Why am I Heartbroken?

Question

My ex seems to flirt with me, but i think he doesn't want to be with me. Doesn't he know im Heartbroken over him and maybe forever. I love him like no other woman would ever will. I want to be with him to the point where im ready to be alone for the rest of my life, just to be with him. He losing the best thing he has ever had, and Im losing the best thing that ever happpen to me. Why does he have me so sad, lonely, and Heartbroken? Im i that inlove?

Im not moving on to no one else until i get the full truth on how he feels about me. Which is Next Wednesday.

Answer 1

yeah u are i think u should talk 2 him and try 2 make him see becuz its not hard 2 see the feelings u have 4 him so its worth a try...and if he doesnt see how special u are and thinks hes 2 good 4 u then he doesnt deserve u anyway

Answer 2

Not involved because you guys arent "together", I think he knows this and can be flirty because it keeps him interested in what ever he has in mind. I think you need to move on, and stop dwelling on him. Dont think of it as losing the best thing, think of it a a good learning experience in that it wil make you stronger when you move on, and it will help you not make the same mistakes. There is a reason you are not together, but that isnt important. It is the past. I am sure there is another guy that would love to treat you like a queen or that could possibly bringhim back. Take it from me, I am a guy and all guys likje attention with out strings attached. That is what he is doing.

Answer 3

It's hard to let go, even when you are the one that broke up with the other. Some people deep down inside want their ex's to never get over them. They don't have the interest enough to make the relationship work, but they like the idea of you wanting them. It's normal to feel like you will always be alone after a long relationship goes south. Give it time, get your life back, do things with friends. You never know, he may see you doing great and think he has made a mistake!

Answer 4

unfortunately in love it is possible to love someone and that someone return your love. i know this because he is playing with your emotions. it's a horrible truth, but that's how it is sometimes. if he really loved you he wouldn't be making empty gestures like that and leading you on. he probably does know that you still have feelings for him because he's flirting and then giving you the cold shoulder. he should be sad not you! he lost the best love he will ever have, you on the other hand didn't because if he was the best love you had then he would not be making you feel the way you feel and play with your emotions. i recommend you give yourself time to heal and stay away from him. it will be tough but in a few months you will look back at this as a far away memory. (tip: hang out with your girlfriends or get a makeover that will cheer you up in the meantime).

Answer 5

Well this happened to me and trust me the truth isn't pretty. If he didn't want to be with you that means he wasn't good enough for you. You think your in love with him, but it is just what you think is love. If it wasn't meant to be there is a nice and more caring guy than this one. You can't just stay in love with one guy your whole life, move on and be able to open yourself up to other guys. That will always be the way you should live until you find the one.

Answer 6

i'm in that same position. except my ex doesn't flirt with me. how we broke up, well, I did it because he cheated on me with another girl on the internet. i felt (and STILL feel) heartbroken. I can't stand it anymore. I want to BE with him. I don't know if I can love another guy as much as i loved him. we went out for 7 months and I love him so much. He doesn't seem very interested in me anymore but, I will forever and always be. Me and you should move on, but it's really hard, ya know?

Answer 7

he knows that ur heartbroken..he wants to hold onto you but still be free.. and as long as he flirts with u and knows u still have that for him then he will not feel like he is loosing something because he knows he could come back to u whenever.. relationships are soo hard..you should get ur time away from him doing something that u like to do... when im down it feels good to be alone with mother nature and to tlk to our creator...(God) will help u ....things happen for a reason! just try to get away and think about what your next step in life will be

Answer 8

because he still has feelings for you but im telling you stop please i went threew the same thing he jsut broke up with me but started flirting with me and bam he wanted me again didnt out rite say it but all his frineds told me everything lol great buddies lol anyways if you keep flirting with him as much as he flirts with you 2 things can happen one is that you get back together the other is that he leaves and jsut was jerking you around guys are jerks i know from experiance lol but wahtever one day you will move on form him or you will be with him or possibley find a greater guy than him and be happy so jsut do your own thing and go with your gut feelings they alwys seem to be right.

Answer 9

Well number one why is your ex flirting with you. Number two if you think he doesn't want to be with you. You should go up to him and say "hey um I've been wondering if you still want to be in a relationship if you do could you just come up to me like a man and confess it because you have me thinking about my life kind of like with out a man or having kids without someone not helping me watch my kids so would you please check back with me on that. Because I'm getting frustrated with you so please check back with me I'm asking you as a friend not a girlfriend or a ex-girlfriend I'm asking as a friend.

Answer 10

I'm sorry for the rough weather with you. But the situation is too complex and even I'll have to wait till wednesday to say something that could be helpful.