I know this isn't right, but I need an excuse to divorce him. What should I do?
2007-10-29 03:44:22 · 51 answers · asked by Sheryl P 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Maggot!
2007-10-29 04:40:12 · answer #1 · answered by g_brown1975 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
How do you know that this would not come up in the divorce if you paid a woman to cheat with your husband? Any time you pay someone to do something lke this it could very well backfire on you. It is also the possibility that the woman you pick, your husband would not want! There are many reasons for a getting a divorce and since you seem to not love your husband any more that is a reason to use. If you are wanting to do this over a money issue then if you have been married over ten years you would get mostly everything anyway. IF you have not been married that long or there are no children then you would usually split things down the middle. You really do not want to do anything that he can end up holding against you in the court.
2007-10-29 03:53:17 · answer #2 · answered by craft painter 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Why do you need an Excuse to divorce him? Can't you just divorce him because you want a divorce? Anyway i am sure it would not be hard to pay a woman to seduce him.
2007-10-29 03:49:01 · answer #3 · answered by ~NIKKI~ 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I know a lady who told me that her husband never cheated in over 30 years of marriage. She said that she never had any concerns about him at all. And .. this lady would have been radar, She said suddenly, she got a huge feeling in her gut that was telling her something about her husband. She said the feeling almost seemed to talk to her. And .. she had NO reason to experience this feeling .. and she had NEVER experienced the feeling before. There were NO signs that he was doing anything. But that incredible .. undeniable .. feeling was there for months. Eventaully - one day she received an email from a secretary who the wife did not know - who told her how great her husband was. The emails did not stop there .. they continued .. and the things said about her husband continued .. such as how sweet he was, how he helped her, how he was her favorite, etc. The wife confronted her husband with this. He said he did not know WHY this secretary was doing this. He swore that he did not do anything to ag this on. He was stunned .. and probably scared. It became evident that the secretary had a thing for her husband. SO .. this lady's gut feeling was "right-on". The gut feeling finally left her .. but it left her when the husband would not even speak to the secretary any more .. and the secretary quit and moved on. So did the gut feeling quit and move on.
2016-04-11 00:49:44 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You have got to be kidding me. Why in the world do you need an excuse to divorce your husband. That is wrong on so many levels.
2007-10-29 03:52:11 · answer #5 · answered by baylees 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Not a great plan! I suppose you want him to be the cheater so you can be the "wronged party" in the divorce ... but just think what will happen if your little scheme comes to light! There must be some other way to get out of a failing relationship.
2007-10-29 03:50:40 · answer #6 · answered by Dig 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
You don't need an excuse, just tell him you want a divorce and leave. Why catch him cheating? Do you want to appear to be the saintly one?
2007-10-29 04:32:18 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Why do you need an excuse just be honest, leave him and tell him that the marriage is over then get mutual divorce why complicate things further it can only cause unhappiness
2007-10-29 04:02:05 · answer #8 · answered by decrepid1958 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
wow, nasty and very underhanded. Is he cheating on you or is this a total set up? If it is it is very wrong. If you are doing it becuase you are cheating on him, it is soooo wrong. Most Investigation agencies can probably help you. But if he is cheating why bother, tell him its over. If you are "needing an excuse" it is realy pathetic you would do that because you do not have the guts to tell him in person it is over between you.
2007-10-29 03:56:58 · answer #9 · answered by Diamond Dogs 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Be a woman and tell him you want out.... why resort to being labeled the B word and giving all woman a bad rap..... are you not strong enough and you have to set him up for an excuse?{for a divorce} ummmmmmmmmm...tragic....
2007-10-29 03:51:52 · answer #10 · answered by MJ 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
This is just plain bad idea and bad Karma(what comes around goes around) Please have enough guts to talk to him and tell him how you feel. If he is an abusive man go to family and get a restraining order or womans shelter,they will help get everything in order and The judge will likely rule all in your favor "IF" he is abusisve,but the way you plan on going about it is just as sleezy as cheating."How old are you?"No offense but if this is your way of thinking then you should not be married to anyone.Good luck and please do the right thing.
2007-10-29 03:52:36 · answer #11 · answered by Tray 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋