my ex bf is going to marry hes wedding day is tommorow..what will you do?hes my 1st love,they said 1st love never die.i knew it because he told me..and he said he wants me back because he still love me even hes married..im 21 and hes 23.and hes girl going to marry is 26.i dont know what in hes mind.he said hes life is too complicated.he still communicate w/me if he have time because he is too busy in his wedding..but for me i want to be his friend and dont want to be his mistress..why some guys cheating?is he not satisfied w/ her wife to be?or his such a coward?
2007-10-26 19:47:09 · 18 answers · asked by mariecris 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
if he reallt loved you then he would not be marring.
he is confused and you should have nothing to do with him anymore.
after his wedding stay awy from him. if he wants you to be his mistress then he is not a good guy.
you will find someone who loves you alot and will love him back. dont waste your time and energy over your ex.
just imagine if the girl he was marring would be you and you came to find out what is going on would that make you happy?
good luck
2007-10-26 19:58:12 · answer #1 · answered by baby gal 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
He`s probably on cloud 9 right now. I'm a man and it`s a real ego trip to have two women have feelings for him at the same time. He`s probably not confused really, just feeling macho. Sorry to be so blunt, but even though you never forget your first love, it fades with time. My advice would be to take your time, try to enjoy life if possible, and find a real man that can love you and only you, not some drama king that will only shred your heart even more than he already has. In time you`ll find happiness if you don`t rush and realize you deserve way better.
2007-10-26 19:58:19 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You want to know what Im going to do while he's getting married? probably wash a few loads of clothes. Ok sorry I couldnt resist that one. I know you meant what are you gonna do. Well all you can do is move on. Starting Tomorrow. You say you dont want to be his mistress , but guess what? you would be his mistress , you each have feelings for one another , or so you say. Leave that womans Husband alone, you wouldnt want anyone messing with yours.
2007-10-26 20:04:17 · answer #3 · answered by that hot chick 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
whats up thats fairly fantastic.yet all persons in simple terms communicate of such issues.i imagine now we go with to quit speaking about all this and do some thing heavily or nature.Plant saplings instead of timber. if you're planting a tree by taking some branch and doing or not it really is effective that it develops reliable roots because those days the heavy rains are uprooting those variety of timber causing more suitable damage. i imagine we go with to also shrink pollutants and waste.
2016-10-23 01:37:17 · answer #4 · answered by koroly 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Truely speaking my friend if you trust me. The truth is that the guy dont have any character and he wants to keep relation with both of you. If you are a very nice girl then I better say to stay away from him dont even be a friend of a bitrayal. Trust me. That will be better.
2007-10-26 22:04:10 · answer #5 · answered by Raj Chan 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm sorry. That must hurt a bit. People are cowards for a variety of reasons. I hope time makes you feel better. These are mostly young kids that post here, and reality hasn't slapped them around yet. I know what you are trying to say.
2007-10-26 19:50:30 · answer #6 · answered by Whynot 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hi, its sounds to me that you need to except what your ex boyfriend has chosen to do. If he is happy with the women that he has chosen to be his wife then let him be happy. I think he just loves you as a friend nothing more. If you decided to be with another guy dont you think he'll be happy for you.Why cant you be happy for him and move on with your life. If he decides hes not happy with his marriage well then he has to figure out what he really wants in life.
2007-10-26 20:18:26 · answer #7 · answered by janelle w 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
some hardknocks here:
1. my ex bf-- meaning he is you EXboyfriend meaning you are not in a relationship anymore meaning he's just part of your bitter past and YOU are his bitter past.
2.his wedding day is tomrow- girl marriage aint decided overnight-bottomline your EXbf and his New gf- her fiance planned this whole wedding-meaning he is into his new girl not you coz if it is you then he's gonna marry you for crying out loud.
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geezus im tired already... GET a LIFE ok! he's moving on it's time for you to do the same...
your EX aint a coward YOU are coz you cant accept the fact that he doesnt love you anymore!
2007-10-26 19:56:21 · answer #8 · answered by lightblue 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
he's a player. plan and simple. he's marrying this chick but trying to hook you in as his mistress on the side.
don't fall for that. and don't be his friend either...friends don't betray each other..and his wife SHOULD be his friend too and look how he is treating her.
stay away from this guy, he's no good.
2007-10-26 20:25:38 · answer #9 · answered by ☆MWφM☆ 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'd say no to him.He should've stuck with you.He said yes to the girl and now he's begging for forgiveness from you.You should tell him,"You should'a said no."
2007-10-26 19:51:18 · answer #10 · answered by Mr. Constitution 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋