Family & Relationships - 15 November 2007

OK, if two people meet on the internet or in a bar or just hanging out in the streets, and they decide to have a "fun time", is that legal? Because people make such a big deal out of Prostitution and making it illegal, but that's just the same as a man going into a bar and getting a girl for a one night stand. So why is "hooking up" not illegal? Is it just the fact that the IRS doesn't get any money out of the prostitutes?

2007-11-15 04:16:00 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

not sure if this helps in your comments but i am a 23 year old women

2007-11-15 04:13:46 · 6 answers · asked by Beautiful - 6 in Singles & Dating

So my bf and i had an argument last night over him wanting to live a "normal" life, whatever that means. He thinks he should not have to be restrained from talking to other girls, exes as long as it doesnt jeopardize OUR relationship. He says it's harmless, but i think he's full of s***. I mean who does that? If you wanna be in a committed relationship then how is it ok to talk to other girls as long as he's not doing anything. I mean am i just thinking too much about this, or what? It's just frustrating that's all...

Your advice will be appreciated...no smart comments please, there's no need.

Thanks

2007-11-15 04:12:05 · 41 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I have been dating my current girlfriend for about 7 weeks but we were friends before that for about 5 years.

My grandmother died last night and the funeral is on Saturday in Atlanta (we live in Tampa, FL).

She has the whole weekend off, and I think I would like her to be there but I am confused.

Should I take her to the funeral, or no?

On the one hand, I know that I want something long term with her, and she feels the same, and I think this would bring us closer overall.

On the other hand, she isn't going to know anyone and I'm not sure if it is too soon to emmerse her in something of this magnitude.

What do you think??

2007-11-15 04:11:36 · 21 answers · asked by TopherM 3 in Singles & Dating

2007-11-15 04:09:23 · 16 answers · asked by ibmeowmixin 1 in Marriage & Divorce

life with? How old were you when you got married, and how long have you been married?

I do not plan on getting married anytime soon, but with the divorce rate as high as it is, marriage is a scarry thing. Just wondering how you knew it was "right"

2007-11-15 04:05:30 · 19 answers · asked by Shayna 4 in Marriage & Divorce

I'm in love with this guy who just so happens to be married. He's been separated from his wife for four years and they live in different states, They have one child together. He's everything I've always wanted in a man, because of his religion he doesn't believe that he can divorce his wife unless she cheats on him(commits adultery). He says he's in love with me also we spend a great deal of time together hanging out going to dinner and a movie or I would cook for him. We spend time at each others place he loves my kids they interact wonderfully with each other. Theres no sexual relationship but we did kiss several time. We attend the same church. Am I destined for heart break?

2007-11-15 04:05:24 · 13 answers · asked by marjb 1 in Marriage & Divorce

what do females do in the restroom
Why do they always go in pairs and come out in pairs

2007-11-15 04:04:23 · 15 answers · asked by Tevyne T 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-11-15 04:04:15 · 7 answers · asked by Argo 3 in Singles & Dating

Assuming the couple has two children (ages 18 and 19, one in college), 4 vehicles, and land.

Unreconciled Differences would be the reason.

2007-11-15 04:03:57 · 6 answers · asked by Silent_Smile 2 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-11-15 04:02:30 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

i hate p.e mah teacher is a *****! i never used 2 go skwl on a friday when i had her runing out of excuse think of a good 1! and quickly need it 2 moz?

2007-11-15 04:02:23 · 16 answers · asked by Only Me 1 in Singles & Dating

I had gone to US on a visiting visa and left my husband and 2 sons here in India.On reaching US I realised that this guy had hots for me.I fled and all hopes for me to work in US shattered.Now again he has said he will help me if I am willling to have an affair with him.i will be able to take my sons there and work there.Should I betray my husband who has been an alcoholic for the last 19 years.I have struggled all these years to lead a normal life and give the best I can to my children.
He wants to take me out of the rut but for a price -an affair.He too is married with 3 college going children.

2007-11-15 03:59:35 · 41 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

2007-11-15 03:57:16 · 55 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

I think my husband is cheating. I don't really have that much proof but it is that gut feeling and he is being shady. How do I snap him out of this mid life crisis and remind him of our last 13 years together????????

2007-11-15 03:56:56 · 7 answers · asked by NickyB 1 in Marriage & Divorce

Would he spend over 3 days being angry and fighting? Wouldn't he just say to her that he loves her and wants to stop
fighting. My husband and I have 2 small children and I feel as though when we argue, he spends too much time focusing what I said or did then just ending the fight. I know it takes two,but I feel as though even though he's the one that did something to upset me, and I react, he gets all into the arguing
and being angry at each other, instead of just trying to make up. He agreed to counselling,but I'm reallly considering separtion and divorce if it doesn't work. It got to the point where fighting is much more than intimacy whch is very low. I
just feel used if we do get intimate because we usually hae another arguiment a few days later. I just feel that if a husband loves a wife he would spend more energy trying to make her happy then fighting. He gets me upset every day? He always forgets what makes me unhappy and does it again????

2007-11-15 03:55:46 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

I had sex with my neighbor and now he wants to leave his wife for me and he even said he would f my bf up . He is truly crzy He even went as far as chasing me in the parking lot last nite and banging on my door when i came back. I mean I dont want him like that I just wanted to bone. What should I do???

2007-11-15 03:55:29 · 9 answers · asked by 2 cents 1 in Singles & Dating

Hi again last time of posting for a while.

I have decided to try and sort out my issues with my estranged wife. I have been very unfair and have tried to justify a self destructive streak that has lasted over a year.

To put you in the picture, I had two business' fail on me and without my wife's knowledge I was left with over £40,000 of personal debt. I felt I had failed big style, and felt that how could i ask for anyone to give me time or love when I had failed so comprehessivly?

I now have a new full time job, but my estrange wife has a new job about 300 miles away and despite her trying to wait for me until a few weeks ago I have always pushed her away!

I know I have been very stupid, and I am willing to change jobs andmove down to be near her, to try and mae things work, but I know she is trying to move on.

So what's my question?

Not sure, but if I could have a few prayers from you I would be most grateful

2007-11-15 03:53:49 · 25 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

Nearly ALL singlemoms do it, and so will the married ones after they get a divorce. So, why do these married women get up on their high horse about poor parenting?

2007-11-15 03:53:36 · 29 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

Do they taste different than the 60 year old ones?

2007-11-15 03:48:30 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

my friend and i are at school right now trying to figure out how to get her a boyfriend. she is completely rejecting the idea of me asking my boyfriend to bring along a friend for a double date because shes scared he'll be stupid and ugly and cheap.

how can i convince her that she has to take that risk? i cant just go out and find mr. right for her ont he first try who's automatically smart funny cute and has a good job.

we're both seniors in high school an 17.. HELP

2007-11-15 03:48:07 · 19 answers · asked by li 4 in Singles & Dating

2007-11-15 03:47:31 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

2007-11-15 03:47:26 · 9 answers · asked by young_bp 1 in Marriage & Divorce

maybe for directions and accomodations. I spent a lot of time creating a very detailed website and i listed the address on the bottom of my save the date magnets that i sent out to every guest on my list. i can tell by my photo album settings how many people have logged in and viewed my photos. only 7 people out of 100 magnets! either they viewed the site and never clicked on the photos or they didn't get it that the website on the bottom of the magnet is MY website. maybe they think it's a random website of the company that made the magnets (which i actually made myself). i really really want everyone to visit my website. i have no way of knowing what happened. i recently added a few lines on the website saying please sign my guest book so i know you were here, and check out our photo album. what to do?

2007-11-15 03:45:00 · 8 answers · asked by Sue 1 in Weddings

If my children lived ten years with the mother making 50 k per year and the father making $400K the last three years and the wife gets the kids 75% of the time, you STILL don't believe that alimony is needed?

What are they teaching you young women in school?

This us reality, not women's lib or misogynist fantasy land.

Ok. I rant. It is frustrating to see women do more and more to their own detriment.

If the woman above was not given alimony, these same women would call her horrible if she said, "He has the money, let him raise them." and gave them to him, only to see them a few times a month.

2007-11-15 03:43:43 · 6 answers · asked by charlie girl 1 in Marriage & Divorce

i just got married about a month ago and have a two month old little girl !! i love my husband very much and so it makes me feel very uncomfortable when guys hit on me!!! i don't want to be rude to them, so i try to just shrug it off but it still bothers me!! what do i do?

2007-11-15 03:43:14 · 55 answers · asked by tinkerbell 1 in Marriage & Divorce

i broke up with my ex of 3 years 3 months ago. I met a guy and he asked me to consider going out with him but he is afraid i am using him as a rebound. But i am only in the process of trying to get toknow the guy. So far, if i haven't said yes to going out with him, is this considered a rebound? Or does rebound mean bf/gf and dating. We are just friends getting to know each other.

2007-11-15 03:41:27 · 9 answers · asked by S S 1 in Marriage & Divorce

what would you do if your boyfriend or husband told you he was bi?

2007-11-15 03:36:07 · 31 answers · asked by Mindy 3 in Singles & Dating

My husband and I need to get our will done. We do have a friend who is a lawyer and does them, but is it something that would be awkward given that we will be discussing financial matters?

2007-11-15 03:35:15 · 11 answers · asked by Allie 3 in Marriage & Divorce

I know showing lots of skin on your wedding day is whats in vogue now, but I just don't want my shoulders bare. I saw this dress on a website that is a source for LDS wedding dresses. I am not LDS, but I saw this dress and just gasped. I just think it is so beautiful. Do you think this dress is too covered up for a modern wedding? I will be 24 by the wedding day, but I look like a teen.

I talked to my fiance about what type of wedding dress he would like to see me in and he said he likes strapless dresses on girls. I don't want to wear a strapless dress, but I don't want him to feel disapointed when he sees me wearing this on our wedding day because I won't be showing much skin. I am very thin, so I don't have to worry about my dress covering up batwing arm flab or anything. I have considered buying this dress and taking it to a tailor to make the sleeves slightly thinner.

http://www.totallymodest.com/

2007-11-15 03:33:43 · 70 answers · asked by love 6 in Weddings