my man and i have been together 11 mon now and everything was great fo a while. 9 mon into our love fest things got ruff, thry stl have not gotten anybetter, he says its me, i have been going through some things and it affects us so much. i try really i do..nut he yells at me a lot and tells me b*&^%. i sometimes cant help it..why is this happing and what can i do to help us fall back in love
2007-11-15 08:55:39 · 4 answers · asked by Bewbies 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
You know the saying, it takes two to tango. Almost never is it just one person causing the problems. Actually, one of the worst signs that a relationship will fail is when one person says, "Nope, I'm not doing anything. This is your problem and you need to fix it." This is a relationship with TWO people in it. He needs to either find someone who doesn't have problems(good luck with that!) or work with you on this. Maybe couples therapy is a good option.
2007-11-15 09:14:48 · answer #1 · answered by LG 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ok thats verbal abuse that can and will lead to hitting. U need to cut ur loss now and move on. U need to get over what it is that u are going through. deal with you first.
2007-11-15 16:59:28 · answer #2 · answered by yayohelpme 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
counseling! A counselor can help you figure out how to deal with the things you are going through and can help you communicate with each other better.
2007-11-15 16:59:01 · answer #3 · answered by AK 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
break up. fix the problems in your life. then once you are okay, try the relationship again.
2007-11-15 16:59:01 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋