okay so this amazing guy that i like is coming over this weekend so we can hang out. he likes me and its all good so far but i was just on facebook and his ex had a message up that she was with him not as in they were together getting into a relationship just that they were together like as friends i guess. should this have me worried or should i just brush it off like nothing...btw i just realized the day they were hanging out i text him and later that night he text me and said he was just busy with homework thats why he didnt get back to me...hmmm..help!!? what do i do?
2007-11-15 10:48:46 · 23 answers · asked by Ebaby 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
theyre still friends and it was his exes birthday that day.
2007-11-15 11:30:32 · update #1
oh and i didnt just meet him weve been friends since fresh yr im a junior now
2007-11-15 11:35:56 · update #2
he sounds like a player stay away from him
2007-11-15 10:52:28 · answer #1 · answered by in love and its great 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Men lie? Phuck other guys? Come one girls. Women lie too! Look, it may be an innocent friendship they have (or not). If he was with her and told you he was busy doing homework, then he lied. Now, either he is a liar or he was worried about how you would take it! Are you the possessive, jealous type who won't allow him to have NORMAL relationships with other girls? I don't think you are, from the way you write. All I can say is don't be jealous, don't look for things that aren't there, don't try to read his mind and don't put words in his mouth. DO be wise and alert. If you find that he is cheating, dump him. No anger, no emotion, just dump him. You don't need people who don't want to be with you. Just close the door. Your young heart is too precious to carry that crap around. Not all men are bad. Good luck.
2007-11-15 11:09:01 · answer #2 · answered by Eric S 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Let's go back to the "his amazing guy that i like is coming over"
line.
Do you really care if he's friends with his ex-gf? Heck do you really care if he's still seeing her? He's coming over to hang out with you right? Why - think she's busy?
Give yourself a little credit. Why wouldn't he prefer to be with you? Only reason I can see is if he's an idiot, an in that case better to find out sooner than later!
Go get 'im kid. Life's uncertain.
2007-11-15 10:55:10 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
I don't think you have anything to worry about. First of all, she is called his "ex" for a reason. He is looking for a fresh start. Give the "ex" a run for her money! Let think about it.....would you want him talking about his "ex" to you? I don't want to hear it. It's time to move on boyfriend. He probably didn't want you to feel jealous or troubled by her. Just ignore it at first. But watch him to make sure he can be trusted and is an honest guy. You don't want to be "played" by him. Have a GREAT weekend! Don't worry, be yourself!
2007-11-15 10:54:37 · answer #4 · answered by candycane 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Listen kid if you're planning to jump in the sack with some guy based on a favorble first impression PLEASE don't act supprised if he turns out to be a player.
If your looking for a long term relationship, you need to spend enough non-sexual time to make sure he's past his playboy phase, and sees you as a person instead of a sex toy.
You might enjoy reading "10 Stupid Things Women Do To Mess Up Their Lives".
2007-11-15 11:10:40 · answer #5 · answered by Phoenix Quill 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Nothing you can do but be yourself. That other girl is beyond your control, the decisions made by the guy you like are beyond your control. The only thing you can control is how you react to the situation. You be yourself, don't go out of you way to impress him. He hasn't given you any reason to be liked other than being himself, and you owe him the same. If he likes that other girl, well, you're going to have to either go for it, or not. It's your call.
2007-11-15 10:53:49 · answer #6 · answered by Dan in Real Life 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
properly i think of that he's probable no longer chatting with you becuase he does not desire to take a danger of dropping u as a buddy. i individually dont know the right thank you to tell if a boy needs to get on your pants. If he's ur kinda guy which you like decide for it and date him. of course he saad which you're hott,and he asked in case you're able to evr date him. have confidence me, been there doen that.
2016-10-02 11:02:57 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
confront him is the best thing. you cant go behind each others back and keep lies it will ruin ur future "relationship". ask him if its true and tell him that he obviously cant have both of u. ask him if its tru that they are "getting together" if he says thier just friends then believe him. dont be the girlfriend who gets easily jealous and cant let her bf have any female friends. unless u kno for a fact that him and his ex are dating. if so break up with his sorry ***! lol he wasnt worth ur time
2007-11-15 10:56:03 · answer #8 · answered by ♥K2 bby K2♥ 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
geez what a crap face! he obviously isn't intrested in you well maybe he is but for the wrong reason.....he also seems like he is still with his girlfriend and if a boy lies to up front that his a sure sign he isn't worth your time!
If he was with his ex just to 'talk' then how hard could it be to tell you he was with her and it didn't mean anything so obviously it meant something to be with her and lie to you about it!
2007-11-15 10:56:12 · answer #9 · answered by Ariel Nicole :) 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
woah.If hes lying to you already about doing homewrok when hes with this girl thats a bad start already but maybe he just didnt want you to think he was into her because hes into you :)
anyways i think you should give him a chance but if he messes up there a re plenty more fish in the sea.
hope this helps :)
2007-11-15 10:55:13 · answer #10 · answered by Summer G 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There is drama already can you image how its going to be further into the relationship. Life is too short, trust your instincts.
2007-11-15 11:05:08 · answer #11 · answered by jvw2300 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋