Family & Relationships - 15 November 2007

Then they can wear there own jewerly.

2007-11-15 06:27:36 · 8 answers · asked by Kelsy 1 in Weddings

i just found out my parents wont be involved with my wedding i just got engaged 3 weeks ago tomarrow.they say its a waste of money and time. im not sure how i should go about planning it now kinda confused how everything should work now does anybody have any ideas or have been in a situation like this? btw the reason they wont is i live with him now and they are very religous people and dont believe in living together before marrige.

2007-11-15 06:24:35 · 21 answers · asked by hot*stuff 2 in Weddings

I have a great BF in a long distance relationship for over 4 years, I havent seen him in over a year but we'll see each other one weekend this next december.

I am in Belgium and he is in California, but things don't end there, here I met a guy who I felt had a lot in common with, we started dating and I told my BF in california who took it very natural but told me that he'd stick with me because he loved me.

My new bf in belgium dumped me and I was alone and sad calling my Bf in cali to tell him about my break up, his advise?! I love u so you're not alone; I can't get over the belgian guy but deep inside I think it's because I feel tremendously lonely here and he brought me a lot of warmth and love but at the end broke my heart.

Now I am HORRIFIED of loving again because this pain hurts a lot and my belgian BF does not want me, but the cali one wants me but I dont think I love him.... what should i do? I dont want to be alone but Im scared of loving again, should I stick to cali BF?

2007-11-15 06:23:07 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

my husband and i have been married 9 months. i still have my friends that ive had since highschool (which are single and still kinda immature) and hubby has his friend (who is also younger and single) when we hang out with our friends (me with mine and him with his) our friends wanna go do "single" stuff and its pretty boring to me and my husband..so i figure maybe..we should just try to find friends who are married so we can hang out with our friends together. have you ever had that problem?

2007-11-15 06:22:51 · 24 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

2007-11-15 06:22:13 · 26 answers · asked by Ariella 1 in Singles & Dating

Where can we go to ensure we have a great night! : )

2007-11-15 06:22:09 · 8 answers · asked by dolly 3 in Singles & Dating

I've been in a relationship for 5 years, living together for 2 years. We've definitely had our share of ups and downs, but I really feel like we're meant to be. A few weeks ago, a woman who works with us started hanging out with us, which I didn't mind, she's fun to be around and we all get a long. Last week, Jay went to her house to watch a football game, (I'm not into sports) and ended up not coming home and would not answer the phone all night long. They said they'd got to drinking and didn't want to drive home. I let it go. Last night she came over with another friend and i ended up going to bed because I had to work in the AM. I came down to them sitting very close on the couch about midnight. I said it was late and she left. This AM when I confronted jay he said he didn't know if he wanted to have sex with her, but that he loved me and wanted to be with me only. This is a five year relationship that I'm not wanting to give up for someone we've known 2 months, help.

2007-11-15 06:22:02 · 8 answers · asked by joline 2 in Singles & Dating

Its been more than 4 months of our marriage and I haven't been able to have a proper penetration. The problem is we dont wanna have kids. She cannot take tabs and I need to wear the condo*. But, I do not enjoy wearing and doing and sometimes it slips. So, I am scared that it might slip and am unable to do properly.

This is getting both me and my wife frustrated. Any solution to my problem ? We both want to enjoy but still want to avoid kids.

2007-11-15 06:16:31 · 49 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

2007-11-15 06:15:21 · 16 answers · asked by Peter R 3 in Marriage & Divorce

I am hosting thanksgiving dinner at my home this year. The problem is that my family is not like it used to be. When I was growing up we were extremely close, out to dinner every friday, family get togethers at least once or twice a month, we would all gather for dinner at my grams a couple times a week for dinner, then as I got older things changed. There are hard feelings, grudges being held, in law problems, nasty attitudes and sarcastic comments, bitterness, and in the midst of it all I have many many cousins that are missing out on what I once had. So my question is this. Is there anything I can do at thanksgiving that can help to open peoples eyes and show them that life is too short. That we should be letting love prevail. A poem, a story an activity, something. Please I need some advice.

2007-11-15 06:14:12 · 9 answers · asked by tking 2 in Family

2007-11-15 06:07:29 · 14 answers · asked by ? 1 in Marriage & Divorce

Well I go to pebblebrook and I hate it! I don't have any true friends! I really want some friends. I'm not weird and I'm not a freak just a regular girl! I bet some people are just going to say mean stuff but oh well! Just get over yourself! But yeah even weird people have friends! Why can't I find the right ones?

2007-11-15 06:07:00 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

but the guy you lost your virginity to wants to get back with you and you havent forgotten him yet. you still have feelings for him?

2007-11-15 06:05:38 · 14 answers · asked by I Love Jose Cristian! 2 in Marriage & Divorce

I am 27 and my wife is 22. She has gone on a holiday to her parents house. She will be back after a month. Now, I am getting attracted towards other women. How do I control myself ?

2007-11-15 06:05:32 · 27 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

2007-11-15 06:03:25 · 49 answers · asked by Razor 5 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-11-15 06:03:04 · 35 answers · asked by completely lost 1 in Marriage & Divorce

How is/was your relationship with your mother? As the saying goes, "2 queens can't live in 1 castle". How true is that statement?

2007-11-15 06:02:04 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

To start off for almost a year now my bf of 4yrs has been working out of state to start his career as a diesel mechanic. He works 8days and is home 6days w/me. So, it works out great. My bf rents a room from like a boarding house place. There are like 10 other people living there. I visit him there like once a month. Anyways I really dislike this women that lives there she is extremely rude to me and gives me attitude about everything. I ignore her and she still tries to blame **** on me or something. Everyone else likes me and everything I have no problem with anyone else, but her. Well she asked my bf if he would fix a part on her car for $500. He asked me if he can and I don’t know what to say. I want to say no because I dislike her a lot, and my bf doesn’t like her for how she treats me. I like to be nice and help people. But she is the type of person that thinks people owe her everything. she doesnt apperciate things u do for her.

2007-11-15 06:01:55 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

Here is my problem,

This is my second year advertising my wedding photography. Last year I did something called "stuff its" at a bridal show. I was able to make a flyer and print 1300+ copies of it. And before the show they would place a 1 flyer in each wedding bag for the show. So when people came into the show they each got a bag that they could carry around and put stuff in from vendors at the show. So this year I am doing it again in my home town of Cleveland with 1700 Flyers for one show. They have another show in Akron that is only 1000 flyers. I have to pay the same about of $495 for each show, to have my flyers placed. Plust the cost to print them. So the difference would be this - $1584.09 to make 2700 flyers and advertise at both the Cleveland and Akron Shows, or $902.79 to print 1700 flyers and advertise at just the Cleveland show ? A price difference of $681.30. Is that worth it for 700 less flyers at another show ? Should I do both or just one show ??? Please advise.

2007-11-15 06:01:47 · 7 answers · asked by arch_angel21@sbcglobal.net 3 in Weddings

If guys ask/like girls to shave then why shouldn't they have to shave theirs too if thats what the girl asks/likes?

2007-11-15 05:59:29 · 47 answers · asked by Kris 5 in Singles & Dating

I don't take it seriously anymore, but i'm getting fed up with it. She keeps breaking up with me 'cause i won't go with her to any of her family things. She doesn't seem to care i don't care for her family, and that i have nothing to do there. She insists she wants me to share in HER life, but why can't she see it's HER life, not mine? She isn't even giving importance to the fact that for anything else i will be with her, just not when her family or friends are involved.
What should i do?

2007-11-15 05:59:14 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

So i figure when he doesn't answer he's saying come over. He has asked me to stop just popping up at his house for like 6 months straight but he always lets me in when i do then doesn't want me to leave. But we have this strange thing like he doesn't like to ask me to come & see him so I can later say yeah u can't leave me alone...Am i reading into this wrong - does he not answer cause he doesn't want to talk to me or see me or because he wants me to pop up so it's like i loose & i came after him

2007-11-15 05:56:31 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

as many details as possible please.

2007-11-15 05:56:24 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

After 8 years i just realized that it was over . Where do I go from here. I have a 5 month old baby boy , and am a new single mom . I have to admit it is scary as hell . I have been tied down sice i was 15 years old am now 23 . I feel like i dont know anything else. I dont know how to meet people . Do any of you have any suggestions? Do you think moving out of state would do anygood ? What did you do ? ( if this has happend to you ) how long dose it take to feel normal againe ?

2007-11-15 05:53:36 · 31 answers · asked by c_ann0522 3 in Marriage & Divorce

give positive to this question

2007-11-15 05:51:13 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

My man and I have hard a time together for the last year or so. A year ago he cheated on me with an "ex" (even though he denied until April). After this, I found out he was still talking with her. Not to mention he was writing females explicit letters on-line on a daily basis from December until this August. He has been making much effort to correct his behavior, but he still makes jokes concerning him and other women (in a sexual sense I mean). Last night he says that I am so jealous of him and other women that if he had a pretty cousin and he was spending time with her...I would think he was cheating with her. I just think he's playing a game called "let's pretend I'm not in the hot seat, and I won't be" or something like that. Could he really not understand why I have issues trusting him and why the subject of him and other women is NEVER entertaining to me? It seems now that he's painting a picture of me as a "jealous psychotic woman"...WOULDN'T YOU BE CAUTIOUS IN SUCH A CASE?

2007-11-15 05:50:07 · 27 answers · asked by honeygirlc 2 in Marriage & Divorce

I find im nervous/awkward round my male friend if he comes into my office or i go to his office i get nervous in my tummy. I dont know how to act as im not used to it and its out of my zone as ive never had a guy friend before and not good round guys i am 24. I hate it i also seem to develop crushes on every guy i meet and wish this would stop happening as its ruining my life. Every time he talks to me i start blushing or feel myself going red

2007-11-15 05:49:59 · 6 answers · asked by josephine123446 1 in Friends

~The sun making its way upon your heart,
as the rays sing a lovely tune, sparkles in your
eyes, as slowly the day starts.
The warm breeze blowing tenderly upon your soul,
releasing your thoughts like a silken scroll.~

2007-11-15 05:49:49 · 20 answers · asked by Gõlden angel 3 in Singles & Dating

help plz i am still freinds with her and her brother is like my best freind that i have ever had

2007-11-15 05:49:03 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

i have been dating this guy on an off for about a year and a half. We have been getting alot closer within these past few months and i am thinking about taking it a little further ( boyfriend/sex). However i just found out that he may have possibly slept with the mutual friend who introduced us. She told one of my other girl friends that it happened and in turn my girl friend told me. He denies it wholeheartedly and in my heart i believe him. I am not naive, its just actions speak louder than words. He has spent numerous nights over my house (and vise versa) and has never pressured me for sex. He's very patient with me and respectful that i like to take things slow. Now we have never been exclusive and i am sure that he has had sex with other girls, which i dont care about...its just to do it with one of my friends is a no no. Basically im trying to get down to the bottom of it...i dont know who to believe....any suggestions on what i should do??

2007-11-15 05:46:58 · 19 answers · asked by iluvme 1 in Singles & Dating