Family & Relationships - 7 November 2007

I asked a question yesterday, i am posting the background of the problem again here.

We have a nice big swimming pool down our house. A similar situation happened twice that I was swimming (naked).....my hubby came frm work with his mates, I ofcourse was not aware dat they were coming, i quickly got out .... said Hi to them and went upstairs. Since then he'z acting wiered, not talking to me properly. Its not my fault that they saw me naked and whats the big deal, its not like i had sex with them. So why hes making so big out of it. What should I do. I am 26 and he is 28. We married last year in March 06.
and I love him alot.

PROBLEM: im suspecting, hes gonna divorce me, coz today he cancelled our holidayz trip to Eygpt (which we have been planning for nearly 1 year).

I really dnt know wot hes upto. Hes being very quiet since I have apologized (Even though it was his fault, as he always knew that i go swiming naked everyday). We are only two in the house.

2007-11-07 23:58:57 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

for example my bf likes the orange and coffee cream ones and i dont..i like the nut ones that hes not keen on..is this the same with you and your partner...is this a perfect match? lol.

2007-11-07 23:58:18 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-11-07 23:58:10 · 23 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

My cousin & i are close.My cousins beautiful,intelligent in 20s has degrees paid her own way through it all not her parents.

Her parents pretend not to have money their rich relatives abroad paid off 14k.The relatives till date havent helped cousin at all as shes beautiful,intelligent they feel if they help her by matchmake for her marriage or finances or take her abroad with them shell be better then their own kids someday.My cousins never taken any help from them or has she been offered by relatives who help her parents only.The relatives when in town try to meet her to keep tabs on her life.Due to relatives help to her parents her parents feel obligated to update relatives on my cousins life & pretend like they arent doing well in life.But my cousin wants nothing to do with them.My cousin wants to elope.If she introduces her man to relatives they will try to break up marriage due to jealousy,1 of her cousins tried it,relatives keep tabs on my cousins life.What should my cousin do?

2007-11-07 23:57:19 · 10 answers · asked by aguardianangel 1 in Marriage & Divorce

I like a 18 yera old girl and im 28 is the age difference not good?

2007-11-07 23:50:35 · 3 answers · asked by Phillip K 1 in Singles & Dating

I am living in hell, a husband that treates me as a furniture and keeps me completely dependant on him. Three days ago I had finally de confirmation and eventhough i would like to be free, I do have a 5 YEARS old and so far I can't find a job. He terrorized me, and all his mistreatment give me no power to decide. Any ideas to start getting out of this toxic relationship?

2007-11-07 23:47:00 · 13 answers · asked by Expat Froggy 3 in Marriage & Divorce

I have 5 daughters and there handmedowns are handmedout! You can say our family is definantly in crisis.We have sold everything there is to sell, we have lost our house and to top it off our car was totalled about 2 months ago.I pray things will turn around soon but at this moment i have to try to fix this problem,there goes the tears again please what can I do?

2007-11-07 23:44:42 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

A family friend is staying over the weekend,i told my boyfriend this and he said on the phone 'what if i want to see you'?'tell him he cant come over the weekend',but in a loud firm voice,he also moans if i dont answer the phone. What do you think?

2007-11-07 23:31:25 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I think he likes me too. It's the way he looked into my eyes & willingly share his problems with me.

2007-11-07 23:25:22 · 23 answers · asked by Meow 2 in Singles & Dating

I mean should I tell my brother if I do he will probably get the *** whooping of his life

2007-11-07 23:25:10 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

2007-11-07 23:12:54 · 13 answers · asked by Ms_4peace 5 in Marriage & Divorce

Iv read the book and i believe this to be true.....i think at the moment my man is in his cave and i dont know how to deal with it.
Book says just be patient and give him the space he needs wants/craves etc....but i am not finding it easy to back off. When he retreats like all women i feel the compulsion to be more clingy and i know that this isnt what he needs and definatly isnt the way forward.

Anyone else experience this and have any advice for me when ur man is in his ''cave''..........
thanks for reading x

2007-11-07 23:02:01 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Should I ask them to move? They are blocking my view of the T.V. set. I am missing reruns of Seinfeld.

2007-11-07 23:01:40 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

hi friends' i m soo confused, my hubby likes to watch blue films ,sex pic and video on net he do this almost whole night even i faught for this soo many times but he dont change this . we were marrid from 3 years . but he attracted towards these things. Idont know what tto do pls help me..............

2007-11-07 22:53:07 · 27 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

hi friends' i m soo confused, my hubby likes to watch blue films ,sex pic and video on net he do this almost whole night even i faught for this soo many times but he dont change this . we were marrid from 3 years . but he attracted towards these things. Idont know what tto do pls healp me..............

2007-11-07 22:52:19 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

My 2 freinds are gonna marry and become step-bro and step-sis on 12th dec and i need to destory their parents' relationship before its tto late. The reasons-
The grandmother of the male freind is racist and willl not allow her son(friend's dad0 to marry a non-hispanic and she had to is goin to diwosn the family and my freidn n his sis love the gran a LOT but teh dad doesn't care
The boy has attmpted suicide but survived and not hurt excpet for a few bruises(he jumped in front of a car but just fell to the ground).He doesn't wanan becoem step-bro to one of his clsoe freinds. He is aslo neglecting his sports and studies very bad. He has the capapcity to climb mt.everest or be einstein but this is messinh him up well bad
The girl also doesn't want to become a step-sis and is crying all the time but no suicide.She is thinking of taking drugs
If the couple marry also one of the girls maid loses her jobs as the boy'dad doesn't wanan spend money on here and chances are the maid will be

2007-11-07 22:49:54 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

When that girl keeps posting the same question over and over about sex on that cruise??

2007-11-07 22:43:24 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I am in England so dont bother me with any US law thanks.

2007-11-07 22:42:57 · 13 answers · asked by jonathan 3 in Marriage & Divorce

Do u think this is right or not? One of my best friends stops his relationship with his best friends, just because of his gf. Last night he talked to us and he said that he want to end his relationship with his 3 best friends. I have never seen some thing like this in my life. I think he is retard, all people know that girls don’t stay forever. I know that girl and his family and I know she will not stay with him for ever. WTF? I don’t gave a F***, but it is very interesting for me that how a guys can leave his friends because of a girl, and I know that we were very good friend and I did many thing to make him happy ,and also I have gf too.

2007-11-07 22:40:29 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

My shower is being held on 3/30/07.

Thanks :)

BTB- 5/3/08 :))

2007-11-07 22:37:20 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Weddings

2007-11-07 22:24:13 · 5 answers · asked by money 1 in Singles & Dating

Friends WRONG? Am I RIGHT about my husband?

I would always laugh at how in movies someone would just fall from the top (financially) but now that it has happened to my husband, I am in thick soup.

A litle background. My husband is an orphan, he was brought up in an orphange and has no relatives he knows. He struggled (and I am really proud of it) and became what he is ... And I love a lot for his hardwork. Recently he lost kinda all of it.

Point is, my friends say that I should leave him. YYY came and told me I should leave him coz he is worthless and no longer rich and I shud get a new life. DTY comes and tells me that he hardly has anything for himself and can afford to take care of me. I went to HHS (supposed best friend) to help me with this confusion but all I got was - You are bloody sentimental - just bcoz I told her I don't like seeing him like that and I started crying.

Am I wrong?

2007-11-07 22:13:12 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

Can anyone please help me

2007-11-07 22:12:04 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I would hate to see one of his conquests the morning after. Not even me could lift them.

2007-11-07 22:09:06 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

My boyfriend lied about having a girlfriend when we started going out. They were in the process of breaking up but he didn't tell me, he said he was single. Now after 3 months I have uncovered his web of lies and even though he has a very soft heart and is a wonderful person, I am so angry that he lied to me. He was still sleeping with her when we started to and he says he only did it to keep her quiet because she threatened to tell me. He said he didn't want to tell me because he didn't want to lose me. When we met we didn't start going out straight away. Now that I know, he is being honest about everything now and wants to earn my trust back and he is trying very hard. He doesn't speak to his ex anymore, he said he didn't want anything to do with her anymore but now she doesn't have anything to blackmail him with. I spoke to her and she admitted that she didn't want to let him go and that she was jealous of me. He said he would never cheat again, so should I give him another chance?

2007-11-07 22:06:21 · 12 answers · asked by spanky_da_munkey 2 in Singles & Dating

Thanks for answering, I really appreciate your answers :)

2007-11-07 22:05:21 · 22 answers · asked by CaffeineLover 3 in Family

ive tried asking this question already once or twice, but poeple arent understanding what im asking, so ill try and make it simpler.
the facts.

broke up with girlfriend 3 weeks ago
she's a great person, we split on good terms
i still want t o get back with her
she said she needed space and time.
since break up have been trying to be her friend.
few days ago i asked how how she sees us now?
she thiks we get on well as friends.
we havent spoken or seen each other since.
i realise that i cant keep pretending to be just friends when i still feel so much more.
butt i havent contacted her to tell her this.
today she has been ringing me, i havent answered.
left a message saying "i dont know whether you're avoiding me or what but you should pick up your phone once in a while"
she knows that i want her back, but i dont think she knows that im not being comfortable with being friends right now.

so should i contact her to tell her this? and start no contact again? or just keep ignoring her.

2007-11-07 22:04:48 · 14 answers · asked by James G 1 in Singles & Dating

Is it appropriate to register for Pittsburgh Steelers season tickets? ummm how can I do that?

2007-11-07 22:01:29 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Weddings

It`s a better idea to go to a bar,starbucks,or something else.

2007-11-07 21:58:35 · 19 answers · asked by bigpumpdaddy 4 in Singles & Dating

She constantly whinges and complains and goes on and cries. She does not listen just complains. I have a headache from her. What can I do?

2007-11-07 21:52:24 · 6 answers · asked by ♥♥♥♥♥♥♥ 2 in Friends