2007-10-29 03:54:22 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
ask her.. what she need/want. there must be a problem that you need to talk.. communication is the key....
2007-11-02 03:48:22 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am not sure the solution you seek will be found here, so do not expect it...!
Assuming your wife is not phobic with selfishness, or you either, ask yourself if you are trying to make her happy with things you enjoy most and not of what she enjoys most...
Any relationship requires a level of sacrifice and compromise to make happiness possible... It isn't unusual for a couple to go back and start over again regardless of age and circumstances...try that...!
Return your thoughts to a time when you both were on cloud nine...all the things that brought you together in the first place...and "re-sample" some of those events to rejouvenate your relationship...
Keep in mind that the sensual events of your past are the ones that carry the life lasting memories so don't let them escape you...
Meanwhile, communications within a relationship is the key towards making all things possible...past, present and future...!
Your question should not be of what "you" can do, but really should be of what "we" can do...
Don't give up on her or yourself...work together and find success...
I wish you the very best and feel you will find it...
2007-10-29 11:14:12 · answer #2 · answered by farplaces 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you aren't making her happy, communicate with her about what is going on.
IF we don't express our feelings in marriage, we lack communication, which is the key to a successful marriage.
Please, tell her how you are feeling and talk it over. Perhaps the two of you could compromise on something..
2007-10-29 11:03:47 · answer #3 · answered by ♪Msz. Nena♫ 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is a common myth that you can make someone happy - you cant. People chose to be happy or not for themselves. All you ever can do is share your own happiness.
2007-10-29 10:58:13 · answer #4 · answered by petra 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Some people are extremely selfish which is what you may have encountered. Whatever you do isn't enough or is wrong. It would appear that some sort of counseling is required inorder to get over this hurdle. If this bothers you now it will only intensify .
2007-10-29 11:04:51 · answer #5 · answered by googie 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Has she always been unhappy or is this something new. If she's not happy that probably means she is not happy with your relationship. You shoud sit down and have an open discussion about this.
2007-10-29 11:00:42 · answer #6 · answered by Michelle D 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Find your own happiness and ask her to join in. You CANNOT MAKE another person happy, only yourself.
2007-10-29 10:59:43 · answer #7 · answered by cooter726 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe that's just it. YOU can't make her happy. It's sad, but people do fall out of love.
2007-10-29 11:06:02 · answer #8 · answered by ron-D 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i cant make her happy aww booh hooo god wat is wrong wit yall men round here gets some balls GROW SOME TESTICULES ]
NOW GO DO WHAT MAKES U HAPPY GET A BEER AND TURN THE GAME ON TELL HER TO SHUT THE FCK UP !!! TELL HER TO MAKE U DINNER !!! THIS IS WHAT THEY WANT THEY WILL NEVER SAY IT BUT BELIEVE ME I GET MORE PUSSY THEN U COULD IMAGINE BECAUSE I KNOW THEY NEED TO BE COMMANFDED AND LED AROUND THEY ARE WEAKER CREATURES THEN US
2007-10-29 11:00:25 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I agree witht he above posts. She needs to worry about her own happiness. You need to take care of your own.
2007-10-29 11:01:04 · answer #10 · answered by Islander 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋