When picking the one, what clues do you look for to tell that she will be "wife material"
2007-10-26 18:52:04 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
I'm married already, I'm just curious! ;)
2007-10-26 19:02:45 · update #1
For me it was maturity. Does she still like to go out at night and go clubbin. Is her favorite show MTV. Where is her life at career at. This really speaks volume about a person. What are their family plans. Do they plan on having kids. How do they make you feel when with other people. Do they do the little things that make a relationship click. A good one is when they do something special for you when its something in your life that maybe you only mentioned a few times, and they surprise you with it. That shows that they are interested in your life. Like when my wife goes to the store, she will pick up my favorite snack. Or when she goes shopping, she will come home having bought something that she knows that I would like.
2007-10-26 19:01:11 · answer #1 · answered by pumper 4 · 3⤊ 1⤋
a sense of humor
loving
trusting
makes me smile
grt w/ kids
enjoys sex-1 that will take control in the bedroom
not afraid to express herself
must be out-going (party girl)
And thank god I got all this in the 1 I married, wouldn't trade her in for the world!! My wife is my best friend and don't know what I'd do w/o her!!
2007-10-27 02:09:04 · answer #2 · answered by uloseallurmarbles 2 · 6⤊ 0⤋
This is a great question, I think that every man is looking for their best friend, that is where they start making mistakes, the reason you get along with your best friend is because you don't live with him/her. They look for someone who has a few qualities that their moms have, there is another mistake, their moms lie to them telling them they are perfect, they are clearly not cause no one is, not even us women! So what men really look for in a wife is hard to say. But I think most men look for a person who is comprehensive, loving, caring, who can carry on a conversation, someone who is clean, cause a lot of them are not, so they want someone to clean their garbage, they want someone who will understand that some Sundays are baseball, basketball, football or whatever ball sunday it maybe and let them be, for just a few hours. Men are not that hard to understand really, all they want is a little peace and quiet while watching their games and we women should give them that, but they never give us conversation time, let's get to know what my girlfriend/wife wants time, let's go out on romantic nights time, so I guess the perfect wife men look for are called blow up dolls!!! Men... We can't live with them, we can't live without them!!! But some men are an exception though, some are wonderful, understanding, caring, loving, romantic. I think people make men be tough, when they are little boys they are told that only women cry, that they have to be strong, I admire a man who cries, expresses his emotions, I admire a man who respect women as people not only wives, not only women. Let's give a round of aplause to all good men out there and to the ones who came here and were actually decent and gave a good, decent, carring, respectful answer! Clap, clapty, clap, clap, clap...
And you, have a STAR you girly you, you deserve it!!!
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2007-10-27 02:06:22 · answer #3 · answered by ♂♥♀ & ♀♥♂ ∞! Love Oh Love ! ♫♥♪ 5 · 2⤊ 2⤋
Men think with the pecker, so they just want a hot wife thats a lady in a crowd and a wild cat in bed...to but it nicely
2007-10-27 02:00:33 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 2⤋
Maturity
2007-10-27 01:55:12 · answer #5 · answered by Ahab 5 · 1⤊ 2⤋
There will be a different answer for this question for every man in the world.
It isn't like picking a melon.
2007-10-27 01:54:26 · answer #6 · answered by Magaroni 5 · 1⤊ 2⤋
I have been told to answer this on behalf of my husband.
*ahem*
"A lady on the street and a freak in the bed"-my husband (quoting a bad rap song)
I still love him though.
2007-10-27 02:04:49 · answer #7 · answered by lovelymrsm 5 · 1⤊ 1⤋
I think they want someone who can be supportive and work with him as a team.
2007-10-27 15:10:23 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
if she can cook, how long she can stay on her feet, how good she is in bed, if she talks a lot after sex, does she fart, poop, or other things girls shouldn't do. Oh and how much head she will give.
2007-10-27 01:56:26 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 2⤋
loyalty , commitment, maturity, love, friendship, i would personally like to find someone who can cook better than me ( shouldn't be too hard )
2007-10-27 02:02:06 · answer #10 · answered by Brian D 5 · 3⤊ 1⤋