2007-11-15 03:57:16 · 55 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
It's insulting somebody you claimed to love just to stimulate a few nerve-ends in your crotch. Sounds stupid to me.
If you swore to God that you would be faithful, then yes, it is evil.
2007-11-15 04:00:47 · answer #1 · answered by ? 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Yes. When the two of you made a promise and a bond before God it was not only a legally binding contract to stay true to her but a morally binding contract. In days gone by people did not cheat nearly so often. They knew the contract was binding and knew that in court they could be tried and convicted for a criminal offense. Now we just seem to take it in our stride but it is still just as evil as it has been in the past. People get hurt, deeply and irreparably hurt by such actions. Though you tell yourself (as a wife who has been cheated on) that he is sorry and won't do it again and though he truly tells you that and may even believe it himself, you will never have the same trust in him that you once had. In a large sense it ruins the marriage because if it is not over at that point it usually soon will be. If they stay together for the sake of the kids or just because it is the thing to do, it still will never be the same. There is just no real marriage after cheating, and no matter how hard you try there never will be.
2007-11-15 04:06:25 · answer #2 · answered by Barbara E 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Not evil, you could do much worse to someone, but definitely not a good person. Theres no excuse to cheat on your wife, it is the only and most important promise you ever made in your entire life, what kind of person are you if you cant keep that promise?
2007-11-15 04:00:52 · answer #3 · answered by Susan F 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's not evil. It happens for many reasons. It means you have issues that need to be sorted out - both within your own heart, and within your marriage.
I think society likes to paint a picture of the perfect person we are all supposed to be. The fact is, we are all human, we are weak, we make mistakes, we do bad things, we hurt people.
It's how we work to make ourselves better after these mistakes that really matters. If we can take a terrible thing like infidelity and learn and grow from it, then it doesn't have to be this evil unforgivable thing that we can never get over.
2007-11-15 04:02:01 · answer #4 · answered by helly 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Stupid but the evil one is the one whos cheating with the married one and knows there Married
2007-11-15 04:06:55 · answer #5 · answered by Peter Griffin 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
serious??? I am sure of course it is evil and weak and a sinner I could go on 4 ever glad I am not your wife. Think about it this way what would you think of her if she cheated on you? There you have your answer
2007-11-15 04:04:14 · answer #6 · answered by ღKrissyღ 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't have a wife because I'm a straight female, but cheating on another peson is wrong and indeed evil.
2007-11-15 04:00:08 · answer #7 · answered by Manapazza 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Yes u idiot! U made the biggest promise in the world to her and u break it by cheating on her! You evil person!
2007-11-15 04:01:38 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Not necessarily evil, but it certainly shows a lack of character,
integrity, moral values, and respect for both your wife and the vows you took with each other before God.
2007-11-15 04:00:41 · answer #9 · answered by doodlebug 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
i think it is not only evil but you have no right to call your self a man. yes i think you will find most if not all people find it to be wrong. i asked my husband what he thought and lets just say any man that done the dirty on his wife would get a good kicked bum.
2007-11-15 04:02:42 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
What kind of question is this?
If your wife cheated on you with some shmuck, you probably wouldn't be happy about it either.
Yes, I'd consider it evil.
2007-11-15 04:00:25 · answer #11 · answered by Remi Hime 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋