Family & Relationships - 11 November 2007

the message was explicit, and he replied back to the girl, cool, don't get angry, but please don't send messages to my mobile, have got problems, send me emails, please understand. What is he up to??

2007-11-11 05:12:28 · 27 answers · asked by Loli 2 in Singles & Dating

My boyfriend and I have been together for 2 years and he stays over my house a lot. I tell him all the time to go out with his friends but he always tells me he'd rather not. Whenever he does decide to hang out with his friends, which is hardly ever, I don't get mad because I usually have one girl's night out a week with my friends. Last night, however, he was online talking to one of his friends and his friend asked, "are you over at what's her name's house?". My boyfriend asked him what the hell that meant and I guess the conversation ended in a "F-YOU". I don't understand why his friend would say that. I really don't hold my boyfriend hostage here...he does what he wants. I try to get along with all his friends but they just don't seem to like me...or have given a chance to like me.

2007-11-11 05:12:26 · 3 answers · asked by bri 3 in Singles & Dating

is it possible to forgive someone that u thought was cheating on you but u didnt have proper evidence of it?? only a sent text message??and they say they lent there phone to a friend. can you ever 4get or will it be in your mind forever??

2007-11-11 05:12:12 · 21 answers · asked by Sexy lady 2 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-11-11 05:04:25 · 4 answers · asked by zurc137 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

He is always looking at porn on his phone and lies to me saying his brother sent him an email link and thats all. but i know for a fact (having my ways) that he is emailing himself the porn links. He knows that I do not like it. I mean watching porn with me is one thing but every day behind my back and lying about it to me. What do you think? Is he losing interest in me? Is it a sign he might start cheating on me?

2007-11-11 05:04:03 · 16 answers · asked by TTC #1 2 in Singles & Dating

I see that sometimes and it has happened to me. what do they think really? 35-60 year old flirting with young girls

2007-11-11 05:00:07 · 29 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

the last boyfriend i had about 8 months ago used to tell me i was VERY prude and i wouldnt let him do ANYTHiNG. and now my current boyfriend and i are veryy sexual and i keep telling myself i dont wanna let him do it cause im way too young, but somehow he makes me want him to do it. its really weird and i dont like how i am now. i tell myself im not gonna do anything with him and then when we hang out he tries stuff and i give in. someone please help me :(

2007-11-11 04:58:16 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

ok so there is this girl that i like that likes me as well, and i want to progress our relationship and i feel like to do that i need to be more sexual and flirtatious. any clue on how to do that?

2007-11-11 04:53:04 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

if you are married and/or are in a serious relationship, would you be ok with your partner if she/he has some friends of the opposite sex? do you have friends of the opposite sex, if so how does your partner put up with it..is she/he ok with it or does it cause you fights and arguments most of the time?

2007-11-11 04:52:42 · 41 answers · asked by mama2be 3 in Marriage & Divorce

I've always been the girl who has had more guy friends than girl friends and that guys always seem to confide in more about their really private personal lives. I have tons of guy friends. I'm not a tomboy type, but I do engage in activities that they enjoy-like watching sports, drinking beer, playing video games...they tell me that I'm that 'perfect girl' that every guy dreams of dating because I'm a whole package. The problem is, I've always fallen for my best friends, because I am already close with them, and because we're already so close-they just want to stay good friends. I can't seem to understand why I can not find a guy that is dateable if I'm such a wonderful catch? I mean, is there something wrong with me? I think I'm pretty awesome! I am 22, blonde, blue eyed, 5'6". I always smile, enjoy life, make people laugh, and I'm getting my masters degree. Any suggestions on how to nab a great guy without turning into his best friend before we click? Thanks for reading!

2007-11-11 04:44:55 · 5 answers · asked by Alesha 3 in Friends

romantically on and off with. The morning of the move I woke him up to explain that I was going to be home on my lunch break with the movers and we were going to move all my furniture (which would've left him with really not much, but I had to take everything because it was my dads) anyways he freaked out saying I was a ugly ***** for moving and started talking all kinds of ****. I told him "why should I stay here, we don't get along and it's not working out". Lots of yelling back and forth at one another, calling eachother every name in the book he took a knife out and cut my furniture. I was furiated. I ran to his xbox to show that I could easily break this if I wanted and it accidentally dropped out of my hands. This set him off in a rage and he ended up punching me in my leg. He broke my cell phone in half so I couldn't call anyone and I ended up leaving and called the cops. Now after moved to my dads i'm feeling guilty for everything. Do you think I should be guilty?

2007-11-11 04:43:36 · 11 answers · asked by Miss Amber 3 in Marriage & Divorce

Im not there with him because I wasnt invited...I trust him for the most part and I know he loves me and loves our marriage and what we have together...should I be worried about what hes up to...because I would find myself waking up at like 2 and 3 in the morning last night wondering what he was doing...I dont want to call him and bother him because I do want him to have a good time. If you are a happily married man(I know most of you would say you wouldnt go without your wife but this was a trip he had planned before we were married and theres a lot more to it)in Vegas without your wife what would you be up to?

2007-11-11 04:41:48 · 11 answers · asked by ChrZay 3 in Marriage & Divorce

only to get your heart broken again,,,I am so angry right now.
why do I love her so much,,despite everything she has done,,I cant not love her,,its really taking its toll on me,,together 11 years,,this crap has been going on for the last 2 years,,,If anyone has any advice for me,,please let me know before I do something stupid,,,Im sorry if I sound out of line,,but f**k,,I am really,,,,REALLY piss*ed off,please help,,,something,,anything to calm me down,,,,I am gonna go off big time!!!!!

2007-11-11 04:41:19 · 13 answers · asked by nickson faction 7 in Singles & Dating

what if u feel like u are being yourself and you feel uncomfortable with the people u are around and if someone ask u something about yourself that is true but thats not there business should u tell the truth are say its not your business if so how do u say it without offending them? back to feeling uncomfortable around people i know that if u shouldn't hang around them if u feel uncomfortable but what if you end up socializing with no one i know would probably say "find some friends to socialize with that u feel comfortable around" how do u do that!!! i do that but it just takes so long for me to get comfortable with a person or just feel like its ok to do that.
any advice

2007-11-11 04:38:01 · 4 answers · asked by ms nikki 1 in Friends

So last night I had a friend (girl) over in my room, we're in a few of the same classes (here in college) and we've known each other for a while. Something came over me and before I knew it we were having sex. I'm not looking to get into any relationships right now, what happens next?

2007-11-11 04:31:45 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Is it OLD AGE?? ...that makes the man "grumpy" ..or could it be a "nagging" wife/woman that can turn a good man into a "grumpy" man. I am very curious about this! Don't know for sure if this comes from the outside that in turn makes a man or woman to be like this, either "grumpy" for us males OR a "nagging" wife for the females. Or maybe its just old age, coming into a woman's or man's way of thinking, whining, reasoning, complaining, etc. Thanks guy for your honest answers in advance!

2007-11-11 04:27:39 · 13 answers · asked by pain_of_unhappiness 2 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-11-11 04:27:35 · 33 answers · asked by donna l 1 in Marriage & Divorce

Heres my story, im a 20 year old male, who works for my parents at a RL Polo store located in S.Korea, we recently hired a new girl employee (the store is very small mind you) she 19, i never took interest in her until recently, where she would go behind me and put her head on my shoulder, when this overconfident jerk would try to flirt, also would say dumb random stuff to her boyfriend saying look were a couple!! and she would put her arms around me. Once i met her at a bustop and she told me to wait with her, as it was cold, i was gonna offer my jacket but im not as confident, so i did not.. she sat very close to me, probably to keep from gettin a cold. After she left she texted me thanks for staying with me till the bus came. I flirted with her once or twice, trying to be smooth as possible (lol) asked me what shoe looks better i told her anything looks good on you, your too cute, or something of that nature. She turns around and giggles..

2007-11-11 04:26:34 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Here's the deal....I have this crazy *** g/f who I made the mistake of letting her move in with me. She has a 3 y/o daughter who is a brat (of course all kids that age are to a certain extent I suppose), but she is to the extreme. Anyways, I've tried to get her to leave by:

1. Cheating on her (several times)
2. Getting an eviction order from the County Magistrate (although I went back and cancelled it b/c evictions stay on your record if a landlord does a background check....remember I am trying to get rid of her)
3. Acting like a complete asshole (ladies, I am really not one and I hate acting this way)
4. Refusing to be the babysitter

The problem I have is that she has no family and no other friends who are willing to watch her daughter. I am tired of being the babysitter because I am in need of a PT job and just want to go out with my friends sometimes. I am also a full time college student. She also doesn't pay any of the bills...

What else should I do????

2007-11-11 04:23:39 · 21 answers · asked by Wes 2 in Singles & Dating

Hi, I just found out this 25 y/o guy I went on 2 dates with is trying to make me fall into a relationship with him just to have sex. I didn't though - i am not that type. He went as far as claiming he is a virgin and asks me to crash over. I confronted him once but he convinced me he wasn't. He played with my emotions and made me think he likes me and all that. I also found out his female friend (i know her) told him about how i treated her cousin really bad when we went out, so she knows he is playing me and she texts me to convince he is a good guy and def. not a player type. They are both plotting against me as a subliminal payback. Apparently, there are some people that still hate me in this world. I know ths sounds crazy but i am shocked as well. How should I handle this? So far, i played along & said yea i'll crash over. Now i want to clarify i don't sleep over. What should i do?

2007-11-11 04:22:48 · 1 answers · asked by angelgirly333 1 in Singles & Dating

Well there's this new girl at school, and she's totally a prostitute in training. I've been friends with these guys for a long time now, and since she's moved here, they've started ignoring me and my friends. Also, my other friend had this crush on this guy, and she knew it and tried to sit on his lap one day. It broke her heart! Now, we all think she stuffs her bra, because it's so... un-natural. But we don't know how to prove it or anything. How can we get her to admit she stuffs her bra, so all the guys will leave her alone cuz she's fake?

2007-11-11 04:20:59 · 17 answers · asked by Julia 3 in Singles & Dating

Would you rather go out with a shy tall guy or a short guy who is very sociable?

2007-11-11 04:16:42 · 5 answers · asked by bear 1977 4 in Singles & Dating

we were going out for a little and then he said we never talked... he was going out with one of my friends then he broke up with her...he asked me out and then he broke up with me hOW DO I WIN HIM BACK??

2007-11-11 04:16:00 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-11-11 04:14:52 · 21 answers · asked by Nancy B 1 in Friends

My friend's question:

She's with this guy that she loves so much, but she has feelings for his ex best friend who has feelings back as well. She knows that her boyfriend is better for her, but she likes the fact that his friend is a little more daring than her boyfriend. She's been really depressed and got so miserable that she told her boyfriend what was going on... except for the fact that she has feelings for his friend. I think it's getting her boyfriend down but she can't help how she feels. What should she do?

2007-11-11 04:13:45 · 1 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

and any advice hehe.
I am finally going to tell my best friend I love him. I have known him for 6 years, when I told him this 3 years back, he said he wanted to be just friends.
We continued as if nothing happened. But now alot has changed. He broke up with his gf a year back. I look hotter, am more self confident and he said so too!
I might end up losing a bit of my self esteem, big deal, atleast he will know how much I love being with him! and would like it to be like that forever...
( I am 25 yrs old, just got an awesome new job) I know its taking a big chance, I might be crushed forever.. or maybe the friendship but he needs to know... right?
oh and I am putting up this question in the marriage section, because of the more mature answers and reflections :D

2007-11-11 04:13:09 · 9 answers · asked by me 1 in Marriage & Divorce

he always threatens to live me and take my son away from me bacuase i can't afford to live on my own. he always pushes me, and call me a c*nt, and a bit*h. is this normal? what should i do

2007-11-11 04:11:42 · 13 answers · asked by heather 1 in Marriage & Divorce

You make my life miserable.
No body wants used merchandise.
You look like a whore.
I dont love you anymore.

........ Im starting to believe that what she says is true... do you think she means it?

2007-11-11 04:11:37 · 55 answers · asked by Chrissy 1 in Family

My friend made a confession to me a while ago. To make a long story short, I have a friend who cheated on her husband with another man and got pregnant. Her boyfriend said he wouldn't take care of the baby unless she got rid of her husband. He pushed her to press spousal rape charges on the husband so they could move on with their lives. He was convicted and she ended up with all marital assets, all because she wanted a new life with her boyfriend and their baby and didn't want to lose him.

When she admitted it was a lie, I felt bad that he was convicted, but he was a pretty bad husband. He was even abusive at times. That's why she cheated. But he's innocent of the rape charge, which is what he was convicted of. What can I do? Should I tell someone? I don't have actual proof and it might just make it worse. It would definitely end our friendship. Should I mind my own business?

2007-11-11 04:10:08 · 27 answers · asked by ♥~Shauna~♥ 3 in Friends

I may need some examples on this guys. Thanks in Advance.

2007-11-11 04:09:19 · 6 answers · asked by pain_of_unhappiness 2 in Marriage & Divorce