Family & Relationships - 11 November 2007

What would u do if ur husband was on the computer every day looking at porn and using msn to chat up other women.. Its absolutly killing me ive asked him to stop and he said he would but he never does, when i ask him about the porn he says every guy weather they are married or not does it but i feel like he does it rather come near me, as for the msn he says its general and he's talking to everyone but i know its just women cause i change his password and check his contact list and they are all girls, we fell out last night and today about it and i have threatened to leave so many times but he always persuades me to stay, he says he really loves me and would never survive without me but i just feel like his mum. Even today i went his parents with our children (3 and 12 weeks) and i have just got home and he has been on it again today as i have just checked, although b4 i left today he promised he wouldnt do anything as he would rather we got on then look at porn.

2007-11-11 07:45:49 · 38 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

we got married 1.5 years back.my husband is a very busy person with lot of stress at work.he never had interest in sex.i had to take the initiative all the times and many times when i take the initiative he will try to go far away from me and he blames me that i have a very high sex drive.we will have sex once in 3 weeks that too i have to kind of force him to that.i slowly got adjusted to that.but recently i found him having sex chat with few girls on internet.he asks fr their photos and praises their beauty.he also sends his photos.i warned him not to do that and he said that he will not repeat it .but he keeps dng this.i cought him many times.he accuses me that im not giving space to him and that we cannot have children if this continues.he also has deppression and he is reluctant to consult a doctor as he is a doctor and those medications wil affect his job.i agree that im nt too attractive as i have strech marks and loose skin on my tummy.is it affecting my life.wat shud i do

2007-11-11 07:43:48 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

Generally? I mean it often happens to me...usually guys that are going out with me.

2007-11-11 07:37:38 · 16 answers · asked by profe 1 in Singles & Dating

If you ever read the janet evanovich Stephanie Plum novels, then my relationship with this guy is like between Stephanie and Morelli. Kind of. I'm in college and this amazingly hott guy started talking to me. Everyone is in love with him. Problem is, we went to the same highschool and I kinda lost my virginity to him Senior year and I'm think thats all hes after. We were hanging out the other night and one thing led to another and we almost did something but he said he didn't want to rush things. HAs he changed or is he the same bad boy who just wants to get into my pants???

2007-11-11 07:35:12 · 5 answers · asked by blondebarbie55 1 in Singles & Dating

I've always liked big girls, not just 'curvy' or 'full figured' but girls who are very fat. There is nothing sexier than a girl who has gained a lot of weight and I love seeing girls get bigger.

Should I make this known? I've dated a few fairly plump girls so my friends probably know I'm not adverse to them. But should I make it known when asked that I think huge girls are the sexiest things on this planet, or do you think it will hurt my chances of actually hooking up with one?

2007-11-11 07:34:16 · 25 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I feel so angry now I was together with a guy we slept with eachother and now he dumped me, when you meet a guy how are you sopposed to know if he's just using you?

2007-11-11 07:33:30 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

imm 13, and i never had it. Im not gonna do it early i just want to know how it feels and all.
Some guys in my class always mention about it, and they said they did it before. they laughed when I said i never tried it.

How does it feel ?
What age is okay to have sex?
Is it painful the first time?


thankss for whoever answers

2007-11-11 07:32:23 · 19 answers · asked by Lauren 3 in Singles & Dating

ive been seeing this guy for almost a year already..we've been off and on again various times..its weird its like he gets cold feet about being seriously committed to me. First he'll be all lovey dovey telling me we're gonna get married soon and how he wants me to meet his mom..then after a few good months he'll start saying things like im not really ready to commit..this confuses me last night he told me that we're only friends again i dont know whats goin on in his head someone please help....

2007-11-11 07:32:21 · 9 answers · asked by Joy'Cee's Mom 2 in Singles & Dating

we are getting married next year and have a appointment at the registry office at the end of this month i just need to know weather i need to take a full birth certificate or would a short version acceptable. i dont have a passport and we are in the uk

2007-11-11 07:31:31 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

my ex and i broke up last month thru text messages..he lives in a neighboring town about an hour from here. well last night, my roommate and my friend and i went to that town to do some partying b/c the college team had won...at the very last bar we went to, who else is there but my ex!! i bought him a drink and we talked a lil bit but not much b/c my roommate was trying to find my friend and dragging me along. i invited him to an afterhours party we were gonna go to but he said nah. then kinda walked off. my roommie was like "man he's rude". i shrugged, didn't care. well i ran into him again b4 leavin and gave him a hug bye. then when we were driving home, noticed a missed call from him. i texted him "yes?" and he said he was gonna come to the party but he was already home. told him we decided to skip the afterhours and go home. about an hour later, he texts "i wish you would've stayed in town 2nite...b/c i dont like sleeping alone". do you think he misses me, or..

2007-11-11 07:31:28 · 13 answers · asked by Melanie 5 in Singles & Dating

i have a friendship with a girl who i think likes me but she is shy and so if i straight up asked her out she may be too embarrassed or it might make the situation awkward.

Are there any things i can do to confirm from her (from her body language) that she likes me too?

i would just ask her out but don't want to spoil a great friendship. She means the world to me as a friend....and in the future, maybe more

dave

2007-11-11 07:27:46 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

married 12yrs, we dont know how to communicate how do i begin? hes ready to throw in the towel, i want to start over and renew our relationship.

2007-11-11 07:27:29 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

what 's your idea?

2007-11-11 07:26:52 · 25 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

What if your husband told you he thought you were average and you're not drop-dead gorgeous or hot but you're not ugly either. And if he didn't know you and saw you walking down the street, he probably wouldn't give you a second look? Then thought you were being silly for feeling hurt by this.

Would this hurt your feelings? If so, how would you handle it? Would you ever tell your mate this even if you thought it?

2007-11-11 07:25:57 · 31 answers · asked by Lady J 4 in Marriage & Divorce

can it be possible its nothing personal?

2007-11-11 07:24:13 · 14 answers · asked by JWalker 1 in Marriage & Divorce

Ive started talking to this guy and hes 20 years old. Frome the very beginning ive been honest about my age and he didnt care.
Hes seems perfect and seem to really like me, he pursued me these last two weeks but now..all of a sudden..hes kinda letting me go? we havent done anything but he hasnt called,Instant messaged me or texted me.. its only been like two days hes been doing this but it really bothers me. Should i chase him or should i just let him go?

2007-11-11 07:22:30 · 8 answers · asked by Brittany T 1 in Singles & Dating

My bff got married about 3 yrs ago and it was hell for her since the beginning. Well now she got divorced and I've always liked her husband (she was the crazy one in the marriage) and we get along great and have great conversation. I never said or even did anything to express my feelings during her marriage i was very respectful. Her and I had a major falling out but I still talk to him...I think I like him! Our falling out had nothing to do with him... Is that wrong?

2007-11-11 07:22:10 · 7 answers · asked by jana07 1 in Marriage & Divorce

*He met her in December last year, she was dating someone else and he was dating me.
*Me and him split in April, very nasty sudden break up -hes gutted, Im gutted. We had talked about marriage.
*Didnt see him again and had no communication.
*She split with her man in July/August. They had been together a while.
*Shes just 20 and works as a model. Dont think shes earning much.
*Shes the dominant one. He was the dominant one in our relationship.
*He told me they had barely dated, just decided to get married after being together 3 weeks and got hitched on a whim.

Hes under a lot of pressure with work.

He told my friend he thought i was going to visit him (as we had planned for me to go in October) and that was the reason he married her!

When I called him last week he told me he hates me (err whats his problem)???
Her ex is still on the scene - hes my ex's good friend.
Anyway dont mean to sound like sour grapes but I admit Im gutted its like a slap in my face.

2007-11-11 07:20:45 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

And the guy is a good 12 years younger than her, and really has no shot. Please tell me how you honestly would feel.

Thanks

2007-11-11 07:20:17 · 32 answers · asked by jstgrace 4 in Marriage & Divorce

i pretended i did not know by bfs name in front of my friends and somehow he found out and we had this conversation.
him: My name is LARRY!
me: yeah i know i was just kidding around
him: i see nothing comic about this situation
me : it's nothing to get mad about all i said was that i have not been here a lot and i forgot who everyone was i don't even no why i did it i was just being stupid!
him: well ya know that should be easy for you.
me: exuse me?!
him: why are you so funny all the time i don't get it
me: jp and i were just kidding around!
him: oh yeah and just who is this jp guy?
me : MY FRIEND!
him: you hang out with him to much
me: oh now i am not allowed to have friends?
then he walked away later he apologized and we both let go of the situation should i still go out with him

2007-11-11 07:18:58 · 24 answers · asked by mistoemegan 2 in Singles & Dating

I left my so-called boyfriend because he didn't want to commit to me..he didn't want the title of boyfriend/girlfriend and I did and I found a guy who wanted me and wanted to be with me...he wanted to call me his girlfriend. Now that I am with this new guy, he holds my hand, and tells me he loves me and misses me (all of which my ex did not do). So things are good and I realize I could have been treated a lot better. The thing is my ex wants to talk to me tomorrow--I am afraid he's going to say he wants to be with me now and commit. But I don't think I want that now...I think my feelings have changed towards him..and I realize I can be treated a lot better (like my current boyfriend treats me). It's to the point that even if things dont work out between me and my current boyfriend, I don't think I will go back to my ex. And even if my ex and I did get back together as bf/gf, I dont think things could ever be the same. What are your thoughts on this?

2007-11-11 07:18:53 · 7 answers · asked by Jenny 2 in Singles & Dating

My second cousin recently passed away and at the funeral I found a friend, John, from school there. It turns out that my second cousin was John's nephew. In other words my second cousin was his uncle. Are we related at all and if so, how?

2007-11-11 07:14:58 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

My family thinks that I stole money from them. So here is what happened.

My dad wasn't feeling well and went to sleep. I went into his room about an hour before I left to hang out with some friends to be sure he was alright. Before I left the room, I took a box out that my mom asked me to move. A couple of minutes before I left I checked on him one more time. I just wanted to be sure. He then call\s me about an hour after I leave and says to come back with what I took. He thinks I took money from a drawer of his. He said he wasn't asleep and was listening to everything I was doing. I swear I didn't, but no one believes me. How do I make everyone believe me that I really didn't do it?

2007-11-11 07:14:27 · 4 answers · asked by bklyndevil44 2 in Family

He lives about an hour away now. He always asks for pictures of me. We write letters and his last letter said, "send me some more pictures, please?" He already has about 8...why does he need more? It's not that I don't want him to have them I'm just curious. He has told me that he thinks I am beautiful. So maybe it is because he likes me? Or maybe he is doing something with them? What do guys do with pictures of "pretty" girls? I asked him why but he hasn't wrote me back yet.

2007-11-11 07:13:22 · 5 answers · asked by *My_Oh_My* 2 in Singles & Dating

2007-11-11 07:10:57 · 26 answers · asked by racheal m 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-11-11 07:10:53 · 12 answers · asked by Dana R 1 in Marriage & Divorce

My photo used to be my fiance's cell phone "screensaver". I have been replaced by his new mercedes. Do you think it's an affair?

2007-11-11 07:09:01 · 9 answers · asked by mosaic 6 in Marriage & Divorce

I been seeing this guy... We ended up sleeping together recently... But I dont realy like the way he does it... He very sweet and nice but when he makes love he kind of does it very fast and not very romantic ... How do I get him to be more tender and loving? How to tell him this?

2007-11-11 07:05:49 · 18 answers · asked by Moi 2 in Singles & Dating

i dont get along with my sons fathers girlfriend at all. Anyways I was arguing with her and she told me ohhh well i was effin him while your son was at the house. My son never told me he heard anything and we were going back and forth talkin crap so i know why she threw it in my face...I told her she messed up because now i have evidence to bring into court...I think she ws stupid to give me that information. Is it ok for them to be having intercourse while my son is at thier house? can I do anything because of this for him to not go there anymore and not be around the girfriend

2007-11-11 07:03:03 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

Okay heres the picture of me: (on the right!!!)
http://i221.photobucket.com/albums/dd241/bronte-minns/HollyandBronte.jpg
And here is two pictures I found of Amy (to let u know she DOES smile because i dont want her to make out shes a biiiiatch!)
http://i221.photobucket.com/albums/dd241/bronte-minns/NASTii3.jpg
http://i221.photobucket.com/albums/dd241/bronte-minns/M37.jpg

I thought I AM PRETTIER than her its NOT fair!!
What do you think?
OR
Who do you think is MUCH better?

2007-11-11 07:02:14 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends