Family & Relationships - 11 November 2007

ok it's 11:00 in the morning and my sisters had a alcohol party upstairs in their bedroom last night. some of their friends got really drunk and sleeped over. I also have ccompany comming over in about 2 hours. how do i get rid of my sisters' friends without calling my parents or any other high authority?
[ i am 15 years old and my sisters are 17 and 19]
[also my parents are away in bostin]

2007-11-11 04:07:23 · 11 answers · asked by Whoa 1 in Family

ok so my mom told all her friends that her mom ( my grandma) lives in our house. even thoguh she is my grandma i get very scared. my mm says she has dreams about her being in ther closet and one of her friends went in there once and saw her. i have seen ehr 2 which was very scary. her friends have dreams about my moms closet too. nwo i see mnay scary thigns and hear my name being called. a fiend told me that if you hear your name bein claaed its death calling you. i see black strange figures and hear things sometimes. i am very scared please any help?

2007-11-11 04:06:55 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

Do you find it unattractive when it isn't shaved orwithout the use of wax ???? Should it be used in all area ????

2007-11-11 04:05:52 · 5 answers · asked by ....................... 7 in Singles & Dating

along the way?

2007-11-11 04:05:25 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

I have a boyfriend, and he is AMAZING. And I don't plan on us breaking up anytime soon. Before we started dating, I confessed I had a thing for this other guy. He said the feeling was mutual but he was engaged so there was nothing we could do. It was obivous something was there, he always made time to see me. We talk almost every day. His sister even tells me we should be together (he and his gf dont have a very good relationship) Recently he confessed his feelings were stronger. I feel the same, but we both know nothing can happen, and we dont plan on anything happening. This past time he came into town, he told me he couldnt come see me cause he didnt trust himself around me.

Now, Im stuck. Yes, I'm practially in love with this guy. I know its wrong on both mine and his part. But it feels right.. But now, Im starting to think we should stop while we're ahead. Maybe I should just tell him I can't do this anymore. And that Im done..

Help me. What do I do? What should I say to

2007-11-11 04:05:12 · 2 answers · asked by Elle 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

its not that i look to fight with him when i feel like it. but i've learned from others that even if it has to be from fighting, if two people can get things out in the open about each other's falws it gives an opertunity to better themselves. i ask him tons of things just to even get the slightest critisizm.

what's wrong with me? -
nothing, i love you the way you are

me - you don't mind being married to a "walking crayon"? (my hair is lavender, i wear really colorful clothes, thats another long story)
him - "of course not, you color up my life!"
me - "your hair is pretty messy today"
him - "i'll go and fix it if you want, yours is looking great by the way."
me - "you know, sometimes i think you're too good for me"
him - "that can't be right, i think you're perfect"

im not ungreatful or insecure about anything, its just i really want to be in the same level with him. he treats me like im a queen which i can't be ok with, i have my falws, and sometimes i want him to be honest with me

2007-11-11 04:04:20 · 4 answers · asked by Avatar 1 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-11-11 04:03:07 · 39 answers · asked by Anthony 1 in Singles & Dating

I've been in an otherwise happy relationship for around four years and recently I moved to be with her. We live together now and have been doing so for about eight months. When we first got together, the feelings regarding affection were mutual. Now it's as though she doesn't want my attention half the time and complains whenever I want to cuddle or spend the morning with her. Sex is awkward and while fulfilling for her, it leaves me unfulfilled. I've tried to talk to her about this but she doesn't seem to understand.

Something that may be included in this problem is that her mother and sister live with us. We have seperate rooms, and I thought this would be a positive change from the way we had been sleeping in the living room. We live in a two-room apartment and the second bedroom used to be a computer room. However, after the change, there hasn't been much change in our relationship. I'm not sure what to do and I'm very frustrated with the situation. What should I do?

2007-11-11 04:02:39 · 4 answers · asked by MisterJ 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

My dad was out one night and I was in the shower and she walked in on me she smiled at me and stood asked her to leave and ever since she has been making suggestive comments to me. what should I do?

2007-11-11 04:01:57 · 14 answers · asked by Axel C 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

Single mothers in their mid thirties. Do they have a chance finding and staying in love? Is it possible? Any advice?

2007-11-11 04:00:27 · 2 answers · asked by blackstoryteller 1 in Singles & Dating

Hey everyone i'm 16 from n.ireland :]
Umm well i'm basically just a very shy person and it's getting me down more and more everyday.
I started college 2 months ago and well I have friends in it it's just i'm not as "talkative" as they are and I have the feeling that they are kind of awkward when talking to me.. and I don't mean to make them feel that way :[
I'm just scared to be myself in case what they will think of me and I mean i'm a nice person, but I'm just worried they will think I'm boring because i'm quiet. :[ So I just hope they like me for me. And I like each one of them for who they are.
This is one of the reasons i've never had a boyfriend but I don't need one to be happy anyways lol... it would just be nice x]
This is one of the reasons I dread going everyday.
I'm also starting my first job tomorrow and I'm scared and nervous. I might be the quiet one.
Well I would just like some bits of advice on confidence or something and well yeah i'm upset about this now.
Thnx

2007-11-11 03:57:56 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

There is this guy down my local pub...i go down there only sometimes and he lives two doors away from me. He is in his late 30's i think, he is married and has two young children. One night down the pub, a year ago he kept staring at me and saying 'i like those kinky boot's' and down in the pool area i coud see him glancing up to me all the time. The past few days every time i go down to the pub he is there staring at me all the time, i find it quite weird but i sort of like it! Once at a party he was saying how attractive i was and making a conversation..my mate overheard him saying to someone about me and my friend that we were so gorgeous. Oh and also the other night he wanted to know how i got on when i went home (i kind of stole my parents champagne for a laugh feel so bad lol :S) and he says i should talk to him more. what do i do? does he like me in that way? should i just avoid him...im so confused because i kind of enjoy what he is doing...it turns me on!? :S

2007-11-11 03:57:39 · 45 answers · asked by ? 2 in Singles & Dating

1) Never flirt with the person your best friend is interested in!

2007-11-11 03:57:19 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

I live in Israel and I'm an American. My American friends in Israel are begging me to bring them stuff from America (I'm going there to visit my grandparents soon). Alot of the stuff they want me to bring is heavy and it costs alot! :( I don't want to say no to them because they haven't been to the USA in a while. What should I do so that I won't have to bring anything back and that I won't hurt their feelings?

2007-11-11 03:53:59 · 8 answers · asked by hydefamily_de 2 in Friends

Do you still have to talk to him for the kid's sake? Does he bug you with other things besides the kids? Do you fret him calling? Tell me your story

2007-11-11 03:50:57 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

Okay, I live with my ex-husband but I don't love him. We have 4 kids though. Well, I met someone who I really care for. We saw each other for a good while but there was just some things that I wasn't sure about. Feelings wise he had and still has my heart. We kind of drifted apart for a good while. And now he is seeing someone else and that is killing me. Did I screw up letting him go or do ya'll think it was for the best?

2007-11-11 03:47:07 · 2 answers · asked by just me 2 in Singles & Dating

Everyone thinks it must be great to have hollywood good looks and every woman must want you and everything comes easy.

That's is the biggest bunch of BS going. I've had many women tell me that can't date me because my looks intimadate them.

OH...if you talk about it...you are CALLED arrougant and big-headed and full of yourself.

If you don't believe wait and see numerous people will call me names just for posting this or expressing my feelings. 99.9999% of the time I never say anything or brag BUT people will never give you the luxury of expressing feeling & emotions.
I know thir type....I've seen them all my life...you talk about judging others based on looks alone.

It's 100% the opposite of what everyone thinks...women, men both love to see you fail, they can't wait to cast stones. It makes them feel better about themselves somehow.

I'd love to hear you thoughts

2007-11-11 03:47:01 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Hi, I just found out this 25 y/o guy I went on 2 dates with is trying to make me fall into a relationship with him just to have sex. I didn't though - i am not that type. He went as far as claiming he is a virgin and asks me to crash over. I confronted him once but he convinced me he wasn't. He played with my emotions and made me think he likes me and all that. I also found out his female friend (i know her) told him about how i treated her cousin really bad when we went out, so she knows he is playing me and she texts me to convince he is a good guy and def. not a player type. They are both plotting against me as a subliminal payback. Apparently, there are some people that still hate me in this world. I know ths sounds crazy but i am shocked as well. How should I handle this? So far, i played along & said yea i'll crash over. Now i want to clarify i don't sleep over. Should I confront him & the grl...or should be civil and tell him "i'm not interested in you...let's just be friends"

2007-11-11 03:46:42 · 1 answers · asked by angelgirly444 1 in Singles & Dating

we are 20 and 21 and all we do is work ,come home and sleep once in a while (every month and .5) we go out movies or to eat together. how did we get like this its horrible?

2007-11-11 03:41:44 · 2 answers · asked by drea06star 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

I'm trying to decide whether or not I should shave my pubic area for my woman. Do women these days pretty much expect that their men keep that area shaved? If so, whats acceptable (just neatly groomed, all off or what)?

2007-11-11 03:41:00 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

Hello everyone,
i'm sorry if this question is silly and if i'm wasting your time, it's just that i dn't have anybody else to help me, i was hoping u would, i really need advise. First of all i'm deeply confused.. there's this other girl, i'm a girl myself & this girl is in my class she's a yr older, i think she's cool, has a weird eccentric side like me! and i love that...how can i be her friend/ get to know her better, recently i've started talking 2 her, but about music+movies, but i don't want her 2 find me boring...what should i do, and does she like me...what does it mean if in class she puts her fingernail between her teeth while looking? how can i express my personality differently, i try 2 be myself, but my nerves and shyness can sometimes interfere! and when i talk i keep thinking that i'm boring, but there's so much more i have to give...:)
thankyou,
from the confused girl

2007-11-11 03:33:28 · 7 answers · asked by 'Meerzycat' 5 in Friends

ok, I think im in love with my boyfriend but ive got these weird feelings that seem to come over me. when i look at him i just get lost in his eyes and cant stop staring is it love? .

another problem is my friend and he told me he was gonna propose to me sometime btwn now and the end of the year and just a reminder i am only 15 and he is only 17. when my friend told me about this i passed out. when i woke up i had no emotion tword wat she had told me and then when he addmitited it still no emotion and now im feeling mad at him cuz i know he is gonna do it but dont know when and it is buggin the hell out of me what do it do?



ok last question this is for the guys. ok my bf tells me hes ready if i am and im not sure what to do so guys what should i do?

any tips accepted and well aprecitated

2007-11-11 03:30:42 · 1 answers · asked by purple_croc_2005 1 in Singles & Dating

i have a bestfriend names katie. i thik shes my bestfriend still.
well, i have more friends then her now, and shes so boring to me now. Like my other friends are always hyper and we actualy go out of the house to do other things.
she dosent smoke or anything, and all my other friends do.

K so, when i dont go to my other friends house, i take her bus home and go to her house. its really boring, its not like i want to tho.
i take her bus cause i dont like my bus, and i dont have anyone to sit with.

so am i useing her?

help?

2007-11-11 03:30:37 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

2007-11-11 03:29:35 · 5 answers · asked by ayyush 1 in Friends

Ours was Broken Wings by Mr.Mister ahhh the memories of it ll...would bring a tear to a glass eye ..

2007-11-11 03:28:12 · 32 answers · asked by babscabs 5 in Weddings

hi. so this is a really long story made short..me and my ex have been broken up for about 6 months now..but ive never stopped loving him..last month he said he missed me and loved me and i told him i felt the same but that was that and he just kinda stopped talking to me..i asked him what he did on halloween and he said he hung out with one of his [girl] friends..ive been going so crazy over him the last 2-3 months or so and i honestly, REALLY need to tell him how i feel even though i did tell him way back in augustish..and i had a dream last night that we were talking to eachother and we both confessed we loved eachother and he was asking why i couldntve told him sooner, because in my dream he then had a girlfriend, which sums up that i need to tell him and really really let him know how much i love him once and for all before its too late..idk sorry here's the question- if he had feelings for me after 6 months a month ago do you think he still has them? what should i do...

2007-11-11 03:20:56 · 1 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I called the place i bought my dress from this morning to check to see if my bridesmaid that is MIA has called, showed up, anything. Nothing...the consultant told me the dresses HAVE TO BE ORDERED THIS WEEK!!!!! So i got upset because this one bridesmaid was supposed to meet us last week and she didn't, no call no show basically (she lives fairly close to the shop). Anyways...they've got all the girls phone numbers, The consultant said she was going to call her and give her a 'courtesy' call saying the dresses have to be ordered this week, if need be we'll go ahead and order without her but she needs to catch up quickly if she's gonna be in the wedding, otherwise all the girls will have to pay a 20 dollar rush fee and the seamstresses will require more as well.

This is the same bridesmaid that told me i had six months and to calm down....I explained that to the lady on the phone and she was like "No honey, these dresses will take three months to come in....

2007-11-11 03:20:52 · 11 answers · asked by ? 5 in Weddings

Ok so here's the story and question....

I was with my girlfriend almost 5 years....we loved each other very much....we did have some fights and arguments.
I wasn't perfect, I did say mean things sometimes or do things but I have OCD and Borderline Personality Disorder.
Not all of it, but most of it was caused by my problems, I have been getting help and working on myself for the last
year and a half and been getting better. I regularly go to my therapist and psychiatrist and take my meds as prescribed.
I have gotten better. She left me 3 months ago because she said she didn't like the way I treated her. She is the type
that wants a "fairytale" relationship. Everyone has told her including her parents that she won't get that with anyone.
She also expects no fights or arguments. Well anyways she told me for the first two months after she left...that she
still wanted to be with me, she loves me, misses me, wants to know I'm serious about us, etc. Then two weeks after
that go by and she doesn't say much to me....well I texted her a lot but it was because when I tried to give her space
before by not texting as much, she would text me and say why are you ignoring me or I don't think you're serious about
this...and then when I did she didn't want me to text or wouldn't text me back most of the time.

2007-11-11 03:20:43 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

i notice that the woman gets more angry at the other woman. when the other woman could have been an innocent party.
meanwhile the married woman forgives the hubby.

do women secretly hate each other and dont want each other to succeed.

even during elections?

catty??

2007-11-11 03:18:53 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

I have been friends with an entire family since birth. Two of the daughters now won't communicate with me. My mom, whom I was the caregiver for died in June of this year. She was my best friend & I am having a very difficult time with her death. My husband & I vacationed with my friend & her spouse after my mom's death. The trip ended up disasterous.
I was very upset and missing my mom, it was my birthday. My friend & her husband only wanted to talk politics which we do not agree on. I couldn't take it anymore and said things that I regret. Since I have tried to call her she won't answer so I e-mailed her an appology. She still refuses to speak with me. Then this last week her sister also got angry with me &called me on the phone stating she never wants to talk with me again. I am so sorry & miss their friendship yet I'm devastated by the loss of my mom & am falling apart. I just wish I could take it all back. Im grieving my mom & havent been myself. Now I am lost.

2007-11-11 03:18:25 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends