It depends on the guy. Most average guys know the exact number of partners they've had (unless they were drunk, drugged or in a coma... is coma sex even possible?).
But guys (usually for ego reasons) sometimes will exaggerate by adding a few to their total number. If they are a man-whore or a professional athlete, entertainer (rockstar, rapper, actor)... then yes it is completely possible for them to lose count.
A news report I saw months ago said the average for guys is about 6 partners. For girls... the average number of partners is 3. I don't know how accurate that is... or how they conducted that test though.
I wouldn't tell my girl how many girls I slept with because I don't kiss and tell. I mean I wouldn't really want to know how many guys my girl has been with (unless it's in double digits, hopefully never triple digits)... then I would want to know for my own protection and to make sure I don't get STDs, VD, or HIV.
Guys that "can't remember" are usually lying. The number is probably low... They are either worried about what you think about them or about their own ego.
2007-11-15 10:36:03
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answered by Carpe DM™ 5
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This must be for the guys!! BUT, I would hope that they could remember; altho some guys; men , are dogs!! Some ; try to get the numbers up like it is an IQ score and don't care who they sleep with and I am sure don't keep track of , nevermind disease!!
Then you have the nice guys who really keep track, and just have a past!! Not that they were out for the best score, no pun intended, but they just had a past trying to find the good apple in the whole basket presented! Know what I mean? And I am , by no means an expert on the subject, just my thoughts!!
2007-11-15 10:29:36
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answered by Anonymous
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I doubt it, but if they saw her, they might. I saw this movie once that had this scene in it, it relates to what you are saying right now.
There was this model/player type guy who used to sleep with alot of women and he would basically "one night" them and then move on to his next victim. He was coming out of a club and there was this girl standing there and he tries to kick some game at her. He's like "Hey, what's your name?" and she says "you mean you don't remember?" He goes "Amber? Tasha? Lisa?" She gets frustrated and says "Just forget it, your making it worse". Then suddenly she starts saying "What's my name, what's my name, what's my name?" He's like "What are you doing?" Then she says, "you should remember, because that's what you kept yelling out, that night you f****d me"!
Then he finally says "Lauren". She's like "Oh now he remembers". He says "I'm sorry" and she says "Yes, you are", then walks off. Classic!
Moral of this scene is...some guys can get to the point where they screw so many girls, that they can't even remember a face and attatch a name to it. If we did that, we'd be whores, because apparently we are supposed to know better, whereas, guys don't seem to capable of being honest and keeping their d***s in their pants. This bullsh!t lie and misconception, was used as an attempt to hold women back from being sexually open and free for decades, while men were able to have their cake and eat it too. We can all catch the same std's, I don't see why it matters so much at the end of the day. However, I'm not a guy, so what do I know right?
-Knowledge24
2007-11-15 10:44:03
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answered by Anonymous
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Maybe not a guy so can't answer that. But I would think so depends on how many girls they had slept with.
And if they forgot I am sure they would remember after they happened to bump into them out somewhere with there new prospective shag.
2007-11-15 10:29:41
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answered by I love BU 3
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Well, I do. I suppose it would depend for people though on how often they had slept with people (one night stands, for example, might be lees likely to be remembered.), how many different people they'd slept with, how long ago it was and how much sleeping with the person meant to them.
Hope that helps. If you want a more specific answer, my email is on my profile.
2007-11-15 10:28:38
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answered by Anonymous
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I truly do remember them all...some still have a special place in my heart and some really didn't mean all that much, but I haven't forgotten any...but then, I've never been much for one night stands, or heavy drinking, so I can see how some guys could forget a gal pretty easily, booze and quickies are not great for producing fond memories...K ;o)
2007-11-15 10:27:05
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answered by Anonymous
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Most likely no, the only reason they wouldent remember was because they were drunk. If they did remember then they really liked the girl and they werent drunk. Some guys remember but usually the guys who have slept with more then one girl you should avoid because he may just want you for... well sex.
2007-11-15 10:26:42
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answered by My Good times 3
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If you asking, do we remember every girlfriend we slept with then the answer is YES, but if your question includes any girl like one night hookups the answer is NO!
2007-11-15 10:29:54
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answered by Anonymous
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Yes. I can't speak for all but for my friends and I, I do. We don't think about them every day (mostly we think about who's next;) nor do we dream of them often. I've said I can't remember, but I keep track probably better than any woman I know! I'm 25 and I don't know if I will be singin the same tune when I'm 45 but for now this is true.
2007-11-15 10:30:18
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answered by Banjo and Sullivan 6
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seriously no now I can't always remember all of them at once after so many you have to think a while but if I think of her I recall who she was and where and all the circumstances. I have had sex with about 60 different women in my career and as I think of each of them I remember but there are a few that I don't know there names either never knew or have forgot but I remember them.
2007-11-15 19:06:46
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answered by Anonymous
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