We currently live together, known each other since I was a teenager, divorced young. We have a child together and both of us want to have a 2nd, would you do it even though you know you don't love him like you used to?
2007-11-15 04:29:00 · 15 answers · asked by mrsgiggles 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Not if we were divorced. Especially not if I wasn't into her anymore. Good luck whatever you decide.
EDIT: Your name isn't Niecy, is it? and your ex's name Robert? This sounds like the TV show All of Us!
2007-11-15 04:48:16 · answer #1 · answered by Don 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You think you don't love him like before (and I don't agree with you) because your relationship has lost what I'd like to call its "youthful exuberance" and settled into a more mature routine. You miss the sparks ... you can get it back you know. Besides, the devil you know is better than the angel you don't. And that's just a hypothetical statement, I donnot imply that he's a devil. The grass always looks greener on the other side, even in relationships. You never really know the true value of what you have until you've lost it. I think you should stick together and do it if thats what you both want and are happy together.
2007-11-15 12:41:21 · answer #2 · answered by dVine 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, if you don't love him like you used to, you clearly aren't in love with him. This is not a situation you should have a child. Children should be made out of love. You would be cheating the baby. Why not find someone oyu do love and not settle because it;s comfy. Either way, you shouldn;t have a baby in a loveless relationship.
2007-11-15 12:42:34 · answer #3 · answered by Maalru3 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Get the second one baby,so that you can get maintenance from one man and the kids will not fight-same genes.This is an advantage coz kids will be happy with one and same father and they will not label you as being unfaithful.
But you are jealous,you don't want him to stay with another girl,and the fact that you still open your shop to him every day and night,which means you still love him.Stay with him then and get a third one if possible
Be a happy family
2007-11-15 12:50:39 · answer #4 · answered by Temba 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well, it would be nice for the child you have to have a full blood sibling..and if the two of you get along and raise the kids, i don't see why it would be horrible...they would both be loved and wanted and hopefully well taken care of right? now days lots of people have kids with a bunch of different people and they don't get taken care of. So in this situation, you know how he is with one kid you can make a judgement on how he will be with another.
2007-11-15 12:35:35 · answer #5 · answered by Andrea 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Did you ever grow upp becuase you sound like a lost confused teenager. Stop and think about the kid you are no longer a couple move out and move on get a life.
2007-11-15 12:36:20 · answer #6 · answered by Livinrawguy 7 · 1⤊ 1⤋
No. Why are you living with your ex-husband anyway? If you're divorced isn't it time for the both of you to move on? Don't bring another child into this mess. It isn't fair to them.
2007-11-15 12:33:02 · answer #7 · answered by *Cara* 7 · 1⤊ 2⤋
Don't subject an innocent child to your messed up situation. A child deserves a solid foundation to get the best start in life.
2007-11-15 12:35:30 · answer #8 · answered by sarah jane 7 · 1⤊ 2⤋
I guess so, why not? Especially if you made a good 1st baby. As long as you can stay friends and don't play the kids against each other.
2007-11-15 12:44:19 · answer #9 · answered by Cassandra C 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
dont add another child to your already confused life
figure it out
move on
2007-11-15 12:33:54 · answer #10 · answered by caretaker 5 · 1⤊ 2⤋