day and working in a hospital on the weekends just to make ends meet while you're going to school. you have it easy, you should be thankful.
2007-11-02 12:34:00 · answer #2 · answered by burnttoast97 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
stop being lazy, help out your mom and dad on the better half and young toddlers chores and larger your self. Being a lazy man or woman tells plenty approximately your character, in case you do no longer restoration that up, it is going to caught up with you later in existence and you will incredibly pay for it dearly! in simple terms inspire your self and start up starting to be a effective man or woman
2016-11-10 02:29:55 · answer #3 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do you think you are? If not....then you're not lazy. Curious, but what does your significant other expect from you, especially since it sounds like you're a substitute teacher part-time, and also pursuing your degree. I think he's one of those men whose definition of one who's not lazy is if you're working full-time, 40+ hours a week to help bring in money. Sad that you have to deal with one of those. If I were you, I would get your degree, move out and on to something bigger and better who will appreciate you.
2007-11-02 12:31:36 · answer #4 · answered by foxsuite 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋
No. He just doesn't understand much. I'm sure you do much more work than him. Besides, it's not like he never goes on the computer... and I'm sure you do the cleaning around the house. Probably all of it. So what's he got to complain about? Why doesn't he go wash dishes and do laundry every day.. and see how he handles it. I'm sure he won't be able to take it for more than a month. Period.
2007-11-02 12:29:12 · answer #5 · answered by ? 5 · 2⤊ 1⤋
Ok why are you with someone who is so obviously self absorbed and money hungry? Anyone who truely loves you will not emotionally abuse you this way by putting you down , if it's possible for you to leave then leave because this isnt healthy .
Good on you for trying to better yourself pity he didnt hey.
2007-11-02 12:57:23 · answer #6 · answered by JadeyOz 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i really can't get him, how can you be lazy if you are working and studying in the same time?
studying a degree needs lots of hard work and time.. which you are not even setting by the computer 24/7
i think he is jealous of you, because if he is not, then he will encourage you and help you if not financially then emotionally..
if he puts too much pressure on you to give up your education then he is not worth it...
2007-11-02 12:32:06 · answer #7 · answered by great woman 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋
No - you are just living with someone who is putting you down. Anyone who can work, care for a house, and go to school is definitely not lazy.
2007-11-02 12:30:24 · answer #8 · answered by Kari H 4 · 1⤊ 1⤋
The certain person whom you gave a second chance to is just being an irrational b*tch.
Once you get your degree you should lose the loooosssseerrr.
2007-11-02 12:30:09 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 1⤋
Unfortunately, too many people don't realize the value of an education, especially when you are paying for it yourself. No, you are not lazy for working hard at the thankless job of teaching while trying to further your education simultaneously.
2007-11-02 12:30:29 · answer #10 · answered by sshsearching 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
no , your not lazy , he sounds like a w***ker .
but I think you already know that ....
ditch the second chance and live it up a bit till you find the man who sees nothing but sun shining from you butt ........ even if you chose to sit on it all day
come on , you don't need to be put down in life !!
2007-11-02 12:31:26 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋