Family & Relationships - 15 November 2007

Stubborn that I am, I've deleted question posted seconds ago, because it was placed again in wrong category!!!!!

Here I go again: I live in a city in South Florida where there are at least 20 times more men than women. But I'd notice same thing in previous city in same county, which is not like this one, a beach city...At any time of the day or night there are hundreds of men out in the streets, buses, stores, etc. No, not all are workers!

I thought this evened up a bit at the supermarket, but last night I proved myself wrong; it was dinner time (and with approaching holidays), still there was at least 10 times more men than women. Why? Does it happen in your city?

Also, unless I'm mistaken it'll be other way around in the near future, for I've noticed that there's at least six times more little girls than boys.

2007-11-15 09:05:55 · 12 answers · asked by 1-2informationalways 1 in Singles & Dating

if having sex is selfish, then what is making love? mature?

2007-11-15 09:04:14 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

My parents were very negative, controlling &over protective especially about dating. I swore I would never be that way with my kids.
My oldest child was going out with a boy who had a very dysfunctional family & lots of emotional problems. I tried to coach her, support her & just give my opinion when asked or absolutely necessary. I thought she was a smart girl & she would figure it out for herself & dump him. Now they are married, she is miserable & he is emotionally & verbally abusive to her & she has no self esteem.
Now my middle daughter is dating a complete loser. He has been in trouble with the law, he smokes weed, he is constantly getting in trouble at school, he is super immature &she is constantly crying & upset.
I didn't want to make the same mistake as I did with my oldest child so I have been much more verbal about my concerns about this boy. I stop short of absolutely forbidding her to see him though. In my experience, they just lie & sneak around then.

2007-11-15 09:03:12 · 13 answers · asked by wondermom 6 in Marriage & Divorce

I have noticed that more and more over the years, my mother in law treats my father in law like a little kid. She argues with him in front of me over every little tiny thing, accuses him of being mean, and belittles him. A few times I actually felt like telling her to shut up and lighten up. Because if she's just kidding around, then she's not funny. That's problem number one.

Problem number two (and more importantly) over the last year I see my wife starting to do the same things here and there. I'll ask her to do something and she'll argue with me in front of other people making it look like what I am asking is stupid or something. She corrects me if I tell a story slightly wrong, and challenges me in front of friends and family. And I'm worried that my wife is slowly turning into my mother in law. Which is the LAST friggin thing in the world I want.

How do I make it all stop?

2007-11-15 09:03:11 · 12 answers · asked by ? 5 in Family

me and a female friend had a 3some with a guy we met on holiday a few months ago and we want to make it a regular thing as we really enjoyed it and loved the attention we got and seein the guys excitment from watching us together. where would be the best place to meet a guy who would be up 4 regular sex. dont no where to look!

2007-11-15 09:02:37 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I have lived with my fiance for three years. We have always had a great sex life. Now it only happens once a week, if that. I have complained, I have hinted, I have walked around half naked...nothing. I am in good shape (dancer-modern, not exotic) and used to be a model. I have not changed physically since we started dating. Our relationship seems to be fine but he is just not interested in that one thing. Is he cheating? Is he having second thoughts? I feel terrible because I would never go elsewhere but I feel like he is not concerned with what I need. Any advice?

2007-11-15 09:01:57 · 24 answers · asked by Tink 2 in Singles & Dating

2007-11-15 09:00:51 · 11 answers · asked by redcandal66 2 in Singles & Dating

"been downstairs"

2007-11-15 09:00:05 · 41 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I'm 13. My best friend Kerstin is 17. She does drugs. She has since she was 12. She drinks and smokes as well. Her dad doesnt give a **** about her. He beats her and the rest of her family. They've called the police over 20 times but the police do nothing. Her mother doesnt care what Kerstin does. She knows Kerstin does drugs and does them with her. Kerstin's parents are divorced though.

Kerstin lives in Florida while i live in indiana. Her friends that she hangs out with there, most do drugs as well and have since they were 12 too. Kerstin has bone marrow disease and its really bad. She also has cancer. She will die. Its definate that she will. I've known her for a year and have grown close to her. She's like a big sister to me.

I dont do drugs. Yes, I used to but I quite after I saw what they did to Kerstin. She has turned me against them forever. I want to help her stop drugs. She doesnt want to. She likes getting high and does it frequently.

2007-11-15 08:58:57 · 34 answers · asked by Buble.Pop.Electric 2 in Friends

what do YOU find pleasurable?

anything, im willing to try it.

thanks.

2007-11-15 08:58:57 · 24 answers · asked by Supahh scene. 1 in Singles & Dating

if i kiss my boyfriefns or hug him in front of my friends would that look jerky and mean? and will look like a b****

2007-11-15 08:58:50 · 7 answers · asked by Mimi 4 in Singles & Dating

Just curious. Do you prefer men with shaved pubic hair, trimmed, or natural? Also, what "hairstyle" do you prefer on yourself (natural, bald, mohawk)? Thanks

2007-11-15 08:56:01 · 8 answers · asked by Tom P 3 in Singles & Dating

which do you like more...boobs or butt???...also why???

2007-11-15 08:55:41 · 1 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

my man and i have been together 11 mon now and everything was great fo a while. 9 mon into our love fest things got ruff, thry stl have not gotten anybetter, he says its me, i have been going through some things and it affects us so much. i try really i do..nut he yells at me a lot and tells me b*&^%. i sometimes cant help it..why is this happing and what can i do to help us fall back in love

2007-11-15 08:55:39 · 4 answers · asked by Bewbies 2 in Singles & Dating

I WANT TO KNOW HOW TO SAY I LOVE YOU IN FRENCH TO IMPRESS MY MAN

2007-11-15 08:55:36 · 9 answers · asked by maryjane 2 in Singles & Dating

My wife has 2 sisters. Both divorced. Her mom wears the pants in the house. 3 sisters live in other countries and they talk to their mom all the time but rarely talk to the poor father. I say poor because he has lost his 2 kidneys. He is really sick but they all talk to their mom all the time… Their dad was a money making machine for them.

My wife always tried to control me. I asked her more than a year to go to a counselor together. Finally we went to 2 different counselors but she did not show up the second time because she says: I am smart and educated and I know what is right!

Both of sisters got divorced because they love the way their mom is acting,. No man can handle it but their Dad! I want you to share your experience with me… My wife never thinks she may make a mistake and when you tell her about her mistakes she gets angry. She threatens, she screams…

She has filed a divorce as another threatening tool to control me. She thought after seeing the divorce papers I will say: O.K, I will be your slave and will do whatever you want but I am not going to do that.

Here are some of her controlling issues: She gets mad if I go to the gym, or play tennis with my friends (I was an athlete my whole life)…whenever we go somewhere she says: whey do you behave like this? Whey did you talk to her? What were you telling to her?? It is so insulting. I believe when I got married I am committed to only one woman and she is my wife. I never think I will be with somebody else… but she just does not understand. I lived with her for a year and a half and every day was like hell…

Do you think my wife can change? Just stop asking why and start enjoying life?
Oh, she is 34 years old by the way. She is beautiful and I am a handsome guy. I always trust her but I think she is very insecure seeing I get a lot of attention.

2007-11-15 08:53:48 · 14 answers · asked by mazyar m 1 in Marriage & Divorce

There is this guy that im friends with, he's a really nice person, we have a lot in common. We are into each other, and i really feel that we could end up in a relationship. When i 1st meet him i felt like i had seen him before, come to find out a few days later. I really have seen him before... he drives a car that is really nice and im really into cars, so i remembered how it looked. So one day i was on myspace and saw the car and i emailed him and, we started to email each other back and forth It was a while ago... I remembered that he told me that he was married, and he thought that his wife was cheating on him, but he couldn't prove it.....After a while we lost contact... I don't know if he is still married or single, he hasn't told me if he is or not.... I think that I should ask him, because he is really into me. If this guy was married and or still is, I don't think i will be able to even date him knowing that....What should I do..

2007-11-15 08:52:32 · 10 answers · asked by Airees D 1 in Singles & Dating

A. Finding out that your husband or wife was having sex with another person(s) behind your back?

B. Finding out that your husband or wife wasn't having a physical affair, but that they were in love or had strong feelings for somebody they knew?

2007-11-15 08:51:20 · 22 answers · asked by ? 5 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-11-15 08:50:24 · 11 answers · asked by Imanee F 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-11-15 08:49:13 · 2 answers · asked by danielle n 2 in Marriage & Divorce

For those people that have strayed because they aren't satisfied with their sex life... Do you find your in a better place now or wish you would have stayed?

I have thought about leaving my wife but then think about my kids and I won't have the benefit of going home to see them everyday as opposed to seeing them every other weekend....

2007-11-15 08:48:35 · 44 answers · asked by Me 3 in Marriage & Divorce

Total Amount, please.

If you want/or have time, include a little bit of a budget breakdown.

2007-11-15 08:48:28 · 29 answers · asked by J'adore 4 in Weddings

your 2 best friends don't like each other and they don''t talk to each other

2007-11-15 08:45:24 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

2007-11-15 08:45:10 · 25 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-11-15 08:42:57 · 70 answers · asked by JuDyLicious 3 in Singles & Dating

2007-11-15 08:40:51 · 5 answers · asked by BT_HMS is my messenger id 4 in Other - Family & Relationships

Not really gonna do it myself, but I'm just curious what other people think out there...

2007-11-15 08:36:41 · 7 answers · asked by sir_b_man 5 in Singles & Dating

I don't know why this just popped into my head, but I was just wondering what everyone's opinions were on the costs of wedding dresses and how much is "too much".

I'm not getting married, LOL! As I said, I'm just curious and thought this would make a fun question =D

Go at it!

2007-11-15 08:34:42 · 33 answers · asked by Anonymous in Weddings

My sister-in-law had an affair behind my brother-in-law's back (bro-in-law is my husbands brother) and now he and our whole family knows. They've filed for divorce and have no plans to reconcile.
They haven't told their kids yet so she keeps coming to family gatherings.
Do I have to go through the holidays dealing with her, when I can't even look at her, or do I have the right to tell her how I feel; that she should've told her kids she was staying home with a headache? It's totally uncomfortable and is not fair to any of us to have to walk on eggshells while she acts like nothing is going on.

2007-11-15 08:32:06 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

What can a girl do to make you completly melt? Does she have to be gorgeous...funny, smart, kind



I'm 5'7'' 122lbs. strawberry curly blonde, grey eyes

2007-11-15 08:31:47 · 9 answers · asked by sexy~sweetheart 2 in Singles & Dating