Okay this is my problem, me and my bf have these stupid little argument because i beat him in almost every sport and i guess it hurts his ego(or manly hood) w/e. All his friends tell him to watch out if not she'll kick your but. but i mean i have always been known to kick ***. ( my friends call me wonder women and bionic women) and i've always liked that attention. Lets put it this way i could throw a footballl usally farther then most guys. I mean i've always been like that, but what do i do? Do i change and act weak? or what else? i mean im proud i could kick ***...
2007-11-15 10:46:58 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
YOU GO GIRL!!!!!!!! YOU ARE AN AWSOME ROLE MODEL FOR WOMEN KIND!!!! DONT YOU DO DARE GO CHANGIN' YOURSELF 4 SOME EGOMANIAC UNAPPRECIATIVE IDIOT!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
2007-11-15 10:52:12 · answer #1 · answered by hellocool peoples 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No you shouldn't change who you are. But you gotta respect your guy's need to be stronger, faster, etc. Yeah it does hurt his ego. So you gotta be careful with what you say or not to be too cocky because he will be a little bruised. Now if he's being a real jerk and keeps getting defensive and pissed off at the fact that you *are* better than him, then talk to him and ask him why he's acting the way he is. If he *still* wants to pout and act like a baby about it, then you're better off without him.
2007-11-15 10:54:45 · answer #2 · answered by screendreams 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
You could tone it down a bit. Be submissive around your man. This doesn't mean you have to change, you'll still kick *** in gym class. It does affect the ego when your lady can outdo you in sports,(a stereotypically male activity) Just play it cool around him. Don't try to make him feel immaculated, and think twice. Hint, pretend you can't open the pickle jar either.
2007-11-15 10:52:40 · answer #3 · answered by chuckachoo 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Never change who you are unless there's something really wrong with you. If the guy's that threatened by you, he's not long-term material. Sorry to be blunt, but maybe you should punt him out of your life. A confident man isn't threatened by a strong woman. Excited, yes, threatened, no.
2007-11-15 10:51:07 · answer #4 · answered by ima_super_geek 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
most guys are like that...but other guys think that girls who are tough are really sexy...but sometimes show a little emotion and be girly sometimes...or the guys might feel like they are practicly gay haha...but dont change too much...just a little emotion...like if you wanna throw a foot ball and you can throw it...lets say...iono about 40 feet...then throw it like that most of the time but a few times show a little weekness and throw it 35 feet...just a cut down on your toughness a lil bit...and if he still thinks your to tough for him then he is too much of a sissy for you and you deserve better...
2007-11-15 10:54:00 · answer #5 · answered by bisexualgirl 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Resident Evil (all of them) Kill Bill (all of them) Million Dollar Baby (not guns, but she's decently badass) Tomb Raider (both of them) Charlie's Angels (both of them) Elektra V for Vendetta Underworld (all of them) The Mummy Whiteout
2016-05-23 08:02:23 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
hi, you have evry right to be proud but its also hurtful to your partner to be compared to.its best they compliment n not try to cause tention at home.
your boyfriend may get depressed over this and feel like a failure in your eyes. sometimes we get too consumed in proving that we are tougher, stronger, more successful that we neglect those who mean alot to us.
he loved you for being a super star, his super starbut now its been used against him. he needs compliments and time alone with the boys. you dont have to act weak but just loving.good luck
2007-11-15 10:57:18 · answer #7 · answered by blackbooty 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
If he is your friend, he is your friend for a reason. People are your friends for a reason, because of who you are. If you think they or he is trying to make you change, then that isn't a friend. Remember, what makes you you is the way you are, moral, ethics, etc.. Don't ever change that, unless its effecting your health.. Other then that, be you..
2007-11-15 10:55:05 · answer #8 · answered by Glamorous Unicorn 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
be who you are!
if you two really like each other just tell him to laugh when his friends make fun of him
the thing your will be laughing about is the fact that they have know idea how in love you guys are
just dont let it get to him it should
who cares anyway
if he cares though
he aint worth it
2007-11-15 10:53:54 · answer #9 · answered by ikegirl 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
NO!!! Don't change, if he doesn't like it that you are tough then thats his problem. I hate girls who act weak and defensless for a guy. Its stupid, don't change just be yourself. If he really likes you he can except that.
2007-11-15 10:50:47 · answer #10 · answered by Melia C 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
woah,calm down. maybe your bf is scared of you. Ever consider that? Its rare,but you need to lighten up a bit...and if hes a soreloser,let him be. if you know you can beat him all the time,what kind of fun is that? I say let him win for once. And don't kick his a$$!Save that for when he deserves it ;)
2007-11-15 10:50:02 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋