I am well qualified and well placed professional with business degree. Since long, I have interest in housework and quite expert in it.
Now I wish to quit the job and be a househusband to an ambitious, career oriented professional girl while assuming the role of housemaker. The women are capturing the place in almost every field and proving their worth. Having a househsband will provide the opportunity to focus and devote more time on their job and prove their worth.
This way I will be able to fulfill my desire and also I will be a good support to my wife. She can be free from any household works and raising kids because that will be taken care by me and she can concentrate on her career. I can also add value as a advisor for her professional problems.
Will the girls accept me as a househusband?
Interested girls may express in their reply or can also contact me provately through emails. I am 32 years old.
2007-11-02 15:49:18 · 11 answers · asked by shiava02 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
wow,so this is an advert, nice!
I wish u succes,though i must say the offer sounds very tempting.
Personally,I want to be a carrer woman,so I would love a husband like that,Would make a very strong family.I think you will find someone,just go on looking,its a good idea,so dont give it up.
2007-11-03 14:27:03 · answer #1 · answered by traces 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I think some girls might think this sounds like a great idea, but the one thing you have to watch out for is expectations. I can say this because I was a Housewife for years. I thought that I was doing my job, but my husband had other ideas of cleanliness, and I wasn't prepared for that. Also, I got very tired and lonely. I find that working part-time and going to school part-time, including being very involved in my college, help out a lot. But that's just me. If you feel that you're ready to be a Househusband, I think there are plenty of women who might take you up on that offer...but then you have to be willing to possibly give up some of your manhood as well. Remember that the woman who has no problem with having a househusband might also be the woman who wants to gain total control. Your best bet might be to find a divorced woman who had a totally controlling husband before you.
2016-04-02 01:42:48 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
This is my opinion and you take it for what it is, but you are "Fishing" in a very small pond my friend. If you haven't found the person that is already on their way to that profession or been with that person through school and is established, then brother you may be looking for a long long time for the that woman who will "bite" on that hook. I'm sure your "resume" looks good and all, but to come at a woman with, "I want to stay home and take care of kids, do the house work, laundry, bills, cook and clean" Well, that's about as scary to a woman as if you said,"I have a talking penis and he doesn't really like women" I know there shouldn't be the stereotype of woman and men "duties", but that's the world we live in. Whether women want to admit it or not, they want a man who wants to work.
2007-11-02 16:30:40 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
If you want to stay home and your wife works thats fine- but remember children need a mother too. Your wife needs to be involved in her children's lives just as much as you are.
2007-11-02 16:14:02 · answer #4 · answered by bo bunnis 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't do it! They may say they do, but over time, this girl will grow to respect you less as societal pressures and expectations take their toll and one day, she'll begin seeing you as less of a man.
Sorry to kill the dream, dude. Just be a help around the house as much as you can, hell, do more than your share... but don't quit your "real" job altogether.
2007-11-02 16:02:34 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 1⤋
So, your family will survive from your wifes income? Do you think cleaning the house and watching the kids after school supplements for the loss of income in the household? Do you really believe that will relieve pressure from her life or add another mouth for her to feed? If you love cleaning and being a homemaker then why don't you change your profession and get paid for cleaning houses and babysitting. Then you can do what you love and still bring home the bacon (even if it is sliced xtra thin...lol).
2007-11-02 16:00:47 · answer #6 · answered by shellese2 4 · 2⤊ 5⤋
i have been married for a yr and my husband has been at home with our girls and it is a relief i guess to know that when i come home the house work is done and i can relax and spend time with our children. so my answer to you is yes i think it is accpetable for a man to stay at home and so house work
2007-11-02 15:56:01 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 6⤊ 0⤋
There are some women that will work you will find someone! Good luck!
2007-11-02 16:04:51 · answer #8 · answered by rashida_16 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
oh honey where were you before i got married.. the answer is yes. you are one in a billion and i hope the lucky lady you end up with knows it.. what a guy.
2007-11-02 15:54:59 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 6⤊ 0⤋
no, we want a husband that actually works and helps us out
2007-11-02 15:54:15 · answer #10 · answered by bronzebabekentucky 7 · 4⤊ 1⤋