I have a great BF in a long distance relationship for over 4 years, I havent seen him in over a year but we'll see each other one weekend this next december.
I am in Belgium and he is in California, but things don't end there, here I met a guy who I felt had a lot in common with, we started dating and I told my BF in california who took it very natural but told me that he'd stick with me because he loved me.
My new bf in belgium dumped me and I was alone and sad calling my Bf in cali to tell him about my break up, his advise?! I love u so you're not alone; I can't get over the belgian guy but deep inside I think it's because I feel tremendously lonely here and he brought me a lot of warmth and love but at the end broke my heart.
Now I am HORRIFIED of loving again because this pain hurts a lot and my belgian BF does not want me, but the cali one wants me but I dont think I love him.... what should i do? I dont want to be alone but Im scared of loving again, should I stick to cali BF?
2007-11-15 06:23:07 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
As far as the Cali BF, I think that BF should stand for Best Friend not Boyfriend. Honey I understand the lonely feeling and the pain you are going through because of Mr Belguim, but you need to let Cali guy know how you really feel about him. I don't think that by keeping him on the shelf that you are being fair. I totally understand how scared you must be about loving again but you gotta get back on the horse. And not until you are ready. Wait for a while...go out and have fun...Don't be in such a rush to find someone just because you are lonely. What doesn't kill us makes us stronger...as many broken hearts as I have had I know that to be true.
2007-11-15 06:34:45 · answer #1 · answered by raebsoto 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't stick to Cali boy just because you feel alone and scared because that's not good for either of you. You will find love again even though it might take some time.
Don't be afraid to open your heart again. Love hurts but we all heal in time.
2007-11-15 14:28:25 · answer #2 · answered by Arctic Flame 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you are being selfish. Why string the boy in Cali along? It seems you just keep him around because there is no one else. Let the boy in Cali find someone that loves him. Try being alone. If you are not comfortable being alone..you will have many heartbreaks.
2007-11-15 14:28:19 · answer #3 · answered by MoNA 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You should break up with the guy in California. He obviously cares for you more than you care for him. Its just not right. You have done him wrong. He doesn't need you, do him a favor
2007-11-15 14:26:35 · answer #4 · answered by First Lady 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You should stop being so afraid of being alone. Never be in a relationship just b/c you don't want to be alone.
2007-11-15 14:26:01 · answer #5 · answered by Rei-Rei 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to ficus on yourself. Why do you feel that you need someone with you to be happy?
2007-11-15 14:27:50 · answer #6 · answered by Christy V 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2007-11-15 14:28:34 · answer #7 · answered by jimrich 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋