Family & Relationships - 15 November 2007

would you tell and how?

I just saw one of my friend's husband open mouth kiss another girl in the parking lot of where I work. This was NO chicken peck! She could not keep her hands off him. The worst part is ...this girl is her friend also.

2007-11-15 07:18:35 · 26 answers · asked by Stiletto ♥ 6 in Marriage & Divorce

Me and my ex (Shawn) started dating a year ago tomorrow. I've a crush on him well about 14 months. I really miss him. It seems that he likes me stilli'm not sure. I asked one of his friends that i want to tlk to Shawn tomorrow at lunch...I dunno if he'll remember but i hope so. All i want 2 say is that i luv him and i'll never forget him. Not exactly like that, but along those lines. i hop e that i can get back with him. I wrote this note just incase i can't say it 2 his face:
hey shawn, if ur reading this it proabaly means i can't say it 2 u in person. K, i noe that i bugged u last year. I just want u 2 noe i'm srry. i honestly don't blame u 4 breaking -up with me. i really miss u and i want 2 go out wit u agen. if u say no, i completely undersdtand. I've tried to get over u, but i can't. K...this might creep u out but i'll always love u adn ur my 1st love. i'd do any thing to get back with you. i thoti got over, but it's preety obviosus i didnt.
is that is ok? Plz gimme advice!

2007-11-15 07:16:44 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

how screwed up is this? I posted a question about my cosuin with a pimple and if it was a sign of staph cause she has other symptoms..and some said it was...so we looked up pictures online and it looks like it so we told her mom and her mom wont drive her to the hospital or doctors cause she thinks it is just a pimple. my cousin said that i said i think it is staph and her mom is like well is she a doctor? do you know for sure that is is staph? and im like are you? how do you know its not? how stupid can you get your child could possibly have mrsa staph and you dont get up off your *** and have her checked out? she could die and you don't stop watching tv and get her help? wtf is wrong with her? when did people stop caring for their kids? (not saying all do) my mom would have me at the hospital in a heart beat! what can I do to convince my aunt to take her?

2007-11-15 07:16:33 · 10 answers · asked by Ohhemmgee_its_Angie 2 in Family

ever since i could remember i have had an extreme hatred of old people they fing suck not only does all of thier breath smell like white rice some of them even wear diapers in an attempt to look young. Once you reach 40 you shouldnt even have the option of living

2007-11-15 07:14:44 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Almost every girl I know that talks about their ex in a negative way always complains about how small their penis was. It's always I couldn't feel it and I can feel a tampon or the just point to some guy in public and start talking about how small it was. First of all I don't care. Second, who would date you if that's how you are going to treat them after you break up?

2007-11-15 07:11:17 · 59 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

theres this guy, we kinda dated, but weve liked eacother for a really long time. we hungout a lot last month, and kissed and stuff. well anyway, about 2 weeks ago, we said how we kinda dont feel the same anymore, like the sparks went away, and he tells me how he isnt ready to be in a serious relationship. i was really pissed, but im better now. but now hes talking to one of fis exs again, and idk whats going on with them, but he ignores me. and its really werid. we used to talk everyday and everything, and now its like were fighting or something? but were not. its just he walks right by me in school, doesnt say anything, and sometimes, when i have to take the bus, and hes on it, we used to always sit together and now he passes by me, and doesnt say hi or anything. i dont get it. is this normal? why is he ignoring me? (were seniors, not little 8th graders lol, just so you know) thanks

2007-11-15 07:08:35 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-11-15 07:06:49 · 56 answers · asked by Smith G 2 in Family

i hate when people say they cheated because they didnt get enough sex or something was lacking in the relationship. THEN BREAK UP!

i was with a man who did lots of shady things im prettu sure he cheated and i was so miserable being with him (im not with him anymore) but at the time soooo damn miserable because of everything he was doing i never resulted to cheating even if he did. So my beliefs, its never the persons fault they are with what happened to communication" this is what i dont like in out relationship lets fix it" not enough sex? say something, i dont think it is ever the person they are withs fault they cheated.

what are your thoughts on this?

i think people who cheat are unhappy. BUT WITH THEMSELVES!

2007-11-15 07:06:25 · 6 answers · asked by nygirlsrdifferent 1 in Singles & Dating

It is only in my name, but we bought it during our marriage. Now I have the car and the payment....does he have to help pay?

2007-11-15 07:06:13 · 12 answers · asked by dewgrl3 2 in Marriage & Divorce

I've been alone for about 2-3 years and its starting to finally phase me. I just haven't put time into it since my last situation. Now, I wanna try again but am nervous and kinda shy. I also am naturally soft-spoken, so breaking my own shell seems to be my big problem.
Any tips? thanks.

2007-11-15 07:03:13 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I want to get my girl friend a going away present, as she leaves for Ireland in a little over a month. I thought something that would be really helpful when she is over in Ireland, but I am striking out with ideas.
Any ideas would be greatly appreciated.
Thanks in advance

2007-11-15 07:01:07 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

hi,

my friend is making a movie for his film class in college. from what i have seen of the movie, i honestly do not like it.

I will reserve my judgement until i see the final product. but incase i do not like it, and he asks what i thought of it, what should i say?

i want to be a good friend and say "yes", but at the same time i want to be honest with myself, and i think he is old enough to handle the fact someone did not like his movie.


So, should i
A- Say i liked it no matter what
B- Say i don't like it
C-Give my honest opinion if he asks "what did you honestly think?"

2007-11-15 07:00:40 · 6 answers · asked by arodhater 3 in Friends

his wife about getting back together with her behind my friends back, he says it was for the kids. I say it wasn't and that he was still in love with her or he wouldn't have done that. He still has more than the normal amount of communication with his ex and it bothers my friend to the point that she doesn't care any more what the reason is and is moving out. She is sitting here with me and we have bet each other a massage at the day spa that 1. I say he is still in love with her but pride won't let him go back to her 2. She says it is because of the kids. He really bends over backwards to make the ex happy at my friends expense and gets mad at her when she brings it up. She is pretty much over him, so that is why the bet......

2007-11-15 07:00:13 · 15 answers · asked by Rein 5 in Marriage & Divorce

with lot of culture differences but lot of love too

2007-11-15 06:58:16 · 21 answers · asked by dani 1 in Marriage & Divorce

Well I stepped on a hoe and the handle flew up and hit my nose and broke it. I am about as dingy as they come and son of a gun that thing hurts.

2007-11-15 06:56:40 · 4 answers · asked by seaturtle36 6 in Friends

I've been dating this man for almost a year. I just recently found out that he's still married but he says he didn't tell me because he's in the middle of a divorce. But why is it taking so long? Should I wait for him? or should I just leave?

2007-11-15 06:55:13 · 103 answers · asked by NavyMomma 1 in Marriage & Divorce

My husband and I have had sexual problems for a long time. Or should I say I have had problems. I love my husband with all my heart, but when it comes to having sex... I want to until it comes down to it then its like everything just disappears. He is wonderful at everything he does and he keeps saying its not me. We MIGHT be able to have sex once or twice a month.I am worried that I am driving him away. And that if I dont get out of whatever I am going through he will find someone else. We have been married for 20 years.

2007-11-15 06:53:45 · 27 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

Does anyone else out there feel like you prefer to be alone?
I will aadmit that i feel very lonely and I wish I had someone that I could be with. I do have friends and I can be very fun and loud and obnoxious around them, but as soon as they ask me to go out or show interest in spending time with me I get scared and I make excuses. I feel so threatened at the prospect of letting others close to me or allowing them into my world.

I am twenty four years old and this has been going on pretty much since highschool and it has gotten much worse since then. It seems like all of my friendships with people are slowly dissolveing with people because of this. I don't want to wake up one day and be eighty years old and realize I've spent my entire life this isolated.

Is this at all normal? Does anyone else ever feel this way?

2007-11-15 06:50:20 · 5 answers · asked by its.just.me 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-11-15 06:46:08 · 11 answers · asked by bread 4 in Family

2007-11-15 06:42:13 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

My wife gets offended that I masterbate occassionally. She rarley wants sex, maybe once or twice a month. Rather than constantly bug her for it, I take care of myself. She feels she should be enough, and I might have a sexual addiction. She says all married women rarely give it to their men, especially after having kids.

2007-11-15 06:40:31 · 28 answers · asked by ? 4 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-11-15 06:39:52 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Weddings

are ppl on Y getting really rude and need to calm down a bit
please tell me cuz ppl r so rude to me
why
idk

2007-11-15 06:37:43 · 3 answers · asked by Channels M 2 in Friends

I left my husband in January because he is an alcoholic and he was taking the bottle over me and our two daughters. I couldn't take it anymore. I had lived that life for 6 years and I couldn't do it to my kids anymore. I chose to leave so he could get better but instead he found another girl that is having his baby and he is still drinking. I am 27 and I don't have any kind of education. I want so badly to give my girls a good,healthy life but I feel so down because I am living at home with my parents. I can't do anything on my own and I feel like a loser. I need to go back to school but I don't see myself being on my own feet for a while. Should I feel this way or should I just accept it? Will my daughters look down on me because I wasn't able to buy them a home when they were younger? I just worry about how they are going to look at me when they get older. Thanks for your advice!!

2007-11-15 06:37:36 · 27 answers · asked by lvbrdy4vr 1 in Marriage & Divorce

Sorry...I just had to do it.....

2007-11-15 06:36:29 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

A friend of mine just mey a guy on myspace. she invited him to come meet her. I was invited to come, she probly asked me to go b/c i am trying to get over my x, but the guy wants to do stuff. I am afraid that this guy might try to hurt my friend or me . How do i talk my friend out of it? I tried once but she got mad at me!!

And dont leave rood answers, it wont help me any if u do.

2007-11-15 06:35:39 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

my husband has phobia in giving flowers because of the past incident he had with his ex-gf. I really want to receive flowers everyday, specially during our special days. I asked him to do that favor for me, but he just can't co'z he's afraid that the experience might happen again, How can I help him with that? so basically he can give me flowers?

2007-11-15 06:34:33 · 25 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

i HAVE BEEN SEPARATED FROM MY HUSBAND FOR 3 YEARS. HE WAS ALWAYS VERY ABUSIVE, HE COMMITED DOMESTIC VIOLENCE FOR 23 YEARS TO ME, HE HAS BEEN HARRASING ME CALLING ME TRYING TO SCARED ME SO I CAN SIGN THE PENSION PLAN PAPER, BECAUSE HE WANTS TO COLLECT ALL FOR HIS SELF IN A LUMP SUM. HE SAID HE RATER SEE ME DEATH, THAN GIVING ME ANY MONEY, I DO NOT KNOW ANYTHING ABOUT PENSION PLANS, I DONT EVEN HAVE AN IDEA OF HOW MUCH MONEY HE IS TALKING ABOUT. HE HAS BEEN TRYING TO FORGE MY SIGNATURE, HE WORKS FOR 28 YEARS AND HE GOT FIRE FOR BEEN DRUNK ON HIS JOB. hE ALSO REFUSES TO PAY ME CHILD SUPPORT. CAN SOMEONE HELP ME!!!!HE IS VERY PARANOID NOW, AND HE IS SO ANGRY BECAUSE HE CAN NOT GET THAT MONEY WITH OUT MY SIGNATURE. adrianaflornomas@yahoo.com

2007-11-15 06:32:59 · 8 answers · asked by Adriana M 1 in Marriage & Divorce

I have noticed on here that a wishing well at a baby or bridal shower means different things in different regions. Can you please tell me what it means to you and where you are from?

I'm from NJ and if a shower invitation says "wishing well", it means the guests (in addition to their larger gift) bring smaller, everyday items to put in the "well". At a bridal shower you may bring a package of sponges, some dish soap, a candle, etc. and at a baby shower you might bring a package of diapers, wipes, a rattle, etc.)

2007-11-15 06:30:25 · 22 answers · asked by Level Headed, I hope 5 in Weddings

What do you think?

2007-11-15 06:28:21 · 51 answers · asked by Rhiannon 6 in Other - Family & Relationships