I feel so angry now I was together with a guy we slept with eachother and now he dumped me, when you meet a guy how are you sopposed to know if he's just using you?
2007-11-11 07:33:30 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Take your time with HIM!! Do not give in to him TOO FAST!! Also just pay attention to what he seems to be wanting the most! Just SEX for the night, or you for who you are and for a long time!!! This is to be done when you first meet the guy! Now, just pay attention to how he is talking to you when you first meet and what his attitude may be towards you and where his eyes are always looking!!!
2007-11-11 07:37:13 · answer #1 · answered by backyardbum 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Listen...you wanted the sex just as much as he did, or it wouldn't have happened! Used you? How'd he do that?? You telling us you weren't there when it happened!? That's just the way things go sometimes; nobody plans it, some relationships last and others don't. If you had dumped him, you certainly wouldn't be saying he used you, you'd be saying something more like 'what an azzhole he was and blah, blah, blah...' Get over it and move on!
2007-11-11 15:42:12 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
you need to observe his body language as well as the way he speaks to you. next time you meet someone, listen. listen to everything he says. if it mainly consists of sex or a sexual matter. you will know what hes about. becareful of the ones who say they would never sleep with you and leave. those are the ones also. just listen to your inner voice, if it dont feel right. it most likely isnt. hope this helps. good luck.
2007-11-11 15:40:26 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Take ur time and dont rush having sex. If u do that and he keeps bothering about it that prolly all he wants but if he is ok with it than he wants a real relationship
2007-11-11 15:38:47 · answer #4 · answered by French Toast 2 · 0⤊ 2⤋
u can usually tell a guy is using u from his rep or from like if hes moving to fast like if u guys were dating for a few days and he wanted to have sex then he was def using u...if ur not friends with a person b4 u date them then usually they only want u for sex if the two of u have sex in like a month or less...because it takes a few months to b sure ur in love....its faster for sum ppl...but just b careful with ur heart and b careful who u have sex with bcuz ,most guys use females...(srry felas)
2007-11-11 15:39:23 · answer #5 · answered by breeReal 5 · 0⤊ 2⤋
You don't open your legs for at least 6 months to a year. If he's still around after that, he's committed.
2007-11-11 15:36:52 · answer #6 · answered by janicajayne 7 · 1⤊ 2⤋
Don't rush into sex. If he is pushing for it then you know that is all he wants.
2007-11-11 15:38:27 · answer #7 · answered by mommacat 4 · 0⤊ 2⤋