Family & Relationships - 7 November 2007

is virginity for men important before marriage?

2007-11-07 21:47:11 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

i am very confuse..i think, he will make me crazy...since 2005, i am fell in love with him but finally we just a best friend..i always sharing my problem with him. so do he.. but, last week,he gives me a suddenly kiss and i think it is the best french kiss than ever i have taste...and yesterday he kiss me again..i am very happy but i scare that it is destroy my bestfriend dating...help me please..

2007-11-07 21:32:15 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-11-07 21:30:33 · 10 answers · asked by khanyisilemadondo 1 in Marriage & Divorce

my partner has given up the booze it has now been 14 days im very proud he was a heavey drinker is it possible to give it up on your own

2007-11-07 21:29:52 · 20 answers · asked by suzanne p 3 in Marriage & Divorce

a ring of his that i wear on my necklace, i still have. i've left messages with him to come and get his property but he hasn't yet. could he be avoiding that because he eventually wants to worm his way back into the good graces with me or should i just pawn it and move forward?

2007-11-07 21:28:34 · 3 answers · asked by greatdame53209 1 in Singles & Dating

Tell me why love is such a mess? Im genuinely asking this serious question..
Tell me why I cannot return the love that some men have for me and the person I love cannot return it back to me?

Love always seems to fall short.. I feel terrible when someone told me they cannot love me, so how can I tell someone I dont love them.. because i feel like they will feel.
Why does it have to be like this all the time?

And who should follow the castes system anyway ! it was abolished in 1948, I believe.
I know tradition is so important for you but the future is developement..
Even tradition changes..

Anyway I know im being silly..
Forgive me to those who I have hurt.
And thank you to those who have listened
happy diwali

2007-11-07 21:18:25 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

Can't have both. A good guy with very little in the way of financial support or a guy that can buy you anything, but treat you like garbage.

2007-11-07 21:18:02 · 25 answers · asked by bobble242 3 in Singles & Dating

In the U.S., I noticed there is a pattern of a lot of Black women dating/marrying White men than vice versa. Is there a reason for this? Are White men more appealing to Black women?

2007-11-07 21:08:20 · 25 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

After thinking through the responses to my question -

http://answers.yahoo.com/question/index;_ylt=AtQXbRef09vVXpOSngxAnCvsy6IX;_ylv=3?qid=20071106211740AAEVjZw

I would like to know how to phrase it more positively that won't get me such a negative reaction.

Just because I want to have lots of kids doesn't mean I want to raise them all - I would be happy to put some or all up for adoption. Also, I would be happy for the fathers to have custody, or to perhaps have a group relationship going. I would also be happy if I found one man to stay with - provided he let me bear children to other men (I would allow/encourage him to have children to other women as well - it's only fair)

I'm not doing it for the welfare, I'm doing it because I don't want to be an evolutionary dead-end. I want my genes to have the best chance of surviving. That may be selfish, but the goal of life is to reproduce itself.

2007-11-07 21:05:46 · 14 answers · asked by Philosopher 5 in Other - Family & Relationships

Is it me or does anyone else always manage to find someone at work that they secretly lust over?
I have a gf and have never nor would I ever cheat on her (or any of my previous gf's) but I always manage to find a woman at work I secretly want to f*&%.
I work in the medical field so there are always a lot of good looking woman around so its inevitable that I end up forming friendships with some of them. It all starts out innocent enough but I like to joke around and have fun at work so things always get flirty and before long I'm thinking about doing the nasty with them. Is this normal or am I just a horny devil??

2007-11-07 21:02:37 · 5 answers · asked by Evol 3 in Singles & Dating

2007-11-07 20:58:59 · 15 answers · asked by ken 3 in Singles & Dating

2007-11-07 20:54:15 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

This woman is my big bro's ex. She has another boyfriend but he keeps hanging on because she flirts with my brother and calls him sweet names and keeps leading him on.

She also makes up stories about her ex husband stalking her and being after her so my brother rushes to her to help her.

What she says is not true and her ex husband seems perfectly calm and just wants to see their son. She also gets very drunk and so drunk sometimes she cannot look after her son. Why would he be attracted to her?

She is very pretty and skinny and petite but there must be some other reason.

2007-11-07 20:52:05 · 7 answers · asked by ♥♥♥♥♥♥♥ 2 in Singles & Dating

IS LOVE FADELESS AND IF IT IS HOW CAN U TELL THAT .and CAN UR DAD HATE U?

2007-11-07 20:48:32 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

2007-11-07 20:46:34 · 10 answers · asked by Cupcake.....:) 4 in Singles & Dating

I know that I can't change my husband, but how I deal with his persistant personality? If anything goes wrong, it's my fault...and I'll even admit when I'm wrong so I don't feel that's the issue. He tells everyone I'm controlling and I wear the pants, but I only have control when he's not around. If I make even a simple decision with out running it by him first he gets angry. But everytime I run something by him he says "Do whatever you want, you're going to anyways". It's always been that way, but I'm not like that either. It's like he just made it up on his own!! And with the kids, if they misbehave it's because I'm not doing something right, and he even controls the way they're disiplined! How do I deal with this, and find a common ground?

2007-11-07 20:44:30 · 7 answers · asked by TMama 3 in Marriage & Divorce

He is ignoring me, this friend of mine.Really deliberately.Saying hello to everyone except me. I have done nothing. We used to have feelings for each other but that is done and dusted. Why the sudden ignoring me stuff?

2007-11-07 20:40:24 · 11 answers · asked by susieboo 4 in Marriage & Divorce

i never tried to cheatt on her.i just told this much a lie that i had no gf in past.
she was my crush and yea my girlfreind for over an year.and then she shifted over to some dammit city.hek she never replied.was i just a timepass?i know she doesn't have any other bf i am sure about that.but she never replied.why did she do so. i was really committed for her it was like calling her just to say hi.thats all.i was crazy for her dammit! and then one day she replied and did so several times but then she stopped it all again.seems like she doesn't even care to read my messages.last reply was in july.i feel that some day she will talk to me will talk to me.but she the hek doesn't care!i am really broken now my heart's all broken i feel like crying but the hek i am controlling.just if she doesn't want me why can't she leave me alone. when she had shifted she didn't talk to me ok fine taken!but then she replied after an year and the hek again stopped talking. i just have started hating her.:(

2007-11-07 20:30:07 · 15 answers · asked by hey 1 in Singles & Dating

Guys would you break up with a girl just because she wouldn't have sex with you? she'd do anything else. why?!

2007-11-07 20:26:10 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-11-07 20:18:52 · 10 answers · asked by rakeshso.dass 1 in Marriage & Divorce

I have a choice between hero honda Pleasure TVS Scooty pep+ or BAJAj Kristal

Which 2 take??
This vehicle is not only 4 me, but my mom n dad can also use it
so which 2 take

u all are very experienced people so help me out!!
Also Give reasons 4 ur suggestions


PLZ
Thanx

2007-11-07 20:03:34 · 2 answers · asked by perfectgirl_rutu 1 in Friends

2007-11-07 20:02:31 · 14 answers · asked by cubelo 2 in Marriage & Divorce

What can you suggest my partner when we have issues i like to sit down and discuss them calmly and we always end up in a massive arguement only after ignoring one another he will communicate via text messages when we are in the same house, the text messages are always very soppy and full of apologies. It happens every time. We love one another dearly but he loses his temper and says things he regrets where i am calm and never lose my temper. How do i get him out of this, i have sat down and tried but he just says that he cannot express his feelings verbally. Help cos i dont know what else to do?????: I am 8 yrs his senior

2007-11-07 19:49:12 · 10 answers · asked by andalusianbub 1 in Marriage & Divorce

OK LADIES.....If you could be a man for the next 24hrs, what would you be like and do???

2007-11-07 19:46:01 · 25 answers · asked by LITTLE NUGGET 3 in Singles & Dating

why do latino man prefer dark skin black woman over light skin black woman

2007-11-07 19:44:02 · 9 answers · asked by NarcolepticNancy 1 in Singles & Dating

sneaking up on you or in your room and then doing something stupid

2007-11-07 19:43:10 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

He is not abusive nor a bad man, just not THE man for me. We married right after I graduated highschool and he is 7 years older than me.

I feel we married for the wrong reasons, as we just had a baby.

He works out of town and when he comes back I stress. I am so unhappy with him around.

He doesn't take care of himself, he doesn't make any decisions and I feel like his mom not his wife. Any large decisions with the house or van or kids is mine to make but when it backfires he blames me.

His idea of a good time is a bag of chips.

His constant answer for things is "I dunno" or "Let's wait and see" and its on stuff that CANNOT wait and see.

I know he is not depressed as I forced him to see the doctor and told him about his behavior. I know he isn't dumb as a box of rocks as he is a foreman at work. Thing is I feel like I married Forrest Gump.

I feel dragged down by him. I KNOW he loves his family, but man alive the toll it takes on ME.

2007-11-07 19:31:25 · 20 answers · asked by waywildcherri 2 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-11-07 19:29:51 · 6 answers · asked by Genie W 1 in Singles & Dating

ive been going out with this guy for about a year and recently i feel like he's just been using me for sex. The problem is that I love him so much and he knows that so he openly hooks up with other girls because he knows I'm not going to do anything about it. i always feel so sleazy and empty after i've been with him and it makes me do strange things because i feel like it will take away some of the pain and it really scares me. i cant break up with him i know it doesnt make any sense but i cant and i just love him so much and i dont know what to do.

2007-11-07 19:09:34 · 19 answers · asked by lalala 3 in Singles & Dating

innocent?
looks?
body?
naughty?
confidence?
connection?
kiss?

2007-11-07 19:06:45 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating