Family & Relationships - 15 November 2007

I know he likes me to wear them, but is this acceptable / normal?

2007-11-15 07:54:55 · 34 answers · asked by Bailey 1 in Marriage & Divorce

do you like a man to wear a condum or not and does it feel different

2007-11-15 07:53:53 · 13 answers · asked by c j 10" 3 in Singles & Dating

2007-11-15 07:52:31 · 6 answers · asked by ~☆ Petit ♥ Chou ☆~ 7 in Singles & Dating

My problem is that i have no life what so ever. So, yeah, what can ci do to get a life, cuz i dont have one, and i need one cuz i dont have a life, so yea can u help me cuz of my problem of me having no life?

2007-11-15 07:49:00 · 16 answers · asked by Bob C 1 in Singles & Dating

I want to marry my fiance' of two years, but as of now, it would have to be a courthouse wedding. I want to have a real wedding, and am afraid of what my family will think of me for having a courthouse wedding. I don't know what to do.

2007-11-15 07:48:54 · 30 answers · asked by I'll tell it like it is 5 in Marriage & Divorce

My best friend wanted to finish a beer one day while I left for work. I said it was cool and she said she would only be another 10 minutes. My boyfriend had just gotten home at that time also. I felt a little wierd about it, but went to work anyway. I called TWO hours later and she was still here. I found out later that night that she wantde more beer and they went to the store together to buy some. So, she stayed when she told me she was leaving. My boyfriend didn't even bother to try and get her out( saying he had to take a shower or go somewhere.) He suppose to go to a counseling session and instead stayed here with her. Am I right to feel angry with both of them?

2007-11-15 07:48:00 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-11-15 07:48:00 · 9 answers · asked by zoee_d 4 in Singles & Dating

But he's coming back before Christmas.

2007-11-15 07:46:28 · 11 answers · asked by jamaicanmilkdud 1 in Singles & Dating

ok this fat girl just started hitting on me.

im taking this as an insult, cuz if i was hotter she wouldnt have had the guts to.

am i right?

2007-11-15 07:44:45 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I have tried to talk to mine about a problem that reoccurrs in our lives. It bothers me, but it doesn't bother him. It bothers me to the point sometimes that I can't sleep and I really get upset...I don't let him see me cry about it though. I did one time. It isn't porn or anything like that it just involves a person who does things to hurt me that is in his life and I wish they weren't. He doesn't seem to understand the magnatude of this problem. I am not a sissy or overly sensitive in my life, it is just this one thing....and I don't know what to do about it. How can I not only get him to hear me, but feel me was well on this one? I am at a huge loss. Please help.

2007-11-15 07:44:14 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

do all men think of other girls when having sex? because my bf said sometimes when he wants to hurry up a *** he'll think of other girls. not girls he knows just girls!!!!

2007-11-15 07:43:50 · 1 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

so there is this guy, lets call him K. never ever talk to him once, but he knows me. ( my friends asked. ) today, my friends told him i liked him and he didnt say anything. them and the whole class asked him again and he said, " who is that. " and then he knew. and then he didnt respond. now im the center of attention, everyone knows and asks, and it makes it soo akward even more to be around him and i yelled at my friends too! so now one of them arent talkin to me. what do i do?? ( about friend and about boy and about classmates!) i need thorough advice not just a sentence thanks!

2007-11-15 07:43:21 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I wanted to run something buy you guys. My wife moved out on me a few days ago. We came up with a plan that I am not too sure is fair...if you have any suggestions let me know. Keep in mind, the goal here is to make the visitation between the both of us EXACTLY equal. Every Monday from 9am to Wednesdays at 6pm our two boys with be with their mom. From Wednesdays at 6pm to Saturday morning at 9am our boys will be with me (dad). We alternate every other weekend but she wants my weekends cut short stopping at 6pm on Sunday night, however her weekends are Saturday morning to Monday morning. No child support to be paid by anyone, and she agreed that I (dad) would be designated as the custodial parent. I need some suggestions A) Can I gain sole custody of my boys...she basically ignores the fact that she agrees that I should/will be their custodial parent. B) Any divorced folks out there have any parenting plans that work for you all. Any suggestions would be wonderful. Thanks a lot all!!

2007-11-15 07:43:15 · 16 answers · asked by Jamie 1 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-11-15 07:40:22 · 16 answers · asked by tsexxxy 1 in Marriage & Divorce

my friend has a boyfriend who is literally physcho! he needs help and she comes to me for advice.. i dont know what to tell her! he got kicked out of his house and now he is staying at his aunt and uncles! yesterday he kept yellin at her and he like turned the car off at like 30 mph and messed the car up and was like holding the wheel so she couldnt turn! but his dad doesnt want her to leave him just yet but she says she wants him out of her life! should she leave or stay with him? what do i tell her??

2007-11-15 07:39:17 · 35 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I am a 17 year old female (turning 18 in 3 months). Would it be okay to date my friend's cousin, who just turned 24. We do share many things in common, such as our love for ping pong, video games, etc. Is this normal, or is there to much of an age difference?

2007-11-15 07:36:33 · 21 answers · asked by hildegard von frankchesterville 1 in Singles & Dating

Married forever. I have been good for soooooooo long (years) and then I slipped up and slept with someone else... (sure he was gorgeous and it was the very best sex I have ever had (seven times) and now he's sleeping with someone else. And I feel as used as I should feel even tho it was just a fwb situation. So go ahead... please yell at me cuz I was lonely, neglected, and had an anemic sex life. I just wanted to know what it felt like to lay with someone else... ( I was married at 18) and frankly... it was too great and I would do it again if he would just summon me... but I feel like such a loser cuz it didn't even last seven weeks and all that so call me names cuz that's the way you all are in this great community... I know that. It's just where do I go from here? Hell? Divorce? Suicide?

2007-11-15 07:36:11 · 81 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

i had a verizon cell phone and i had a two yr contract with them,...my husband added me on to his account..
anyways i lost it today and the first thing i am going to do it is deactivate it..
now my mother-in-law uses verizon too...she has this old phone that she doesn't use but uses a new phone...
if i take her old phone will verizon people transfer my plant on it?
do i have to pay anything then?
i am so scared!!!!!!!!!!11111

2007-11-15 07:30:18 · 15 answers · asked by Just another gal 3 in Marriage & Divorce

My ex at college had my tire repair kit (I depend on my bike to get around campus.) We don't talk anymore, and he avoids me whenever he sees me. Go figure.
Recently my tires blew out, so I sent him an email asking for it back. He didn't respond for three days, so I texted him. Minutes later, the bike kit is hanging from my doorknob.
The kit is completely empty.
When I bought it, it had at least eight patches, sandpaper, and some other tools. I am an extremely broke college student with no transportation and really can't afford to buy another tire repair kit, so I'm a little miffed.
When I confronted him about it, he claimed that he left it outside his door a few days ago for me to pick up, then dropped it off the way that he found it. One, he never told me that he had left it anywhere, let alone outside his door (why would I go to his door?). Two, if someone had stolen anything, why wouldn't they take the entire kit rather than the stuff in it?
What do I do about this?

2007-11-15 07:29:32 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

I guess I'm pretty stupid too. My husband tries to hide/erase emails that he sends his friends that are girls. JUST FRIENDS. I know that they are just friends, but why does he feel the need to hide it from me? He knows that I check his mail. I don't understand what is going on in his head right now. I KNOW that they are just friends, so why would he have to hide that he is talking to HER. I read the email before he erased it. It went like "hey buddy." She wrote back something about running 2 miles. ...it was all small talk. But he feels the need to make me feel that he doesn't talk to her. WHY? I guess I should say that we fought over it before. I accused him of liking her (I jumped the gun too soon before I thought). But when he does things like this it makes me wonder why he would hide it. Does he feel guilty? Should I bring it up? I want to let this go before he gets home. I am p*ssed and trying to calm down.

2007-11-15 07:29:05 · 26 answers · asked by sunnysideup 4 in Marriage & Divorce

cuz i have both a lifted offroad truck and a quad...is it all just bs? or is it an actual turn on?

2007-11-15 07:28:51 · 11 answers · asked by ilivedevili 1 in Singles & Dating

I am 21 years old, single, 105 pounds, 5'3, fit, and white.
Where are all the nice, decent, successful men? Where do you meet people (besides the club!)

2007-11-15 07:26:20 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

if you were married to some one who was making enough money to support the family would you stop orking or would you still work? and y?

2007-11-15 07:25:56 · 35 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

He also asked that I get my hair done,make sure that our 14 month baby is looking special.He asked me last night that did I get something to wear to the thanks giving dinner,I said not yet,he said why?What do y'all make of this?

2007-11-15 07:24:16 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I'm just not happy and I don't want to be married. is it so wrong? the wedding is supposed to be in 3 weeks

2007-11-15 07:23:56 · 41 answers · asked by ? 4 in Weddings

Im a member of a few of internet dating agencies and I notice that every year around the winter season I seem to get more emails from the ladies than at any other time. This has been happening for the last couple of years and it got me wondering if women are more sexually aroused or seeking love around this time of year???

Maybe im looking into it too much but can somebody offer a logical explaination.

2007-11-15 07:23:10 · 19 answers · asked by Karl L 3 in Singles & Dating

we TALK about 2weeks ago n she s not ready for anything so she suggested that we be friends i became alittle distance so she made first contact by emailing me n i responded she made the first phone call, she ask me if i wanted to hang out but i couldnt this was fri then on monday i text to say hi she ask where was i i told her i was working out she wanted to hang out so i text her back lets meet up sometime this week so the next day she emails me askin when do i want to meet up so i told her wednesday so we met up it was weird cuz this is first time we are meeting as friends so we hung out we ate n talk for 3 hrs it was nice but awkward but overal it was nice hangin out with her i could tell she put up walls little by little she brought them down so when we were leaving i hug her n told her it was nice seeing u so we departed when i got home she text me thanks again it was nice seeing u
so i email her this morning n she didnt responded what do u think about this what should i do

2007-11-15 07:22:18 · 10 answers · asked by simple J 4 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-11-15 07:22:15 · 24 answers · asked by Samantha 2 in Singles & Dating

You don't want alimony? You turned down Alimony? What an idiot!

I'll be damned. If I put him through graduate school, recruited and entertained his clients and supported him so that he can now have a million dollar a year business, I am not going to go to a $50K per year life style when my kids are with me. I live in the Northeast. $50K a year is nothing.

And I am not giving up my house that is near the school and everything else the children know.

It is a serious question? When did women get so stupid? I am not afraid to ask, like question earlier today.

Did you know that divorce makes men wealthier and women poorer?

There is no nobility in suffering, you know. And if a man were in my shoes, he deserves alimony as well.

2007-11-15 07:21:43 · 34 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

ight..... have a gf n ive had her for about a week n at first i jus loved making out wit her n cuddling but then tha past 2 days.... i jus think about hangin out wit her n making out n it jus doesnt do nethin for me... its like i totally lost interest in girls.



i think of bein wit another guy n i jus dnt feel tha need to or i think of doin stuff wit a guy n i relly dnt feel nuthin either


i jus y dnt i get nuthin outta bein wit a girl nemore?

can this mean im gay cuz like its always on my mind of me thinkin im turnin gay n it jus scares me cuz i dnt want to be gay at all


i need help pleeeez

2007-11-15 07:19:18 · 67 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating