Family & Relationships - 15 November 2007

okay so this amazing guy that i like is coming over this weekend so we can hang out. he likes me and its all good so far but i was just on facebook and his ex had a message up that she was with him not as in they were together getting into a relationship just that they were together like as friends i guess. should this have me worried or should i just brush it off like nothing...btw i just realized the day they were hanging out i text him and later that night he text me and said he was just busy with homework thats why he didnt get back to me...hmmm..help!!? what do i do?

2007-11-15 10:48:46 · 23 answers · asked by Ebaby 2 in Singles & Dating

Okay this is my problem, me and my bf have these stupid little argument because i beat him in almost every sport and i guess it hurts his ego(or manly hood) w/e. All his friends tell him to watch out if not she'll kick your but. but i mean i have always been known to kick ***. ( my friends call me wonder women and bionic women) and i've always liked that attention. Lets put it this way i could throw a footballl usally farther then most guys. I mean i've always been like that, but what do i do? Do i change and act weak? or what else? i mean im proud i could kick ***...

2007-11-15 10:46:58 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

How do you deal with a midlife crisis? I'm almost 40, married to a wonderful guy for many years, reasonably attractive, we have a toddler son (who is severely disabled from birth). Here's the problem: I can't stop living in the past. I obsess over how I can no longer go out and "party." I'm *very* bothered by the fact that men don't really notice me anymore. It is driving me mad. Recently I've also started obsessing over this guy that I dated about 12 YEARS ago...can't think of anything but him, even tried to contact him! And I love my husband very, very much. I just can't get over this feeling that my life is over. It is intruding into my life to the point that I am having trouble with day-to-day functioning. I've just started seeing a counselor about it (finally), but I'm just wondering if anyone else has gone through this? Especially the obsessing over this guy! It's ridiculous, but it's eating me alive.

2007-11-15 10:46:30 · 14 answers · asked by Gemini 2 in Marriage & Divorce

I admitted i was a **** up and messed everything up, all the time, because thats what he wanted to hear, thats what he believed, so I said it, i admitted, and I believed it to.

Because he's right.

I f***ed him up from the very start.

2007-11-15 10:42:59 · 4 answers · asked by ItsMe. 1 in Singles & Dating

If there's something wrong then let's get it out in the open.

2007-11-15 10:41:33 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

Women have rejected me for 20 years, so I've given up conventional dating and have booked a trip to Thailand to experience the young and affordable hookers over there. I'm 44, OK looks and OK weight, polite, well behaved, non-drinker, don't do drugs. It seems I'm just too nice - women like an element of bad boy in their men. I don't do bad boy. So I've come off the rails and am headed to the world's biggest cathouse... Pattaya in Thailand. Unless someone wants to save me from that. BTW I'm an atheist.

2007-11-15 10:39:25 · 24 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-11-15 10:36:25 · 7 answers · asked by JER 2 in Singles & Dating

*Sigh* I just haven't been myself lately and I can't take all the drama here! I feel like quitting school and leave Yahoo! Answers. I haven't been focus in school! I'm in another love triangle again (For the 6th time) and I can't deal with it anymore! I can't do this anymore. I feel like nobody cares about me! If you people think that I'm kidding, nope! I'm serious here. Should I stay here on Y!A or go? Please be honest and NO STUPID OR PERVERT ANSWERS! I'm getting really tired of you people giving me stupid answers! I will check on this later! So thanks so much for helping me and Bye for now!

2007-11-15 10:33:40 · 8 answers · asked by DELETED 3 in Friends

My ex seems to flirt with me, but i think he doesn't want to be with me. Doesn't he know im Heartbroken over him and maybe forever. I love him like no other woman would ever will. I want to be with him to the point where im ready to be alone for the rest of my life, just to be with him. He losing the best thing he has ever had, and Im losing the best thing that ever happpen to me. Why does he have me so sad, lonely, and Heartbroken? Im i that inlove?

2007-11-15 10:33:28 · 26 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I want to seem natural, but really show him what I'm like in the outside world, daring, cute, and funny. ???????????

2007-11-15 10:32:50 · 11 answers · asked by Beansack 3 in Singles & Dating

We've been married since April 2007, and up until now (even while we were still living together before our marriage) he's always insisted on keeping and directing our finances (even though I was working full-time and earning more money than he did).

I never even get to see any kind of money - he doesnt even tell me how much he earns everyday (he now works for himself).

I am currently a stay-at-home mum with our three month old, and am quite frankly getting extremely fed up with his behaviour. We go to marriage councelling on a weekly basis, and even the councellor suggested that he give me a certain amount of money to spend on myself each week - but he hasnt done it so far. He even goes with me everytime I have to go grocery shopping, so that he can pay for it himself and he doesnt need to give me any money.

His opinion is that:

1) We dont have any money to spend on ourselves right now (even though he somehow managed to find the money to buy 2 gigantic Christmas presents)

2007-11-15 10:32:43 · 26 answers · asked by ♂ Equibrilium ♀ 4 in Marriage & Divorce

there is this guy that i realllllyyyyyyyyyyyyy like and he just got a girfried:( my friends were talking about it a his girlfriend is someone i hate!!!!! they said he dosent liike her though but hes kind of strage. but i am very sad because i hate that girl!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

2007-11-15 10:32:28 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

my oldest son lives with his nan, my daughter is in foster care, and my son has been adopted, there mother didnt want them, she told many lies bout me, i hit da drink very hard and couldnt stop, i also turned t drugs, amphetamine, extascy. i got clean and soba 2 year ago, ive now got an 18 month old son by a different woman, he is not under any social services, will my other children be able t forgive me for not tryin t get them back but choosing the drink/drugs instead, but now im living with my fiancee and my youngest son, will they resent my youngest son, because he gets t live with his dad and they dont.

2007-11-15 10:32:18 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

We all get along fairly well between my fiance and there child and the exhusband. Lately the ex has been calling her at work and talking about plan change's or weekend visitation changes or plans. He is an ok guy. I feel that calling my fiance at work is over the line and that calling to talk about these matters could be done at our home when we see each other twice a week for visitation exchanges. Every tuesday ,Thursday and one weekend night a week we see each other so there are plenty of oppertunity to talk about matters. I'm wondering if I'm wrong for feeling that he is rude and inconsiderate of my feelings for calling her at work. I feel it is and that I should tell him so. So any good words on this would be great.

2007-11-15 10:30:32 · 13 answers · asked by Concerned32 1 in Marriage & Divorce

Any ideas?

2007-11-15 10:29:53 · 3 answers · asked by kay 1 in Singles & Dating

the situation: a man and his wife are getting a divorce. they have children(ages 9 and 4) and in the state of California, they must both attend a co-parenting class (required by law). The man has done this already. The woman has not. The woman is also exhibiting signs of negligence towards her children: she dropped the 9 year old off at school two hours before school started and there was NO ONE there at the time and she makes them get their own food (this is bad because the 4 year old pretty much eats nothing but cheese and the 9 year old only eats mac and cheese). the woman is constantly saying bad things about the man to the kids and she also uses profanity in front of them.

Question: Who can the man talk to about this? he has no lawyer for the divorce and can't afford one. Is there any way that this can help him get main physical custody of the kids and let the woman have visitation? What can he do?

2007-11-15 10:27:27 · 4 answers · asked by ? 1 in Marriage & Divorce

There's this girl that I used to be friends with. Well we stopped talking for some unknown reason. At first she used to stare at me, but now she doesn't. Well I believe she's talking bad about me, but the thing is everytime she sees me her face and eyes just light up, but she tries to ignore me. Why would she do this?

2007-11-15 10:26:39 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

called a MISTAKE? It's just an outright CHEAT, and if you don't want the person you are with, why act like robots and not get on with your life? (just have seen to many cheaters wanting sympathy today!! sorry)

2007-11-15 10:23:42 · 16 answers · asked by jefskta 2 in Marriage & Divorce

How do I get my wife to be more dominate to me I really enjoy it when she does. She kind of likes it. I have told her that she can do anything to me but she won't.

2007-11-15 10:22:51 · 8 answers · asked by chad 2 in Marriage & Divorce

Do guys ever forgot even one girlfriend they've slept with?
Have you ever said I can't remember how many girls I've slept with? and was it true that you really forgot or where your pretending?
Thanks for poping by! Please answer!
The most well explained answer will get 5star and best answer|

2007-11-15 10:21:59 · 40 answers · asked by lil_star 2 in Singles & Dating

Or men, what do you like your wife to get you?

2007-11-15 10:20:38 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

2007-11-15 10:19:56 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

into a despicable person in 2 years time?and will most people notice the change?

2007-11-15 10:19:50 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I've been online dating rather trying online dating and every guy I've had contact with has flaked out or wants to have online sex and I just cant get into that I need the real thing!!

2007-11-15 10:15:58 · 14 answers · asked by whatsup 1 in Singles & Dating

i did once when i was drunk -- and when i came back to the campsite i started kissing my girl friend but she smelled it and threw up --- now she wont talk to me

2007-11-15 10:15:57 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

my boyfriend and i dream of the day that we can get married and have a real life together. we've been together for two years and i'm the happiest i've ever been. between school and working full time he's the only thing that puts a smile on my face at the end of the day. i dont want to be one of those couples that doesnt last. i really want to be with him for the rest of my life. i'm only worried about how our families will react when we tell them. but i just cant put off my life because i'm worried about other people. help?

2007-11-15 10:15:54 · 73 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

We have been together for 2 years
I cheated on him so i am planning to leave him because i dont deserve him.. I care for him so much and i dont want to hurt his feelings...i dont want to tell him the truth of why i am breaking up with him..i want to tell him thats its not working or something else but i dont want to tell him i cheated it would hurt him so much..and i know how it feels..I know him he wont let me go no matter what i do or say... but its not right i dont want to be with him after what i did to him.. What should i do to break it off nicely

2007-11-15 10:14:55 · 32 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

My parents and my brother fight constantly. they argue and yell almost every single day.

You know its both of their fault though. My brother is lazy and gets bad grades but my parents just yell at him even when he doesn't do anything.

Their constant arguing has been brutal on me as well as it has been on them. Over the summer, my life was drama. My gf cheated on me, my parents both broke their legs and my older brother was never home leaving me to run the house, and my brother had a bogas as hell gf. This lead me into depression over the summer. My face broke out into pimples, i barely ate losing 20 lbs. in 3 weeks, and i was so tense if u threw a quater at me it would bounce off like a trampoline. after i started running i regained my sanity, got new friends, met a real nice girl who i am still hooked up w/, but my brother and parents never stop fiting. I hate being depressed. What should i do? Try to stop them? talk to them? HELP! thanks everyone

2007-11-15 10:13:21 · 6 answers · asked by random bailey 5 in Family

my girl and I are in LOVE...BUT she gets social security and a pension from her first husband that died...If she legally marrys me...she will LOOSE those things...IS it OK for us to live togather and would GOD still bless our union?

2007-11-15 10:12:42 · 30 answers · asked by Dennis S 1 in Marriage & Divorce

Hello, I'm 19 years old. He's 17. I was watching an Indian film in his bedroom, in a moment, my hand touched something wet. I smell.ed it and I swall.owed a bit. It was sperm.
What can I say? What can I do?
Greetings from Kolkata, INDIA.

2007-11-15 10:12:31 · 39 answers · asked by Khalil 1 in Family