I know he likes me to wear them, but is this acceptable / normal?
2007-11-15 07:54:55 · 34 answers · asked by Bailey 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
What is normal anymore? It is obvious that he has a pantyhose fetish. I have one too although I don't put my wife's on. I simply ask her to wear them all of the time (especially thigh highs) and really like to rub and feel them. It gets me hot and then we either indulge ourselves or I will go and indulge myself. He is normal to have the fetish, and if you both are comfortable with him wearing them then so be it.
2007-11-15 07:59:28 · answer #1 · answered by No one 4 · 4⤊ 2⤋
Pantyhose Masturbating
2016-11-09 12:17:00 · answer #2 · answered by tschannen 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your husband for sure has a pantyhose fetish, and maybe as far as being a crossdresser. It is no better or worse than any other of the many fetishes out there. In fact, you would be suprised as to how many men have this fetish; just few if any will openly admit it because it's an "unmanly" thing to do. BTW, hetrosexual men make up the overwhelming majority of people with this fetish, so don't necessarily worry about his sexual orientation. It is only a bad thing if he is overly indulgent in it to the point where he neglects other parts of his life.
What I suggest that you do is to figure out if this is something that you're comfortable with or not and have a candid talk with your husband about it. Try to at least understand why he enjoys doing this even if you don't agree with it. If you can accept and even like his fetish, then I'm sure you will make his day. If you don't care for it, you'll have to ask yourself if it's something you can at least put up with or allow him to do by himself, along with is it worth leaving him over. Whatever you do, good luck!
2007-11-19 07:35:40 · answer #3 · answered by J R 5 · 1⤊ 1⤋
It's time to have a little talk with your husband..
He may have a pantyhose fetish.
He may get sexual gratification from wearing articles of woman's clothing...
He may be a closet crossdresser.
In any case you can work with all of these. Generally men are ashamed to talk about these things, and you'll have to initiate the discussion.
These things are best resolved when the wife sets the limits and husband does his best to live up to them. The wife should also have to be willing to experiment a bit.
Begin by having a discussion with your husband. You need to determine if this is a fetish or what. Once that is established you will be able to set a game plan.
2007-11-17 09:45:30 · answer #4 · answered by Dr. D 7 · 0⤊ 2⤋
It is definitely acceptable. Years ago my fine discovered that I had a pantyhose fetish. She struggled with it at first, but she eventually found it made for incredible sex. She has encouraged my fetish and I wear pantyhose regularly and I cannot remember the last time I didn't wear during sex. I highly recommend an evening with both of you wearing. If you accept and encourage his wearing, he will treat you like a goddess.
2007-11-16 23:37:59 · answer #5 · answered by Bulldogmdz 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
The question is, is it acceptable TO YOU? You're the one who has to live with him. You're the one who has to answer that question.
I wouldn't really have any issues with him liking to wear pantyhose, but he'd better buy his own and only do it in our home.
2007-11-15 07:59:58 · answer #6 · answered by mikah_smiles 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Not that odd, maybe surprise him in bed one day wearing pantyhose, or better still a body stocking. Don't make him feel a freak, everyone is allowed their fantacies.
2007-11-15 08:12:48 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
Wear pantyhose with him you will have a lot of fun
2007-11-15 12:45:57 · answer #8 · answered by carla 6 · 1⤊ 1⤋
You shouldn't do anything, since obviously YOU haven't been doing anything for him all along and that is why he is jerking off with your nasty smelly pantyhose. I would strongly suggest that you seek some serious mental help because you undoubtely haven't a clue on how to satisfy a man. GET YOURSELF HELP SOON !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
2014-10-19 09:35:32 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Absolutely. the world is full of kink and as long as no one gets hurt physically or mentally and as long as no one is forced to do something then it is fine. We make it a point to not have sex with children, animals or cadavers, anything else is wide open.
Talk to him about it. Learn to help him explore his personal kink. Maybe you will discover some kinks of your own.
Check the site I will leave in sources! It covers pretty much every aspect of human sexuality.
2007-11-15 08:05:37 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋