Okay, men never seize to amaze me.
I was on the phone with my boy and somehow we started talking about sex. Now I have no idea how but the subject about this guy I had sex with all the way in March came up. Now, my boy and I were just friends in March so it's not like I cheated on him or anything and actually he had sex with someone in April. I mean we weren't together so why even bother with it. Well, he got extremely mad and blew his freakin top. He started yelling and telling me that I really don't care about him and I was just "running game", and he went on and on about how stupid he felt and how I was just a liar and that I really didn't have feelings for him. OMG,, We weren't even together and get this.........when I said "well what about you and the girl you had sex with in April"..he replied with......."I'm a man, it's different"
LOL....no, he's a jerk. so here's my question...
What in the hell is wrong with men?
2007-11-02 07:28:25 · 19 answers · asked by Tnisha 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Nothing is wrong with men. Something is wrong with that man, though. And something will be wrong with you if you stay with him.
2007-11-02 07:32:23 · answer #1 · answered by Matthew O 5 · 4⤊ 0⤋
I am with Matthew O and ZCT, it is not all men but it is definitely that man. Controlling and selfish and probably doesn't have any way to deal with guilt if he ever feels it, this type of man is generally like that. He probably never does anything wrong and it isn't his fault whatever the issue is. If you don't want to end up being treated second class and not given any thought to how you are feeling about anything, stay with this man, he sounds really ridiculous.
p.s. the difference is in his upbringing, that is the only difference, not all guys are trained to think that men are better than women or have different standards for sex and the sexes.
2007-11-02 14:44:38 · answer #2 · answered by scsspace 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
So, it will be probably hard to heal this relationship. Hard but not impossible.
One lesson you should learn is never, never speak abot your past relationships with present lover or a boyfriend. Maybe you can just say smt. little, but that's it.
Of course he is mad, they want to believe they are the only one, the best one. Their ego can not tolerate even past lovers,(not mentioning present another) because they suspect you are compering them with him all the time. And for most of men, but not all, that is unbearable.
Men are territorial. But if he is relay aggressive and to much territorial I don't see why you should stay with him.
I know some women like that too.
2007-11-02 14:41:25 · answer #3 · answered by mima 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The typical man expects that after you're with him, you won't even remember anybody else, and look what you did...you remembered! And if you talked like you actually ENJOYED it, that's even worse. So here are some tips: 1. Don't talk about guys you've been with before. 2. If you do talk about them, only do so to describe how inadequate they were compared to the guy you're with now. 3. Don't tell him how many times you've faked it. 4. Just because he knows you're not a virgin doesn't mean that you have to remind him.
2007-11-02 14:38:26 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Wow, dump him. He has serious anger, jealousy and control issues. He's not a good man. He might even hit you one day. I'd take this as a major red flag and cut him out of my life. Not all men are like this, many men respect women, but this man is just bad.
2007-11-02 14:35:29 · answer #5 · answered by some female 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Its rude to bring up an Ex with your current, especially sexually. "What's wrong with men?" Ha Ha Ha.
Men are crazy because women make men that way.
How many Players started out as nice guys until some women burned him so bad that he went bad.
2007-11-02 15:03:17 · answer #6 · answered by snack_daddy10 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
The most delicate item in the known universe is the male ego. You just put a dent in his. He will recover or not depending on how fragile his ego is. Ther is nothing you can do about it either.
2007-11-02 15:40:08 · answer #7 · answered by bocasbeachbum 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Not all men are like this, this one is an insecure jerk, who also appears to be sexist. A sexist jerk is a bad combination that you should avoid.
2007-11-02 14:32:24 · answer #8 · answered by ZCT 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Many of them look down on us, and enjoy using us, the other half is too scared to speak out and stand up for us so we muss endure...
I honestly cannot think of one good men, they are all either scared a passiv or sexist sex crazed morons...
Plus they all have this homosexual thing about them, they use women to impress other men...but shouldn't it be the opposite?
2007-11-02 14:34:44 · answer #9 · answered by Josephine 5 · 0⤊ 2⤋
ahhhh....men and the double standard. It pisses me off too. How can it be different for a man??
Sounds like he's "running game" on you.
Tell him to hit the road!
2007-11-02 14:34:37 · answer #10 · answered by Ms. GTO 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Wrong section, kiddo. This belongs in the kiddie dating section.
Oh, and don't talk about men when you admit you date boys.
2007-11-02 14:40:48 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋