I think he likes me too. It's the way he looked into my eyes & willingly share his problems with me.
2007-11-07 23:25:22 · 23 answers · asked by Meow 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
May be he likes you and you like him for sure, but you should leave it at that. Going any further with this will bring lots of trouble to you, to him, and to his family. And I am sure you don't want to be the reason why some kids have divorced parents. You would understand this if you had divorced parents. It is unethical.
2007-11-07 23:30:25 · answer #1 · answered by Bisrtg 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
NO!!! Keep your hands off.
A married man with 3 kids - do you really want to wreck this family??
Just because someone looks into your eyes and shares problems with you does not mean that he wants to jump in bed with you and leave his wife and family.
Even an affair is out of the question, it will only lead to problems, heartache and its totally gonna wreck everything for this mans family.
I suggest you look for someone who is not married - don't be a home wrecker!!
2007-11-08 07:34:28 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
I hate to tell you this it's not alright if he's already marry. Now if he was leaving his wife and filing for divorce. I say go for it. You can just be his friend because you can't be his girlfriend because he already marry and that won't look right on your behalf. You don't want the same thing happen to you when you get marry. I understand that you think he like you like that, but you have to be honest with him. You can only be his friend not a cut bubby.
2007-11-08 07:32:27 · answer #3 · answered by Lady Fields 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
He wants free, uncommitted illicit sex and you are hanging out the Welcome sign.
He will not leave his wife for you, *especially* if he says he will. He's a lecturer, after all, and there's a new mistress coming along every single term. He likes breaking the rules.
You're just one in a looooong line, honey. At his age, you're not the first and you definitely won't be the last.
And I can tell you from experience: when you hear that old "my wife doesn't understand me" shinola, RUN do not walk in the other direction.
But no one learns from another's lessons. Just be careful, if you get pregnant you will find out what "lonely" means, pdq.
2007-11-08 07:31:30 · answer #4 · answered by anna 7 · 4⤊ 0⤋
It is not OK in my opinion. Leave him alone as you could ruin his life and his wife's and his children's. I am sure that at University there are lots of eligible men for you to fancy.
I am sure he will be flattered by your attention but that is all the more reason to stay away.
2007-11-08 07:43:47 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
As long as you know he's not gonna leave his family for you so all it will lead to is heartbreak and maybe a couple of minutes in the bed or the back seat of his car. IF YOU DO FOLLOW YOUR HEART MAKE SURE YOU LET HIM MAKE THE FIRST MOVE AND GET SOMEONE TO RECORD IT ON VIDEO TAPE!
2007-11-08 07:33:20 · answer #6 · answered by askmeguru21 5 · 1⤊ 1⤋
No. You're a lovestruck kid who's reading too much into the situation.
Seek your affections elsewhere, there are children and a family involved.
2007-11-08 07:29:22 · answer #7 · answered by Steve C 5 · 3⤊ 0⤋
Sorry to be as blunt, and as abrupt as possible.
HOME WRECKER.
Sorry again, but god no. Imagine what the future of their kids would be like, knowing that their father aint a role model. Dont just play with your life, not thinking of what it'll do to others please.
2007-11-08 07:36:30 · answer #8 · answered by Suki 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
sorry to say this but it isn't ok. he has 3 kids and a wife ! think how much you will hurt them if you have an affair. you dn't even no if he likes you too.
2007-11-08 07:28:40 · answer #9 · answered by Rachel B 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Would you want someone to make love to your HUSBAND that you made 3 children with??? Would it be Ok? Think about it!
2007-11-08 07:47:35 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋