What do you think?
2007-11-15 06:28:21 · 51 answers · asked by Rhiannon 6 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
It MAY be possible to agree with that based on statistics but a statistical correlation does not make something true, and especially not absolutely true.
There are a lot of women that are interested in sex and there are a lot of guys that are interested in love. Thats the truth!
2007-11-15 07:53:17 · answer #1 · answered by megalomaniac 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like a yes to both statements. But the thing is, NOT ALL Men or All Women, are the same, feel the same, act the same. So in saying that, you have some Men and Women that give Sex to get Money...No Love Involved! Then You have Some Men and Women that give Give Money to Get Sex...No Love Involved! Then the end result of all the scenarios is when some Men and Women give sex, money time and their Love to GET Love from a Woman or Man, and then once they get the person...sometimes ALL of the Above...STOPS! Then what do you have? Now that's another question..........
2007-11-15 06:53:44 · answer #2 · answered by Dub-G 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Alot of women confuse sex with love. Sex is a physical thing. It can be an expression of love, but that only comes in time. If he is willing to wait, it will be an expression of love. if he wants it now and is pressuring a girl in any way, it's just for physical gratification.
It's part human nature. Men are seen as the provider. They do the physical labor stuff, while women are the nurturing caregivers. Men want sex, and love comes as a second sometimes. Women use sex as expression of their feelings for men, and think that men are having sex as an expression of their feelings.
Why do you think woman are always getting hurt? They think their men are in love because they want to have sex, when the men really just want sex. It doesn't mean he doen't care, he just probably doesn't care as much as she thinks.
There are exceptions! But if two people really care about each other, the sex once they know it's love on both sides will be worth the wait, and nothing to regret when the break up happens.
2007-11-15 06:37:06 · answer #3 · answered by Meghan 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Everyone is in-titled to an opinion & I am happy to see people speak out on what they believe in. Well I can tell you I am a be liver of Jesus, God, & the Holy Spirit. However i'm not a Christian nor do I call myself a Christian. I'm a full blown Jesus Freak! That means I love all! Anyway, back to your other statements. You cant blame love for peoples actions, or renditions of what they think love is. If you will, find & borrow a New King James version Bible & go to 1Corinthians 4: 13. Read that entire verse. That is what LOVE truly is. If you can say you model that , then you will know what true Love really is. It's a tough one to follow. But that is what it takes. That's the real love !
2016-04-04 02:56:11 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Oh, honey, you're mom has a lot to learn. Everyone loves. Man or woman.
Unfortunately, as hormones surge, young boys and men will profess love to manipulate young girls and women to allow the men access to their bodies.
Sex is a wonderful, enjoyable interaction between 2 people who care so much about each other they can't express that love any more completely than by sharing their bodies with each other.
Remember that its a gift that can only be given for the first time once. Be very careful to make sure that the person you give that gift to is worth the gift you're giving them.
The best way to make sure you've given it to the right person, is to wait until that person has made vows in front of God and people that they will remain faithful to you and honor you for your entire life.
Good luck and remember you don't need to give yourself away to be loved. If someone really loves you, they will have your best interest at heart and will respect you and your body.
If you give your body to anyone that comes along, you cheapen the gift you have to give.
2007-11-15 06:41:01 · answer #5 · answered by drewsnana 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I've heard it this way: Men use romance to get sex, women use sex to get romance. Unfortunately, it's pretty true. I'm sure there are SOME women who love sex, with or without romance and there are probably some honestly romantic men, but for the most part, this quote says it like it is.
2007-11-15 06:33:37 · answer #6 · answered by luvrats 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
In my opinion....
Women, in general, need an emotional attachment to have sex with a man. Men don't need one. We truly don't know how we really feel about a woman until after we've had sex with them. Men tend to get too involved/distracted by the pursuit and can fool themselves into thinking they are in love if the woman holds out too long while waiting and asking to be convinced he is in love with her before they have sex.
2007-11-15 06:41:20 · answer #7 · answered by Editor Will 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
That can be true yet it can also be false. Depends on the sincerity of those envolved. Some people are willing to do whatever it takes to get what they want (sex or love) Others are sincere. A lot of people do fit into that statement yet a lot don't.
2007-11-15 06:35:21 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Question, when did you parents part ways. She sounds like my mother, that's bitterness.
No hun it's not true. I dont agree because I know many men who would have sex to get love also give money blindly to a terrible wife just to have her beside him.
Give guys a break sometimes.
Men and women react the same way. Women just lie to themselves better about it.
2007-11-15 06:33:32 · answer #9 · answered by Gitana 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
I'd say your mom watches too much Oprah.
Or some media-stereotyping stuff like that.
And eats-up way too many of this mass-media bullshit.
No offence to your mom, but this society keeps telling us crap like this, that is untrue.
We ALL need sex and love, we all like them the same. Women like sex just as much as men and men like loveing just as much as women, we're not half only a human, we're a whole human. The thing is we both are too AFRADID of what society says about this, that we don't admit this, even to ourselves.
The only difference is that women have a natural inclination to be more selective about their parteners, because they might get pregnat. That's a thing we've got from our ancestors, who, by the way didn't have condoms. And that's all.
And, for anyone out there who says i'm nuts: I LOVE love and I love sex. And sayinggirls don't like sex is stupid, don't be afraid of expression you desires, belive me, they want it just as much.
And, because I feel good today, heck, i feel great, here's a little bonus, a great song you might want to check out: Damien Rice - Older Chests.
2007-11-15 06:48:02 · answer #10 · answered by vlad r 3 · 3⤊ 0⤋