I find im nervous/awkward round my male friend if he comes into my office or i go to his office i get nervous in my tummy. I dont know how to act as im not used to it and its out of my zone as ive never had a guy friend before and not good round guys i am 24. I hate it i also seem to develop crushes on every guy i meet and wish this would stop happening as its ruining my life. Every time he talks to me i start blushing or feel myself going red
2007-11-15 05:49:59 · 6 answers · asked by josephine123446 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
Blimey. You need to either:
a) Go with Wolves69's suggestion and just get it over with.
b) Email him a list of all of you Yahoo Answers profile names, and give him a few days to digest all of the questions you've asked - then see how he feels . I suspect he won't be talking to you anymore - so no more going red!
c) Just get over it! Go out, meet more people, and stop obsessing.
I have been a keen advocate of option c) for months now - but you seem bitterly determined to ignore it, so perhaps option a) is worth a stab?
2007-11-15 21:12:11 · answer #1 · answered by simplesimon 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You only think of this guy as a friend right? Well then try not to show how nervous you are around him and just try to not show that something's bothering you. As for the fact that you havent had much contact with men for a while well whats stopping you get some friends together and go out clubbing and have fun... You'll soon forget about any silly crushes...
2016-05-23 07:06:52 · answer #2 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You just need to develop a little more self confidence around guys. I'll tell you something that might help. Those same guys that you feel awkward and nervous around, are having the same feelings about girls. Everyone puts on an act for fear of looking shy and self-conscious. You can do the same thing. Pretend you are one of the most popular girls around. You can do it! Smile, be friendly and start conversations. What's the worst case scenario? That someone is going to laugh at you, or snub you? If that happens, what do you care? You don't want someone like that in your life, anyway. I know it's hard to get over those feelings you have, but it does get better. I know, because I used to be the same way, and still get butterflies in my stomach in certain social situations. But everyone thinks I'm the life of the party. If I can do it, anyone can. Good luck, dear!
2007-11-15 06:00:50 · answer #3 · answered by gldjns 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
: Who can you talk to? And what can you say? How much can you hope to be understood? How many complications can you anticipate? No communication process is ever perfect. People, even with the best will in the world - and the greatest desire to co-operate - often fail to see eye to eye. But that's no reason to withhold trust or pursue a policy of isolationism. Share as much as you dare. You may yet be pleasantly surprised by the extent to which your point of view is recognised, acknowledged and honoured - especially if you can now do your best to listen without prejudice and to speak without antagonism
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2007-11-17 08:38:12 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
some people take an hour to get into the pool because it is so cold. they start with their big toe then their ankle .......
other people just jump in the d@#$ pool and get it over with.
It sounds to me that you are way undersexed, am I right?
You really should consider some vigorous intercourse.
2007-11-15 05:53:27 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
i think you should just let him s hag you & be done with it he wont care about your red face love.
2007-11-15 05:55:32 · answer #6 · answered by wolves69 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋