i hate when people say they cheated because they didnt get enough sex or something was lacking in the relationship. THEN BREAK UP!
i was with a man who did lots of shady things im prettu sure he cheated and i was so miserable being with him (im not with him anymore) but at the time soooo damn miserable because of everything he was doing i never resulted to cheating even if he did. So my beliefs, its never the persons fault they are with what happened to communication" this is what i dont like in out relationship lets fix it" not enough sex? say something, i dont think it is ever the person they are withs fault they cheated.
what are your thoughts on this?
i think people who cheat are unhappy. BUT WITH THEMSELVES!
2007-11-15 07:06:25 · 6 answers · asked by nygirlsrdifferent 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Problems with a relationship is never an excuse to cheat. Either work the problems out or break up. The tempation may be there, but again, work out your issues or break up.
2007-11-15 07:13:16 · answer #1 · answered by GEEGEE 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There are some instances that its both sides fault thats why there's the cheater and the one being cheated.
People who cheated are normally the one's who are not contented with what they have.
The one being cheated has a fault sometimes only if they have been neglecting on treasuring and working the relationship better.
But things are to be discussed when you are in a relationship. Open communication, so its a greater percent that its the cheater's fault.
2007-11-15 07:17:04 · answer #2 · answered by des 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
People cheat because they can't commit to one person and they are weak. If a man cheats, it is not the womans fault. And vise versa.
2007-11-15 07:13:09 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
The cheater is at fault not the person that was cheated on. I think it is a cop out when the cheater blames the non cheater.
2007-11-15 07:12:06 · answer #4 · answered by Arin D 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It think just like you, I belive that people that cheat often what everything, even what they can't have and don't really care who they hurt in the progress. Sometimes people like that are really inmature and are just cheating themselves.
2007-11-15 07:14:37 · answer #5 · answered by Sue 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I agree and happen to think that people who cheat are scum. There is just no excuse for it.
2007-11-15 07:12:03 · answer #6 · answered by Christy V 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋