Family & Relationships - 15 November 2007

i would appreciate all answers, thanks .

2007-11-15 05:05:22 · 24 answers · asked by rodriguez m 3 in Marriage & Divorce

so my mom found out that lately i have been doing something horrible. the way she found out was that my friends wrote me a letter saying how concerned they were for me that i started to smoke weed. i got it from my brothers best friend though its not mine. i hid the letter under my mattress while my mom was staying at my sisters house. then my sister kicked my mom out and now she came back to my house and some how she found the letter..i am soo mad. wat was she doing snooping in my room? anyways she wrote on the letter that she wants to have a long talk with me when she gets home from work. am i in trouble? the only reason why i started doing it was to relieve stress from school. but whatever. am i in trouble? idk what to do..

2007-11-15 05:04:11 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

My birth mother won't tell me a name..All I have is a picture and was told he was murdered b4 he knew she was pregnant..He was in the service and was married..I'd just like to know where I came from..Any help would be great thanks

2007-11-15 05:00:56 · 2 answers · asked by Brat25 4 in Family

Do you have big hands, matching many guys, or does your s/o have small hands? What is the size difference?

2007-11-15 04:59:30 · 30 answers · asked by footsizer 4 in Singles & Dating

We have been dating for almost two years now. In the begining we were planning a wedding then his family told him he was too young to be getting married. At first he ignored them then all of sudden he called it off. Since then I have gotten excuses from him saying "we don't have enough money", "we fight too much", "You don't trust me enough", & "were too young" (he is 21 & I am 22). So I started working on my trust problems, I saved up money, & we don't fight anymore. Everything has been great in our reationship for a while now. He says he loves me, I am the women of his dreams, his one and only, he wants to marry me, and he wants to have children with me. But I asked him last night if he was thinking about marriage yet and he still says he is just not ready. I don't understand if he wants me & doesn't want to lose me then why isn't he ready. I am graduating college and starting my life I am ready so I told him I was going to leave if he didn't hurry up and get ready, already!

2007-11-15 04:56:02 · 46 answers · asked by jenn_lynn9876 1 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-11-15 04:50:39 · 32 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

i want to leave my husband, but I'm scared of being on my own and being forced to take care of the bills for the first time and also be a single mom. What should I do - how do I go about getting a divorce?

2007-11-15 04:50:20 · 6 answers · asked by kittygirlwhoilove 2 in Marriage & Divorce

I'm 24 almost 25 - is it too young to be considering marrying someone?

2007-11-15 04:48:56 · 17 answers · asked by Taken by a Texan 6 in Marriage & Divorce

I have been living with my girlfreind for almost 2 yrs. Everything is perfect, except we hardly ever have sex. Almost every time i try she denies me.If its in the morning "its too early" if its at night she is "tired". She always promises me we can do it the next day but then when its time she has another reason why not to do it. I know she loves me and I love her but this is really bad. I try to talk to her and she gets angry. I have never heard of this. Am I being selfish for thinking about ending our almost perfect relationship over this?

2007-11-15 04:46:34 · 31 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

i've been talking to this guy for about 2 months now. the 3rd time we hung out we ended up making out. he held my hand and hugged me alot that night. we text each other and one time i asked if he picked up on any chks he sed he saw sum hot ones but didnt bother cuz he thought about me. he wanted to hang out again but i was buzy so i sed next time. he said oK. i told him bye and to take care and he responded with a K, u 2 and Muagh! i asked him wht Muagh was and he said a kiss. he also one time told me he doe'snt really like relationships =/ i never asked Y. maybe i shld... so yea do you thnk the dude likes me or am i just another hot girl on the list?

2007-11-15 04:46:22 · 6 answers · asked by Wildthing 2 in Singles & Dating

So I've been out of a relationship for almost 4 months.. And the relationship was only 5 1/2 months and a lot happened in the realtionship.. Then my best friend and her boyfriend broke up so I spent my summer comforting her which eventually ended up with him telling me we drifted apart and that we needed to break up then he called me back 10 minutes after that and asked me if I was okay.. then I just got mad and snapped at him and hung up on him he called me right back saying "i was just calling to let you know that i still love you.." and he said we can work it out and get back together.. but its been 4 months .. he says he just isnt in love with me anymore and all that stuff.. then recently i found out he had sex with another girl.. I'm still completely in love with this guy.. And I don't know what to do..


Please help.

Please.

2007-11-15 04:45:52 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

i wrote an exam to enter the nursing next year. the man is financing her in a computer traintng school and after, divice the wife the marry her. she says she love me and the man also.because the man is nice to her. please poeple, i need your help in financing me to enter the nursing school as well as do a little business along side to make enough money to get my lover back. i want to marry her after my course.i cant afford to loose her cause i have really suffered with her and i dont want to be rich in future and be happy without her.
the man is working in the American embassey(Ghana) and i am ideal now but seeking for any factory hand job to make money for school. i have not talked about my parents why because my mom cannot afford anything.my dad is no more for years. i dont know what to say now cause im confused and disturbed at the same time feeling pain in my heart and fear that the man will take her away from me. but all the same she told me she doesn't want to rush into marriag

2007-11-15 04:43:46 · 9 answers · asked by nelson e 1 in Marriage & Divorce

it's his best friend's sister who talks the most but she starts the trash talking and everyone goes along with it but when she sees me, she acts all nice (like a typical hypocrite).

2007-11-15 04:40:17 · 25 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

I recently discovered my husband was calling two females on his cell phone and he claims it was nothing but calls nothing further happened and he assures me nothing else will ever happen like this but I just cant seem to let it go how do you move past the hurt

2007-11-15 04:40:02 · 19 answers · asked by tsexxxy 1 in Marriage & Divorce

In your opinion which is better... seating guests with people they know or mixing things up a bit (im not talking about putting the church goers with the gothic teenagers) to get people to mingle more?

2007-11-15 04:39:42 · 10 answers · asked by Kit 5 in Weddings

I had to end a five-year friendship last year. She was my maid of honor in my wedding and a very good friend, but she was just too critical of me before, during, and after the wedding. At one point, she called me a "know it all ninth grader" (probably the cruelest comment). I decided the friendship just wasn't working, but sometimes I feel guilty for not trying to make up. I haven't spoken to her in over a year.

What do you think? Are some friendships better off ended, or is every conflict resolvable? Should I feel guilty for cutting off such a close friend?

2007-11-15 04:37:42 · 37 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

A friend of mine has fell out of love with her spouse, and talked about divorce with him. After long talks and consuling he wants to work on the marriage and so does she for their children. Do you think it's possible for her to fall back in love with him, after all the damage is done?

2007-11-15 04:35:09 · 15 answers · asked by prettylady 2 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-11-15 04:31:40 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

When you're in your twenties.

Can a marriage survive when one of you doesn't ever want it?

2007-11-15 04:31:32 · 26 answers · asked by ... 1 in Marriage & Divorce

I have this ex-girlfriend. We did not have real 'love' between us, just mutual respect. When she transfered to a different city, we agreed that it was over between us (amicably, I thought). We however stayed in touch by phone. Then, unfortunately, I transfered to the same city as her. We would meet once in a while, and yes, have sex (for old times sake). She knew of my fiance who I had left behind in my former city.
After meeting two or three times, I started noticing extreme jealousy and possessiveness in her. One day I discover she had somehow managed to get my fiance's phone number and called her and told her to leave me alone. From that day I told her to get out of my life completely. She agreed she would. Now she's seriously stalking me. She has even discovered my new workplace yet I had never even hinted to her. She keeps calling wanting us to meet. How do I completely get rid of her, without having her do something stupid?

2007-11-15 04:29:39 · 7 answers · asked by TiEL 2 in Singles & Dating

We currently live together, known each other since I was a teenager, divorced young. We have a child together and both of us want to have a 2nd, would you do it even though you know you don't love him like you used to?

2007-11-15 04:29:00 · 15 answers · asked by mrsgiggles 1 in Marriage & Divorce

my ex-husband owes me over $40,000.00 in court ordered child support.
recently our daughter went to live with him. he has not asked me to pay child support, but i have been buying her school clothes, supplies, toiletries, sport uniforms etc.
at this time i am in a financial pinch and can hardly afford my own rent and bills and am unable to pay for any of her nessesities. i am worried that he will take me to court to pay court ordered child support. also, i am still "legally" the custodial parent, even though she resides with him.
will the court just consider us financially even since he still owes back child support ($40 ,000.00 worth) ?
what do i do in this situation ?

2007-11-15 04:27:38 · 19 answers · asked by lena 1 in Marriage & Divorce

me and my ex broke up, and i see him hangin on gurls at school.i miss him alot and we still talk but its not the same. he still tells me that he loves me and that he cares about me, but does he mean it? the reason we broke up was because he cheated on me with one of my friends, but then they broke up cause me and her found out that he did that to me. she apologized and said that he told her that me and him broke up even though we didn't. so i asked around and told him that i still cared about him, and then i found out from her that she told him that she would give him SEX......!!!!!!she told him that she would give him sex.!!!!!!..so then we got together and me and him started hanging out again and he wants to get back together. so my question is should i say yes to him or not.i mean would he cheat on me again?And should i be able to trust him?

Sorry its so long!!!!!!!!!!!!!

2007-11-15 04:25:54 · 11 answers · asked by tricia f 2 in Singles & Dating

Would you ... any place or any time of the day, if your craving took over.

2007-11-15 04:25:26 · 30 answers · asked by Carlos de La Vega 3 in Singles & Dating

My fiance proposed to me last Thanksgiving. Our wedding is coming up soon and I purchased a ring for him. He didn't like it so what I ended up doing was going to exchange it. This time, I custom-designed and ordered it just the way he would like it. I was going to surprise him but then he saw it and said he didn't like it again!!

Will I ever find a ring that's good enough? What should I do?

2007-11-15 04:24:14 · 21 answers · asked by Prue C 1 in Weddings

I love my husband, but I often time am rejected by him sexually...actually all the time. I am not kidding. We make plans to "make love" but when night fall comes ...and I remind him of it...he get s mad and flakes out on me...this has made our sex life not good at all. we have anly been married less than4 yrs and....to make love 1 x a month...or if i am lucky...it is 2x a month...if i had it my way it would be 4-6 times a week. i know that is a bit too much but...i have needs and wants and desires and they are not being met by him. i wake up in a bad mood because of his rejection.whenever we do make love i get a full nights rest afterwards and i have a warm cozy feeling inside of loving feelings...but when we do not have sex i feel frustrated and moody and grouchy...i even toss and turn in bed...and am upset so much so that i end up sleeping on the couch because i am mad at him for punishing me by telling me if i keep asking for it he will make me wait another month for it. i hate it.

2007-11-15 04:24:06 · 31 answers · asked by NEWPORT BEACH GIRL 4 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-11-15 04:23:01 · 5 answers · asked by ? 1 in Singles & Dating

are Happily Married! Or does that come after years of staying with the one partner........... with no regrets @ any stage.?

2007-11-15 04:20:21 · 19 answers · asked by Sasha 4 in Marriage & Divorce

I have been married for 13 years and I have 3 wonderful kids. I just can't stand my wife anymore. We have less in common as I have matured and she still acts like she is in High School (I'm 37 she's 36). We hardly ever talk and when we do it's usually an arguement. We haven't have sex in months and we never do anything together. Is it time for me to go?

2007-11-15 04:18:35 · 14 answers · asked by sasquatch5170 4 in Marriage & Divorce

me and my boyfriend got engaged on friday we have been going out for 1 yr 8 months but this girl who works at his place stills bothers me she has been trying to cause trouble between me and my partener for a year now flirting with him giving me dirty looks threating me he has told her he aint interested but she is still trying, its his xmas do soon and she keeps telling him not to bring me which i am going and im scared that she is going to try something that night and im going to lose my rag with her and play rigth into her hands and all his work friends will c she is right that im jealous of her which i aint just dont like what she is doing she is engaged to someone and is nt bringing him to the do as she said if my partner dont bring me it makes it easier for her to crack on to him please help as i dont want to show him up infront of his work mates or myself and us not to fall out and give her the satisfaction how do i control myself

2007-11-15 04:18:16 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating