why does she still get to me?

Question

me and my boyfriend got engaged on friday we have been going out for 1 yr 8 months but this girl who works at his place stills bothers me she has been trying to cause trouble between me and my partener for a year now flirting with him giving me dirty looks threating me he has told her he aint interested but she is still trying, its his xmas do soon and she keeps telling him not to bring me which i am going and im scared that she is going to try something that night and im going to lose my rag with her and play rigth into her hands and all his work friends will c she is right that im jealous of her which i aint just dont like what she is doing she is engaged to someone and is nt bringing him to the do as she said if my partner dont bring me it makes it easier for her to crack on to him please help as i dont want to show him up infront of his work mates or myself and us not to fall out and give her the satisfaction how do i control myself

Answer 1

Well the best thing to do is ignor her. I know it is hard but whenever she is being a cow, just ignore her n in your head image her getting really embarrassed or summin.

OR

If you want to get down and dirty (which I don't advise but...) then go to that party, always be with your man - kiss him occassionally and link/hold hands etc, really show off to all his collegues that you are engaged and then talk about the wedding. Then if she comes over, be really polite to her (not in a sarcastic way, properly) and talk to her nicely - infront of the collegues - and hopefully they will see that she is jealous.

Ooh I almost forgot...Talk to your man about this. Tell him that you are worried and that she has threatened you. He will understand and hopefully you two can get on in peace and have some fun.

CONGRATS!!!
*Angel*

Answer 2

Sounds like high school drama which shows how not ready you two are for marriage. He should be the one that squashes all this nonsense. If you are his fiance, your feelings come first no matter what and comforting you so that you are jealous should be his number one priority...after all....no one else matters right? I think it's his fault for allowing this to go on. If he didn't want to play games and if he were a real man, he wouldn't even show any attention to her so that she'd just go away once and for all. Sad thing is...I think he actually enjoys it. Not marriage material.

Answer 3

look you need to tell your boyfriend how you feel about this. Maybe you could ask if you both just didn't go to this thing and spend it together,see what he will say hell he just asked you to marry him right. Or you can tell the girl boyfriend what she is doing to you and your boyfriend these kind of bi-chs like to play games can't fall into it be BETTER then her good luck wish all the best

Answer 4

Forget about her, he is engaged to you because he loves you not her, if he says he's not interested then you should trust him. Act like you don't care, if you show that you're mad about it (anyone would be) you could end up fighting with your fiancé and ruin everything you guys have and she will end up getting what she wants.
She is pathetic, desperate and needs help, you should feel sorry for her haha

Answer 5

well firstly she's just being a spiteful *****. she's engagd to guy , right? , so she should be loyal to him. also he's yours and not hers. so if i was you i'd go talk to her, calmly and quietly , away from your foonica. ask her why sh's being like this and tell her to stop. if she doesn't talk to her fioncia and tell him wehat she's doing. but before that tell your fioncia. just keep cool and don't fall to her level. just let your hair down and have a good time at the xmas doo . and just ignore her shes just not worth it. best of luck !x

Answer 6

Ur best bet is by far, to ignore her and she will get the msg (eventually!!)

And abouve all, enjoy yourself and show how much of a good time you are having with ur (new) Fiance and see if that gets her jealous!!!! x

Answer 7

if you are engaged. then you are quite secure in trusting your boyfriend. he has told her that he is not interested her. just ignore the sad cow and have a good time.

Answer 8

just ignore the slapper. if yr b/f really isnt interested he will ignore her too. then she will end up looking stupid, probably way too drunk and making an total fool of herself.

Answer 9

Your engaged! dont wory about it.

Answer 10

Just go and ignore her.