ok like my husband and i have sex alot in every position but me on top. i have been on top maybe six times in 4 years. when i do we both have greast orgasms but i don't get on top for a couple of reasons and one is i always just move back and forward and i wonder if thats wrong? and two is i have very big breast and thats a problem and i just always feel ugly and like i am just awful at it . whats wrong with me/
2007-10-29 05:41:44 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
You're very self-conscious, and I would say too much so. If your husband loves you and accepts you for you then you should do the same. As far as the big breast thing, I'm not sure about him but that would be no problem for me what-so-ever... Just accept that you are who you are sweetie, and obviously he accepts you for who you are or else he wouldn't have married you, right?
2007-10-29 05:46:39 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
Back and forth can be a little painful for him, especially if you are bending him too much. Practice makes perfect. Learn to go up and down. Get him to do some work. I was actually able to develop a very nice looking butt from thrusting up in that position. I went from having a little nothing butt to a rock hard butt that all the ladies want to touch (at least they do in my mind). Anways, just practice. If the bouncing up and down feels uncomfortable, grab his hands and place them on your breasts for support. I doubt he'll have a problem with that. Your insecurities will fade as your comfort increases with practice.
2007-10-29 13:06:55 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
That is just you not excepting you,I would say if he wasn't attracted to you he wouldn't be having all that sex with you.Give yourself and him some credit and show some self love to you. Ask him if he likes it when you get on top,I am sure it's a yes and if so get on! Feel free and loved. If he says no,ask why and tell him what you told us. Most men would love boobs to be in their face. It matters not how you move or do it if you both orgasm obviously it works.
2007-10-29 12:56:51 · answer #3 · answered by Tray 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Look inward. it sounds like you are a beautiful and passionate woman, but you don't believe it. You are doing what a lot of women do these days (including my wife) constantly nit picking every little flaw in your body without realizing that we think you are beautiful and your flaws are a MAJOR reason why we think you are beautiful. As far as just going back and forth, it isn't wrong, but vary it up a little. Crouch down and get a little up and down motion. Turn around and do reverse cow-girl. Lean back a little and let him look at it. Trust me in that you are doing fine in everything you do and don't be so self conscious. Focus within and do what feels good to you. Good luck and I love your questions.
2007-10-29 13:53:03 · answer #4 · answered by No one 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I agree with the others. If you lean forward and lift your pelvis up and down it IS A LOT MORE ENJOYABLE!
Oh, do not worry about the big boobs!
Shoot, I have them and I am not a small lady either! A size 16-18...and my hubby loves to have my girls in his face while I am on top! Makes him hot!
just enjoy the experience!
2007-10-29 12:51:27 · answer #5 · answered by Midnight Winter WOLF 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Back and forth does not stimulate him as much. If you lean forward and lay on him, you can move your pelvis up and down to satisfy him and give you the stronger orgasm you are looking for.
I would also suggest telling him you enjoy being on top. Perhaps he will not be so selfish in the future!
2007-10-29 12:46:21 · answer #6 · answered by C>/ 4 · 3⤊ 0⤋
the whole deal is you have fun and enjoy it, if you are self conscious why don't you wear a sexy top or bra to keep the "girls" contained. Do it with the lights off. Girl you got to climb on top and experiment with what feels good, I doubt he will complain, if he does well your on top you are the boss.!
2007-10-29 12:53:08 · answer #7 · answered by Diamond Dogs 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
be happy about you. i think he would enjoy the view of your breasts.
if your breasts annoy you while moving, have a sexy bra on that shows your cleavage but keeps it in place.
why don't you together start reading through (positions) you can try out, you can check cosmopolitan.com
or you can read through cosmopolitan.com alone, and suggest things later on.
as long as both of you both are having orgasms, where's the trouble? love yourself. he loves you.
2007-10-29 12:58:10 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
nothing is wrong w u but try rubbing the tips of your breast all over him when your on top he will go wildddddd
2007-10-29 14:02:51 · answer #9 · answered by bright 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I could tell more than what I 'm going to but I dont want suspended so I'll just say what your doing is good just bounce alittle they love it when they bounce I have large ones to and love it
2007-10-29 13:37:21 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋