I found a naked picture of a friend of ours on my husband's phone, that he took. When I asked him about it, he explained that she'd lost in pool bet, and that was her 'payment'. Does anyone find this okay at all? (She's openly had a thing for him since we all met)
2007-11-02 07:20:17 · 30 answers · asked by Amy C 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
that is a NO-NO what the hell are you thinking? if it is on his phone then she had to be naked indoors & where? why were they together alone in the first place? why would he make a bet like that with her anyway? if you knew that she had a thing for him when you met then why are you allowing them to hang out together in the first place? think about it, if he took it on his phone that is something he can constantly look at. you need to ask both of them together if something is going on because that is what it seems. why would he make a bet like that with her anyway. come on baby, use your head and think.KEEP LOOKING FOR ALL THE SIGNS THAT HE IS DEALING WITH THIS GIRL ON THE SIDE AND THAT IS YOUR HUSBAND NOT HERS, if she have a man then you need to let him know as well ASAP to put a stop to it all.
2007-11-02 07:43:32 · answer #1 · answered by really loved 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Let your husband and this tramp have each other. What a lame excuse...lost a bet, yeah right. Unless your hubby is a doctor giving your friend a physical, you can pretty much bet on it that they have gone further than just picture taking! If he was a doctor, at least a nurse should have been present! That woman is not your friend. My friends would never get naked with my husband, much less let him take pictures. That is nuts that he is trying to make you think that this is a normal happening!
2007-11-02 08:21:53 · answer #2 · answered by Really now 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If she's openly had a thing for him, then she probably wanted to lose the bet. It's a great way for her to seduce him and have an excuse for it. Either he's stupid and fell for it, or he secretly wanted it... or maybe a little of both.
Respectfully to you, he should probably discontinue his friendship with her if she is going to be having a thing for him. It's simple a recipe for disaster to continue the friendship. I mean, what will the next bet be? A lapdance perhaps? A motorboat? A close-up pic of the muff? And what if he loses the next bet? You think his payment will be something innocent like 5 bucks or a pizza?
You don't need to get all crazy on him, but at the same time you might need to help him understand his boudaries.
2007-11-02 07:33:33 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Are you serious? Let's assume that he's not lying to you, which he is. If it was all fun and games, just a lost bet between friends - oh, ha ha - why did he feel the need to memorialize it by taking a picture?
Smart money says that there's something going on, with her or with somebody else. Don't bother asking him about it, he'll just lie to you (again). You should at least start checking his cell phone records, or maybe even something sneakier. If he was careless enough to leave pictures HE TOOK of a naked woman, whom you know, ON HIS PHONE, I guarantee he left footprints elsewhere.
2007-11-02 07:45:34 · answer #4 · answered by Humberto 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
LOL! he is taking you for a fool as well as she. Even if she lost in a pool game it gives him no reason to have her naked pic on his cell, what didn't he get enough that she took her clothes off? Sorry hon but this man will or has gone beyond the picture with this trashy girl. Let her have him.
2007-11-02 07:28:21 · answer #5 · answered by ? 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You're not a fool, are you? So why are you letting him play you for one?
There was never a bet. He's cheating, and he has been for a while. He's dumb, but if it were a one time thing, he would've deleted that picture as soon as he took it. He'd be too paranoid of getting caught. Since he's gotten away with it before, he left it on there.
2007-11-02 07:25:06 · answer #6 · answered by ron-D 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Your husband is a pervert. She is not your friend, what kind of friend will take off her clothes/naked in front of someone else husband. Confront her! what a whore! You have to give your husband an ultimatum.
2007-11-02 07:39:28 · answer #7 · answered by mina f 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
This one is answerable by the old saying "What's good for the goose is good for the gander."
If you had lost this sort of bet with a male friend, would he be ok if you let this male friend take a picture of you au naturale?
Somehow, I think not.
2007-11-02 07:40:33 · answer #8 · answered by Pythagoras 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Sounds pretty suspicious to me!! Even if it was just a "poker payment" don't you think he would have said something to you before you found it??? He wasn't thinking you'd ever find it!!! The whole situation is wrong!!!
2007-11-02 07:49:00 · answer #9 · answered by HUh?!? 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
oh my god!!!! that is not right at all!!!! never would I let my husband get away with this, he sounds like a cheater and a jerk. I would boot his out asap and get out of the relationship before he does worse to you than this. how much more disrespectful could a man get to his wife than to do this.
2007-11-02 08:02:05 · answer #10 · answered by piercing_beauty96 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋