me and my ex broke up, and i see him hangin on gurls at school.i miss him alot and we still talk but its not the same. he still tells me that he loves me and that he cares about me, but does he mean it? the reason we broke up was because he cheated on me with one of my friends, but then they broke up cause me and her found out that he did that to me. she apologized and said that he told her that me and him broke up even though we didn't. so i asked around and told him that i still cared about him, and then i found out from her that she told him that she would give him SEX......!!!!!!she told him that she would give him sex.!!!!!!..so then we got together and me and him started hanging out again and he wants to get back together. so my question is should i say yes to him or not.i mean would he cheat on me again?And should i be able to trust him?
Sorry its so long!!!!!!!!!!!!!
2007-11-15 04:25:54 · 11 answers · asked by tricia f 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Simple.
To young. To many options.
Dont beat yourselfup over this guy who isnt ready to commit himself to you whole heartedly.
You will just be setting youself up for heartache if you let this guy back in. Plenty of fish is the sea Trish. Throw this one back, and look for a better catch. Dont swet the sex thing. Its not all its cracked up to be. Its good to have, and can be something taht is special between two people who care for eachother, but at such a young age, with such strong emtions and such little experience, dont stress over this. Focus on what should truly be imprtyant in your life righ now. School, family, you. Boys will be boys.... hold out untill you begin to meet men. Only comes with age. Cant rush that, and you shouldnt.
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2007-11-16 03:58:08 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he was so shallow that when your friend said she would have sex with him he went with her. He is so wrong for you, tell him as he cheated on you with your friend and wants to get back with you he is not worth your love. He will cheat on any girl if offered sex by another. Forget about him and you will find someone who is worthy of your love. One last thing, you are still at school so you have plenty of time, so don't rush into a relationship take your time or you will get hurt again.
2007-11-15 13:07:05 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get rid of him! Once a cheater always a cheater. You will never be able to trust him again. Do you really want a relationship in which you have to question everything your boyfriend does? You are going to see him talking to another girl and flip. I know I did when I was younger.
As for the friend.....you need to get rid of her too. Let them be together.
2007-11-15 12:35:11 · answer #3 · answered by tabi8598 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
first, i need to say something about your "friend". even if he did tell her you two broke up, she shouldn't have done anything, leave her in the dust, cause that's something friends just dont do to each other. and for your ex, i believe people can change, but i cant answer this for you, if it were me, i would give him another chance, but then again i forgive people too easy. but i think you should give him one more chance, but be cautious. tell him if you hear anything like what happened last time, then he isn't ever going to get another chance.
good luck.
2007-11-15 12:32:49 · answer #4 · answered by hannerpiee 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It sounds like this guy can not be trusted and neither can your friend. If it takes sex to keep him then he's not in this because he wants you, but what you do for him. Let him go.
2007-11-15 12:32:14 · answer #5 · answered by Scarlett 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Once shame on him, twice shame on you. He will probably cheat if given the opportunity, but this time maybe it won't be with someone that you talk to so he can't get caught so easily. Sorry girl, but I have to say no...
2007-11-15 12:32:17 · answer #6 · answered by greeni707 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well gurl i would say dat he is not worth it. N u should say NO 2 him!!!
U shouldn't trust him he iz probobly going to cheat on u again!!!
2007-11-15 12:44:10 · answer #7 · answered by Nancy R 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
you sound young and shouldn't waste your time on players like him. It sounds to me like he wants to keep you dangling by a string so he can have you whenever he wants. there are plenty of other fish in the sea. Go find another
2007-11-15 12:31:21 · answer #8 · answered by Benjamin R 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
if he seems to only want to keep u cause of sex then u need to just dump him and let him sex all the girls he wants to
2007-11-15 12:29:33 · answer #9 · answered by anonymouse_man_1 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Don't get back with him - he's shown that he cannot be trusted
2007-11-15 12:30:08 · answer #10 · answered by Tiger by the Tail 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋