theres this guy, we kinda dated, but weve liked eacother for a really long time. we hungout a lot last month, and kissed and stuff. well anyway, about 2 weeks ago, we said how we kinda dont feel the same anymore, like the sparks went away, and he tells me how he isnt ready to be in a serious relationship. i was really pissed, but im better now. but now hes talking to one of fis exs again, and idk whats going on with them, but he ignores me. and its really werid. we used to talk everyday and everything, and now its like were fighting or something? but were not. its just he walks right by me in school, doesnt say anything, and sometimes, when i have to take the bus, and hes on it, we used to always sit together and now he passes by me, and doesnt say hi or anything. i dont get it. is this normal? why is he ignoring me? (were seniors, not little 8th graders lol, just so you know) thanks
2007-11-15 07:08:35 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
It's totally normal. He has to keep his macho image, dontcha know? The best way you can get over him (and back at him) is by having fun, hanging out with friends and meeting lots more guys! Then maybe he'll wonder at what he missed!
2007-11-15 07:14:30 · answer #1 · answered by Royle33 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It's just too bad they don't teach about HOW TO HAVE A GOOD RELATIONSHIP in school and even worse - at home.
You like so many other kids just don't know how to do it! You want to and just go with what you know (which isn't enough) but have no clue how to fix what's wrong or even how to understand what's wrong.
I'd start by learning all you can about how to have a good relationship and then try to educate your partner.
start here
www.barbaradeangelis.com/
http://www.google.com/search?q=relationships&sourceid=navclient-ff&ie=UTF-8&rls=GGGL,GGGL:2006-40,GGGL:en
good luck
jim
2007-11-15 15:17:41 · answer #2 · answered by jimrich 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He's making sure there is no confusion. He also doesn't know how he's supposed to act around you, so it's easier to ignore you. Just ignore him back. There isn't much else you can do.
2007-11-15 15:19:03 · answer #3 · answered by triumph 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Let it go. Get on with your life and let him make the next move, or not.
2007-11-15 15:12:58 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If this guy doesn't appreciate you or your time, forget him! Put your energy into people that respect you.
2007-11-15 15:13:00 · answer #5 · answered by wednesday 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋